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I want a girl that's good at martial arts and has been training since a very young age. Also when I mean good I mean male-level good and not some pathetic amateur stuff. Also tranny =/= girl.
 
I have big fat ass that jiggles and claps when I walk down the street. Everybody stops and turns their head to admire my gorgeous beach balls of flesh.
 
Cranjis McBasketball said:
Is dating worth it?
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Depends on what you want in life. If you want emotional connection, affection, and shared experiences, then yeah, obviously a good relationship can enhance your life a lot. But if you're someone who doesn't have a desire for that, then probably not.

You're not making a "mistake" by not trying btw. You're just choosing not to invest in something that hasn't proven its value to you yet. That's not irrational.

But doing nothing forever out of fear or apathy will catch up to you. If you never try at all, you won’t learn what you actually want or don't want.
 
bear hammer said:
Depends on what you want in life. If you want emotional connection, affection, and shared experiences, then yeah, obviously a good relationship can enhance your life a lot. But if you're someone who doesn't have a desire for that, then probably not.
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I definitely want the shared experiences part. I think my main issue is that I'm bad at socialization and I don't like it that much. I really don't like having to be "on" for socialization, paying attention to non verbal cues by the other person, coming up with responses to quips on the spot, making sure that I'm not doing anything weird without noticing and trying to prevent awkward silences. My worry is that a relationship would be like that all the time, and I don't want that. That's the main reason I prefer online socialization, the other person can't see me and I can take plenty of time to respond.

There's more I could say but I'm worried about it being TMI, in fact I'm really worried all of this is already TMI.
 
Cranjis McBasketball said:
I think my main issue is that I'm bad at socialization and I don't like it that much. I really don't like having to be "on" for socialization, paying attention to non verbal cues by the other person, coming up with responses to quips on the spot, making sure that I'm not doing anything weird without noticing and trying to prevent awkward silences.
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Just be up front about your crippling autism so they know the deal. Some girls like that. Right ladies?
 
Online I think is perhaps the worst way to meet women. KF girls often already come from Tumblr and the like. They already hate Men and want to destroy them, maybe due to past trauma from Fathers or boyfriends.. Also are you blocking them of their utopia of being a millioniare yacht girl? I'm not sure. I just sense a hatred there. Looking elsewhere, say Onlyfans or 4chan, there are girls hoping for a financial savior for the moment. They might not be interested in you, but in the meantime you can finance them, but your are a stepping stone to something better.
 
NoBueno said:
Online I think is perhaps the worst way to meet women. KF girls often already come from Tumblr and the like. They already hate Men and want to destroy them, maybe due to past trauma from Fathers or boyfriends.. Also are you blocking them of their utopia of being a millioniare yacht girl? I'm not sure. I just sense a hatred there. Looking elsewhere, say Onlyfans or 4chan, there are girls hoping for a financial savior for the moment. They might not be interested in you, but in the meantime you can finance them, but your are a stepping stone to something better.
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Take the blue pill, and you paypig for a girl on onlyfans.
Take the red pill, you become a slave for a troon on 4chan.
Maybe also don't date people when you live a whole country away from them? Online dating only works if both of you have the financial means to meet eachother (which is very expensive and time consuming if you also plan to marry)
People seem happy to jump into a relationship but don't want to consider the long-term aspects. They just want to say "heh virgins i got a gf" and then immediately jump ship whenever the girl wants something more.
 
stupid fufu said:
Take the blue pill, and you paypig for a girl on onlyfans.
Take the red pill, you become a slave for a troon on 4chan.
Maybe also don't date people when you live a whole country away from them? Online dating only works if both of you have the financial means to meet eachother (which is very expensive and time consuming if you also plan to marry)
People seem happy to jump into a relationship but don't want to consider the long-term aspects. They just want to say "heh virgins i got a gf" and then immediately jump ship whenever the girl wants something more.
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I'm kinda trying to offer advice, as a young man I didn't know shit, I didn't really know what I wanted in a woman. And I realized, the women being as naive as me, didn't really know about men either. When you are young it's like feeling around in a blacked out room, you aren't sure what you are looking for, and neither are they. It feels like almost luck of the draw if things work out
 
Cranjis McBasketball said:
Is dating worth it? From the outside looking in it looks like a lot of stress and work for a pay off that doesn't really seem worth it. I've literally made zero attempts to date or to even talk to someone in the context of trying to start a relationship. Am I making a mistake by not trying?
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Trying to date when you really don't want to, and it seems like you don't, will just add on more stress. If you don't want to do it, and don't see any or enough value in doing it, it's not a mistake to not do it. You know what dating entails; you can make that assessment without experience in it. Not everything that is for everyone, even things like this that seem to be universally desired.

If you change your mind, you can try later. These days, that's perfectly fine. You won't have a worse experience for only getting into it later in life. (I edited this after reading your other comment where you explained your feelings about socialization.) Really, I think that you should try platonic relationships first, if you want to connect with people, or just have people to talk to. That will be way less stressful for you right now.
 
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If you have a thing for skellybois and: are XX chromosoned, are under 200 pounds, are not a single mother (tm), and aren't currently addicted to ketamine, then congratulations you are eligible for my sperm donation (0 results found lol).
 
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