Culture Couple charges wedding guests $333 each in effort to save money

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NEW YORK -- For many couples, their big day requires a big budget.

On average, weddings now cost couples tens of thousands of dollars.

"The biggest price tag is typically the venue, and that accounts for about 37% of the total cost," said The Knot Deputy Editor Esther Lee.

To cut down on spending, newlyweds Nova and Reemo Styles got creative, thinking of their nuptials like a concert and charging guests to attend their celebration.

"And I said, 'People choose to go to Beyoncé concert, because they know that they're gonna have an experience. Let's put the stress on the guests, and let's sell tickets for a wedding,'" Nova said.

"I was like, 'Babe, people aren't going to come,'" Reemo said.

People did come, but there was also some pushback.

"'I would never spend money on tickets.' 'I don't care.' 'Who do you guys think you are? Jay-Z and Beyoncé?'" Nova recalled.

The tickets, priced at $333 apiece, earned guests a seat on their double-decker bus and a 12-hour adventure in New York City.

Their strategy spared them $70,000 in wedding expenses.

Other couples are flipping the traditional script to save some cash.

"We're seeing a rise in brunch weddings," Lee said.

Some, like Courtney and Alex Quist, opt for an earlier celebration versus traditional evening affairs, trading in the filet and fish for pizza and mimosas.

"I would say we probably saved like $40,000," Courtney said.

"We had a beautiful wedding, an awesome reception and the people that we love and care about the most were able to be there, so I wouldn't change a thing," Alex said.


 
Why make extravagant weddings? The real money should be rebuilding your lives together. Invest, save, travel.
 
The moment I saw the title I knew they were black. Why you ask? I don't know where these people are from, but here in Ohio this is a thing with black people. They'll charge people to come to parties, weddings, and such. I worked with a black woman who charged people $30 a piece to come to her six year old daughter's birthday party.

But $333 is a whole other level. What the fuck.
 
My wedding cost $70 and took 5 minutes and the bitch of an officiant had the nerve to ask for a tip afterwards
 
earned guests a seat on their double-decker bus and a 12-hour adventure in New York City
I actually like this part of the wedding plans - give them memories rather than a chance to get drunk and ugly with each other.

My folks got married, and instead of a reception, they took the wedding party with them on a tour of a house that is a National Historic Monument. Hell, I'd take my wedding reception on a trip to look for rocks/gems/fossils.

My wedding cost $70 and took 5 minutes and the bitch of an officiant had the nerve to ask for a tip afterwards
I would have looked at the officiant sagely and replied, "Doing the right thing is its own reward."
 
Why make extravagant weddings? The real money should be rebuilding your lives together. Invest, save, travel.
Some people think that spending more will give them a better (and thus, more memorable) experience. I don't know a whole lot about weddings, but wouldn't it be better to wait for the renewal of vows if you absolutely need to have a lavish event such as this one? That way you can both save the money needed so that you don't go into debt, have time to actually know the person you are marrying, and you aren't going to be worried about everything in the event turning out perfectly because you know that that simply won't happen
 
Why make extravagant weddings? The real money should be rebuilding your lives together. Invest, save, travel.
If it was a religious celebration, and an event where two families were being merged, it would be important and it would make sense to celebrate it. In such a case the chance of a frivolous divorce would also be low. But the last people who had such standards in the west were maybe catholic italians, and now they're mostly secular too, so the only reason for a wedding celebration is as a cargo cult party to give people the feeling of importance that would have been felt no matter what in better times.
 
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Some people think that spending more will give them a better (and thus, more memorable) experience. I don't know a whole lot about weddings, but wouldn't it be better to wait for the renewal of vows if you absolutely need to have a lavish event such as this one? That way you can both save the money needed so that you don't go into debt, have time to actually know the person you are marrying, and you aren't going to be worried about everything in the event turning out perfectly because you know that that simply won't happen
Powerlevel but the only time I have seen a vow renewal I was chilling on the beach with my friend and like 10 people walked up semi-near us and gathered round and two of them talked about how much they had loved each other for the last 20 years and the whole thing was so heckin' wholesome and everyone on the beach clapped.

Everyone being the eight guests plus me and my friend. I don't even think they were aware that we were watching until we started clapping and cheering.

I'm sure they spent all of $100 on Hawaiian shirts and leis for the husband and wife.

Heckin' wholesome.
 
Powerlevel but the only time I have seen a vow renewal I was chilling on the beach with my friend and like 10 people walked up semi-near us and gathered round and two of them talked about how much they had loved each other for the last 20 years and the whole thing was so heckin' wholesome and everyone on the beach clapped.

Everyone being the eight guests plus me and my friend. I don't even think they were aware that we were watching until we started clapping and cheering.

I'm sure they spent all of $100 on Hawaiian shirts and leis for the husband and wife.

Heckin' wholesome.
I'd believe that. Most couples that stay married long enough and on good enough terms for them to do a vote renewal probably know that spending time with the one you love is what matters the most, not 2-meters-tall cakes or rings that costed $40k
 
I spent exactly $1000 on my wedding, most of that went to the celebrant to do the paperwork and he was worth every fucking dollar. The only thing people paid for was their drinks at the pub we went to for lunch.

On the otherhand my maid of honor (and only maid) spent $40,000 on a huge wedding event, it was lovely but the groom said our cheapo wedding was better by a long shot.
 
Obligatory: some American wedding 'norms' are really fucking weird.

(Yes, I know charging to attend is not yet a norm. This business where the bridesmaids buy their own dresses is weird AF though)
 
I went to a big wedding in America and they rented a huge area, had a special honey moon cottage thing before, various stuff. They were divorced about two years later, I think. Maybe three. Compare and contrast the wedding of two mates of mine in Bongland where it was done in a civil registry office where nearly everyone bar the bride's mum and dad (who seemed lovely, btw) were done up in punk/bondage/rave gear and they had these dirt cheap matching rings. I'd rarely seen two people so in love. Admittedly it was partly over their shared love of Ketamine but point stands - it was a celebration and though it's been a while, they were together last I heard.

We all went to the upstairs room of a pub afterwards where they had some sandwiches.

There seems to be so much pressure on people over how a wedding should be these days, and I feel nearly all of it starts with the wedding industry.
 
My in-laws gave us $10k for our wedding, and we ended up spending $10050. I would have been happy with 10 guests, but my wife has a lot of friends so... we still managed to feed, entertain and provide drinks for almost 100 people.
I've heard of people spending upwards of $50k, and they don't make any more than we do. It's not worth going into debt over.
 
I’ve been to several weddings in literal castles. Very nice. But… Some of the nicest weddings I’ve ever been to have been on the beach with everyone bringing a crate of beers, and ordering pizza. Bride in flip flops and kids running around.

Weddings don’t have to cost a lot of money. You need a licence, witnesses , and the people you love and some food and drink. It’s about the marriage, not the wedding.
 
Pro tip: hotels will rape you seventy ways to Sunday on venue charges. Never have a wedding or reception at a hotel. They literally have an entire department that works full time to Jew you out of your money.

If religious the church will usually let you use the church hall for a few hundred bucks - and that usually includes them cleaning up for you! Just schedule your wedding so it doesn’t collide with their services. Or do what friends did and get married during the normal service and invite the entire congregation to the party downstairs! Old church goes love weddings and you will more than make up your costs in gifts from people you’ve never talked to.

Or rent a hall. Look for ones that have no food service because catering is amazingly cheaper than paying hotel staff for hotel quality food.

Most larger roadhouses in the country have a room that can be used for a smaller wedding/reception, and barn rentals are common.

Don’t blow your entire budget on the venue - better to be the person overspending at motel 6 and covered in food and good drink than the person who rented out the historic chalet and can barely afford a few chocolate dipped strawberries and some Bud Light.

And finally, invite the kids. If your wedding can’t accommodate children, you’re already fucked from the beginning anyway.

And $800 spend on a bounce house rental will go much further with the adult guests than $800 spend on faggot flowers or some shit.

You can hire an ambulance to sit next to the venue for only $300 or so. Worthwhile if you have a good party!
 
The moment I saw the title I knew they were black. Why you ask? I don't know where these people are from, but here in Ohio this is a thing with black people. They'll charge people to come to parties, weddings, and such. I worked with a black woman who charged people $30 a piece to come to her six year old daughter's birthday party.

But $333 is a whole other level. What the fuck.
Lmao pay money to attend a party where you are likely either going to shot or witness another Nigger shoot a Nigger
 
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