Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Pickman's Modeling Agency]

It's not a shit post, it's well known that men keep it short and women blabber. So if autism is involved then details are kept even shorter and apparently women don't like that. Also if you have no ability to produce dopamine and are therefore nihilistic and don't get mental feedback from doing any activities (as in transmitters rewarding you for doing something) and therefore don't have decision making abilities or a want to do anything in life, and only doing what you absolutely have to do to complete another day and get to go to bed at night and get a break from life, then women don't like that because they want men to make decisions and be pro active don't they?


Can you elaborate? Do you mean that people with autism are seen as being pure at birth and then corrupted by the things around them over time?

You sound like you aren't interested in having a woman in your life for the companionship element; might I suggest a housekeeping service?

If I met a woman who told me "Men are horrible brainless rapeapes and I could never find one I actually like. How do I convince one to mow my lawn once a month?" I would tell her the same. You clearly don't want a relationship, so paying for the service itself is better.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Ladies, is it good advice if I get into an argument with my Fiancé and tell her that we shouldn’t fight because it’s an election year

I suggest you start with figuring out that - I'm assuming, I know - your betrothed is a fiancée, not a fiancé.

That single joke is basically thin ice like doing a house project with your wife.

Random PL - my ex-husband and I did a huge home renovation*. Not a single argument. The contractor even commented on how little friction there was between us.** ...And yet.

* large-scale and contracted, not us doing it. He barely knew what a hammer was, much less how or when to use it [[not a euphemism]] [well, maybe could be, but not intended atm]. In any case, any smaller-scale house projects were on me.

**Only bc this is in the girl forum, I will also add that I recall looking up our astrological compatibility before we were married. It said we were better suited as business partners than mates. :-/. SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU IGNORE THE STARS.

Do you think women don't really understand philosophy or at least have the ability to see the larger world beyond their own lives?

I came across an autistic Youtuber who said that men on the spectrum shouldn't date because they don't make good partners (he also has TDS though so he might be retarded). Do you think women would get annoyed by autistic tendencies? They say women don't like it when men don't speak or explain what they are thinking but it is quite annoying to have to go into details and explain yourself. I never want to tell my mother when I feel sick because then she wants a list of symptoms so if I had to live with a woman she may have to be austistic as well. And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.

You seem to be conflating male and autistic.

And, assuming she doesn't have reason to think you're hypochondriacal, your mother wants symptoms (data) because she is your mother and wants to help find a way to ease your suffering.

 

[Local Farmer]

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Only bc this is in the girl forum, I will also add that I recall looking up our astrological compatibility before we were married. It said we were better suited as business partners than mates. :-/. SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU IGNORE THE STARS.

This post made me look it up out of curiosity, apparently we’re an explosive fire cracker relationship, I have no clue what that means

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

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This post made me look it up out of curiosity, apparently we’re an explosive fire cracker relationship, I have no clue what that means

I'd guess it is meant to say you have minor spicy flareups but not serious dysfunction. But you have to do it with full info of dates, times, places of birth.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I got drunk and argued with my gf over her own drunkposting last night but she's not mad at me. What does this mean?

It means she knows you were drunk. Did you finally moved in?

 

[Agares]

It means she knows you were drunk. Did you finally moved in?

Getting there slowly but surely but the move/ new job hasn't happened yet.

I accused her of posting thirst traps to her snap story (I barely use that app) and she responded by saying it was an accident because she was also drunk. And she also barely ever posts anything too. And to be fair, I've never seen her post a borderline bra pic before.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Getting there slowly but surely but the move/ new job hasn't happened yet.

I accused her of posting thirst traps to her snap story (I barely use that app) and she responded by saying it was an accident because she was also drunk. And she also barely ever posts anything too. And to be fair, I've never seen her post a borderline bra pic before.

Uff defo she was drunk but better hurry up nigga . Both of you have issues that are made worse by being far apart.b

 

[Agares]

Uff defo she was drunk but better hurry up nigga . Both of you have issues that are made worse by being far apart.b

I'm an asshole to her when she sets off my trust issues and I'm not sorry. I will never be a pushover ever again.

But she took it in stride last night. This has happened before but this was the last time it wasn't as much as an immediate surrender.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

But she took it in stride last night. This has happened before but this was the last time it wasn't as much as an immediate surrender.

there is no justification beyond drunk/high, for posting retarded shit on snapchat ie bra pictures , she knows she messed up bro.

 

[Forsaken Wanderer]

You sound like you aren't interested in having a woman in your life for the companionship element; might I suggest a housekeeping service?

If I met a woman who told me "Men are horrible brainless rapeapes and I could never find one I actually like. How do I convince one to mow my lawn once a month?" I would tell her the same. You clearly don't want a relationship, so paying for the service itself is better.

I don't want to pay for a housekeeping service I want a soulmate, I want to escape the loneliness and have someone I can trust and want to be around. I didn't say women are retarded though, I'm saying they don't like to deal with people like me because they don't want to deal with uncommon behaviours and men with differences. I think I have proven by point really. Does that mean that men on the spectrum are then destined to be alone... the answer is most likely yes.

@Friend of Dorothy Parker I am not hypochondriacal I am like most men I don't concern myself with health issues. What I mean is that you say something minor for small talk and then you have to give every last detail and it's very draining to do so. Sometimes less is more and sometimes words are a chore.

 

[ephermeral]

And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.

Nobody enjoys cleaning, I shudder to think what your home looks like.

and only doing what you absolutely have to do to complete another day and get to go to bed at night and get a break from life, then women don't like that because they want men to make decisions and be pro active don't they?

Do women want men who are pro-active and are able to be decisive? Yes. However, they also want men with goals and their own interests. Is there really nothing that you enjoy doing to break up the monotony of work and sleep? What do you like to do when you aren't working, sleeping or shit posting? To me, your post reads more like depression than being on the spectrum.

I got drunk and argued with my gf over her own drunkposting last night but she's not mad at me. What does this mean?

Were you upset because you could tell from her post that she was drunk or were you upset about the content of her post? For example, is she airing her/your dirty laundry for all and sundry?

 

[Forsaken Wanderer]

Nobody enjoys cleaning, I shudder to think what your home looks like.


Do women want men who are pro-active and are able to be decisive? Yes. However, they also want men with goals and their own interests. Is there really nothing that you enjoy doing to break up the monotony of work and sleep? What do you like to do when you aren't working, sleeping or shit posting? To me, your post reads more like depression than being on the spectrum.


Were you upset because you could tell from her post that she was drunk or were you upset about the content of her post? For example, is she airing her/your dirty laundry for all and sundry?

Apparently a lot of women do enjoy cleaning it appeals to their orderly nature. Yeah my house could use a bit of a clean but what bachelor pad isn't a bit on the dirty side.

Why is it necessary for men to have goals? Isn't work and chores enough? I don't really have much time outside of work but no I don't enjoy anything at all, I just find something on Youtube to put on that will distract me, sometimes just as background noise, and that is about all I do. Once in a blue moon I'll play a game but I don't really have the drive anymore. I think depression goes hand in hand with being on the spectrum for some reason.

Perhaps whatever wires are crossed to cause unusual behaviors also prevents dopamine being produced. But in either case women don't like depressed men either. It's sadly a bit of a spiraling cycle of rejection leading to mental health getting worse isn't it.

What is an example of one of these goals a man must have?

 

[I_Lurk_Here]

Seeing how bad modern technology and culture Is makes me miss the days when the worst thing was people watching too much TV. At least then they had something to look back on. If someone wasted hours watching man vs food, they could at least tell you about it. What will today's youth tell you about Fornite? skibdi toilet? discord? I mean, what memories will they have? Even their music is forgettable. Studies have shown zoomers just put on nameless Spotify playlists and listen to them, or they listen to whatever fad rapper is on that they will then forget months down the line.

I think in your post your nostalgia talks. I wouldn't argue that spending hours on the TV vs computer are radically different and same thing goes for being a shut-in a decade+ ago vs post-covid.

 

[Montalbane]

@Smigger wont let me reply but whatevs.

Modern life is rubbish is a legit great album by blur.

 

[cybertoaster]

imagine telling 12 year old me in 2009

Bro you're not even 30 and you keep talking about the past as if you weren't 7 when facebook came out.

 

[Susanna]

Apparently a lot of women do enjoy cleaning it appeals to their orderly nature.

I’m one of those, but it doesn’t mean I want to clean up after a slovenly man. I enjoy cleanliness and there’sa satisfaction in making things look well put together, but it’s still a chore and I expect my man to do his part.

 

[TapewormSalesman]

Going to the coffee shop and talking to people is so much better than talking online, but even then, everyone's on their phones

Do Americans really go up to randos in coffee shops and start talking for no reason? I have a feeling people are on their phones to avoid that exact scenario.

What will today's youth tell you about Fornite? skibdi toilet? discord?

They'll tell you about the fun they had fucking around in fortnite with their discord friends while singing the skibbidi toilet song, yes. Everything is the best when you're 12.

Kids will never experience Xbox Live; they will only experience Steam and Discord, where a tranny janny tells you what you are allowed to think while they get groomed into freaks themselves

Baaaaaack in my day kids were only getting groomed in AOL chatrooms, MSN and Omegle like real people should.
I'm not saying it's good right now by any means, but this sort of idealization is stupid. You sound like an old man that's extremely assmad about his kids not liking the same things he did and not preforming a 1:1 re-do of his childhood, but it's even worse because you're not even 30 and probably have no kids. Stop trying to live though random zoomers, they have enough shit on their plate.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

Apparently a lot of women do enjoy cleaning it appeals to their orderly nature.

almost every woman i've dated or been friends with has been the personification of "damn bitch, you live like this". Its always me who is the organization freak and women are an absolute mess. Maybe not that bad but pic related is so dam relatable

 

[isalaide]

Apparently a lot of women do enjoy cleaning it appeals to their orderly nature. Yeah my house could use a bit of a clean but what bachelor pad isn't a bit on the dirty side.

Why is it necessary for men to have goals? Isn't work and chores enough? I don't really have much time outside of work but no I don't enjoy anything at all, I just find something on Youtube to put on that will distract me, sometimes just as background noise, and that is about all I do. Once in a blue moon I'll play a game but I don't really have the drive anymore. I think depression goes hand in hand with being on the spectrum for some reason.

Perhaps whatever wires are crossed to cause unusual behaviors also prevents dopamine being produced. But in either case women don't like depressed men either. It's sadly a bit of a spiraling cycle of rejection leading to mental health getting worse isn't it.

What is an example of one of these goals a man must have?

In your case mate, can I suggest your goal for the next few days and beyond is to clean your fucking house? Really clean that motherfucker. Declutter! Debulk all the stuff you don't want! Reorganise! Deep clean! There are tons of Youtube cleaning channels with good tips! Use bleach!
I fuck hate cleaning but I have always made arrangements for my home to be fully clean and tidy at all times. If you can't afford to do that, you will need to clean it your fucking self. Not cleaning your house is like not washing your body or clothes; it's a failure of self care.

I don't want to pay for a housekeeping service I want a soulmate, I want to escape the loneliness and have someone I can trust and want to be around. I didn't say women are retarded though, I'm saying they don't like to deal with people like me because they don't want to deal with uncommon behaviours and men with differences. I think I have proven by point really. Does that mean that men on the spectrum are then destined to be alone... the answer is most likely yes.

@Friend of Dorothy Parker I am not hypochondriacal I am like most men I don't concern myself with health issues. What I mean is that you say something minor for small talk and then you have to give every last detail and it's very draining to do so. Sometimes less is more and sometimes words are a chore.

I want you to think hard about what you have to offer a potential partner. Remember a partnership is an exchange. You are looking for someone to be your bangmaid, or at least your emotional support animal. And housekeeper.
In return, you offer squalid living conditions, and are clear that you won't even talk to her because 'muh autism'. You also sound chronically depressed. You have no life goals at all and you are only prepared to wageslave and come home and crawl into bed.
What the fuck is any woman, autistic or not, supposed to get out of such a life companion? Not companionship - you won't even talk to her. Your house is filthy, so not even a nice place to live or the advantage of shared living costs. You want a soulmate, but intend to come home from work, crawl into bed and fucking ignore her. You are offering a potential companion absolutely fucking nothing. Why the fuck would anyone want to accept this offer?
Can you see what the problem is here? A woman is not an appliance to make your life easier or more pleasant. She has to get something out of the relationship too. You aren't even willing to talk to her!

 

[Agares]

Were you upset because you could tell from her post that she was drunk or were you upset about the content of her post? For example, is she airing her/your dirty laundry for all and sundry?

I could tell that she was drunk. She rarely posts anything to story and it was a shaky cam selfie of her in a thankfully not too reavealing bra. She also told me she was drinking and I kinda know her schedule with that.

To answer your question, I was upset because she was drunk and kind of at the context of her post.

there is no justification beyond drunk/high, for posting retarded shit on snapchat ie bra pictures , she knows she messed up bro.

She told me she wasn't aware of it. She took a normal selfie too and I guess uploaded the other one without even knowing until I pointed it out. Only 2 ppl saw it, myself included before she took it down.