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CharcoalChkn said:
Autism presents way differently in women than men. They are often more socially functional when compared to males on the spectrum and I would say that in general they hide it a lot better as well.

There is no honeytrap for women with true and honest autism (not the self diagnosed "aren't I quirky twitter" kind) that I am aware of.
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Maybe things they'll avoid, but not a place to find them.
Anime conventions in the early 2000s maybe, but not anymore.
 
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?

I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.

I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
 
Clown said:
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?

I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.

I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
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IMO it's a pretty big factor, YMMV when it comes to individual women but I am not fat and never have been and I would not be attracted to a man who was. To me it indicates a lack of self-control and self-care, esp for men (women get fat easier and lose fat with more difficulty). I'm not saying I'd recoil in revulsion from you, but it's something I really don't like. However I think I'm tougher on that than some other women. If I were you, I'd focus more on how you LOOK vs actual pounds, if that makes sense.
 
Quarantine gave a lot of autistic women an excuse to never leave the house, when it ended a lot never bothered to return to their daily lives. If the quarantine didn't kick start the trend then it was at least the nail in the coffin. Why would they? Entire systems had been redone with the express purpose of catering to a population that had to stay indoors. And if you were just about to go to college, it's more than likely that whatever friend group they had gradually dissipated as people moved away for studies. So a reinforced internet that had a lot more suction power combined with not being dragged by their more socially gifted buddies out into the sun = no more autistic females in public.

Not trying to make any political statements about coofvid btw, just saying that this seemed like the perfect recipe for these certain types of women to not go outside anymore.
 
I'm about to be a major downer in both these responses.

AWizard said:
What do you think is the solution? What is the natural point of congregation for your late 20s/early 30s as a socially inept dorky nerd now?
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I don't think there is one. I think like @umami's milk pointed out, there's no incentive to go outside. Your best bet is to either hang out where those women hang out online and learn from them (don't go to those spaces looking for a partner, but just to observe) or to gently unstick this idea in your brain of wanting an autist gf. If you find someone in public, great, if you find someone online, also great, but I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that things aren't more difficult now than they were ten years ago.

Clown said:
How important is weight/obesity to women, when looking for a guy as an attractive partner?

I'm a 5'10" at 240lbs~ (guestimating). I've got broad enough shoulders & a big enough chest where it doesn't spill out or make me look like a hamplanet, but it's obvious that I'm obese.

I want to exercise more for my own personal health, but I'm curious how much it really matters and why it matters.
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I'll be direct. It's bad.
Think of it this way. The male body is about twice as strong as an equivalently-sized female. Not only that, but your body gains muscle more easily than women's bodies, and it's actually more difficult to gain fat given your naturally higher testosterone.
A fat man is an unhealthy man. It's not just about aesthetics (although that is a major factor).
Don't also take this as me excusing women being overweight or telling you you have to accept a fat gf yourself. I'm only talking about men here.
Get fit, for yourself more than for women, but especially for yourself. You have a god-given advantage, and if you're overweight now, then just consider it a bulk. Your newbie gains will be awesome.
 
Kamui said:
The other farms/girlchans are mostly autistic women.
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Most nonnies in relationships mention meeting someone through their friend group or dating apps. Those with online only relationships largely get made fun of over there and are told to stop wasting their time.

NoReturn said:
Your best bet is to either hang out where those women hang out online and learn from them (don't go to those spaces looking for a partner, but just to observe) or to gently unstick this idea in your brain of wanting an autist gf. If you find someone in public, great, if you find someone online, also great, but I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that things aren't more difficult now than they were ten years ago.
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I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
 
oishii desu said:
I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
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But also don't be that guy who tries to bang the girl in the party and ruin the whole group vibe..
 
CharcoalChkn said:
But also don't be that guy who tries to bang the girl in the party and ruin the whole group vibe..
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^This. Seriously.

Nothing kills a vibe quicker than acting desperate, especially when you’re in a nerdy group setting of any sort.

Even true and honest autistic women can smell the desperation when you try to bang her, or at least say that you do. Neither she, or any other women for that matter, are possessions to be “conquered” as the Manosphere types would put it.
 
oishii desu said:
Most nonnies in relationships mention meeting someone through their friend group or dating apps. Those with online only relationships largely get made fun of over there and are told to stop wasting their time.


I agree with this and the advice to get into boardgames and DnD. If you can find a group you click with it's a gateway into other circles, which at the very least will be connected to other autistic interests.
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CharcoalChkn said:
But also don't be that guy who tries to bang the girl in the party and ruin the whole group vibe..
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Kiwisee said:
^This. Seriously.

Nothing kills a vibe quicker than acting desperate, especially when you’re in a nerdy group setting of any sort.

Even true and honest autistic women can smell the desperation when you try to bang her, or at least say that you do. Neither she, or any other women for that matter, are possessions to be “conquered” as the Manosphere types would put it.
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This is why I said earlier to also consider your social groups as links to possible romantic things, and not the link itself.
If you make genuine friends with the women in the DnD group, without wanting to bang them, then they're more likely to recommend you to their single friends, or bring up your name when someone is looking.
Similarly, this also works with men, a guy who genuinely thinks well of you might mention you to his own partner, and then she might know someone from there.
 
Ladies, is it good advice if I get into an argument with my Fiancé and tell her that we shouldn’t fight because it’s an election year
 
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Do you think women don't really understand philosophy or at least have the ability to see the larger world beyond their own lives?

I came across an autistic Youtuber who said that men on the spectrum shouldn't date because they don't make good partners (he also has TDS though so he might be retarded). Do you think women would get annoyed by autistic tendencies? They say women don't like it when men don't speak or explain what they are thinking but it is quite annoying to have to go into details and explain yourself. I never want to tell my mother when I feel sick because then she wants a list of symptoms so if I had to live with a woman she may have to be austistic as well. And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.
 
Forsaken Wanderer said:
Do you think women don't really understand philosophy or at least have the ability to see the larger world beyond their own lives?

I came across an autistic Youtuber who said that men on the spectrum shouldn't date because they don't make good partners (he also has TDS though so he might be retarded). Do you think women would get annoyed by autistic tendencies? They say women don't like it when men don't speak or explain what they are thinking but it is quite annoying to have to go into details and explain yourself. I never want to tell my mother when I feel sick because then she wants a list of symptoms so if I had to live with a woman she may have to be austistic as well. And enjoy cleaning. In fact, it would be better if all meetings took place at her house.
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I'm hoping this is a shitpost because whew lad.
 
Pickman's Modeling Agency said:
I'm hoping this is a shitpost because whew lad.
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It's not a shit post, it's well known that men keep it short and women blabber. So if autism is involved then details are kept even shorter and apparently women don't like that. Also if you have no ability to produce dopamine and are therefore nihilistic and don't get mental feedback from doing any activities (as in transmitters rewarding you for doing something) and therefore don't have decision making abilities or a want to do anything in life, and only doing what you absolutely have to do to complete another day and get to go to bed at night and get a break from life, then women don't like that because they want men to make decisions and be pro active don't they?

umami's milk said:
This website has what is probably best described as a 'Noble Savage' view of autism.
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Can you elaborate? Do you mean that people with autism are seen as being pure at birth and then corrupted by the things around them over time?
 
umami's milk said:
Quarantine gave a lot of autistic women an excuse to never leave the house, when it ended a lot never bothered to return to their daily lives. If the quarantine didn't kick start the trend then it was at least the nail in the coffin. Why would they? Entire systems had been redone with the express purpose of catering to a population that had to stay indoors. And if you were just about to go to college, it's more than likely that whatever friend group they had gradually dissipated as people moved away for studies. So a reinforced internet that had a lot more suction power combined with not being dragged by their more socially gifted buddies out into the sun = no more autistic females in public.

Not trying to make any political statements about coofvid btw, just saying that this seemed like the perfect recipe for these certain types of women to not go outside anymore.
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Honestly, the covid stuff is so sad. My grandfather talked to me about this. He basically said that the way things are going now, you can get your food and your clothes on the internet. Why would you even go outside? and that makes me totally sad When I was growing up, I always looked forward to being an adult and moving out to experience the world outside of my little bubble, but now that I am an adult and grown up, everyone stays locked in their houses. The world has basically died and been replaced by social media and the internet.

What makes this even sadder is that the internet has gotten so awful with the amount of censorship and ads that I want to go outside more. Going to the coffee shop and talking to people is so much better than talking online, but even then, everyone's on their phones; they are like junkies scrolling through social media. It's like, What are these people even doing? They won't even remember what TikTok they watched 5 minutes ago, but they waste their lives sucked into this shortform slop and see no issue with it. As far as they are concerned, forums never existed.

Seeing how bad modern technology and culture Is makes me miss the days when the worst thing was people watching too much TV. At least then they had something to look back on. If someone wasted hours watching man vs food, they could at least tell you about it. What will today's youth tell you about Fornite? skibdi toilet? discord? I mean, what memories will they have? Even their music is forgettable. Studies have shown zoomers just put on nameless Spotify playlists and listen to them, or they listen to whatever fad rapper is on that they will then forget months down the line.

Modern life is forgettable and empty, and it can largely be traced back to smartphones and social media. You throw covid and helicopter parenting in there, and suddenly the world is a bunch of socially stunted social media porn. addicted losers rotting away in their one bedroom apartments with no kids, no memories, no culture, and no meaning. Zoomers and their parents are becoming a rootless, meaningless class. When we discover their corpses from their assisted suicides, the families will most likely not have the attention span to sit through the funerals.

How I wish people could have some discipline and ditch modern life so we can go back to some sense of normality. While many praise the modern world for its convenience and easy access to pleasure, I disagree. I see the world as this isolated, miserable rock that has all but abandoned everything that made it worth living. The family is dead, social life is dead, and with the decline of faith, this generation has nothing left but pleasure and emotional and psychological pain.

gods not dead but modern america acts as if he did our world is so unrecognizable from when I was a kid its shocking imagine telling 12 year old me in 2009 sitting on the couch watching man vs food that everything about adult life he looked forward to like buying DVDs going to restaurants heading to movie theaters buying a house and having a girlfriend would fall largely out of fashion and that my way of life would be the vast minority not majority

Kids will never experience Xbox Live; they will only experience Steam and Discord, where a tranny janny tells you what you are allowed to think while they get groomed into freaks themselves. Zoomers will never have honorable role models or a grown up life to look forward to; they will never have a house to inherent or movies and music to tell their grandkids about; they will never even have grandkids; all they will have is a rotting corpse buried under a rock, if even that, as they will most likely have their worthless ashes burned and quickly forgotten as their memory once was; they will be swiftly flushed down the skibdi toilet and forgotten forever as they died without grandkids.

Modern life sucks and I'm tired of people pretending it does not.
 
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