How to get my friend back?

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biozeminadae1

biozeminadae1

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A week ago my friendship with a person I knew since kindergarten ended, because he took offense to me calling transgenders and other LGBTQ2A+ people sub-humans, which I unironically believe they are. He listed the generic pro-trans talking points, like how much happier they are than me, etc; and ended with a P.S. saying he was Bisexual, which is the first time I heard of it. He claimed to have been Christian and he had a girlfriend, so I never imagined it.

He's been living for six or seven years in Germany, so maybe his brain has become pozzed as Hell. I thought of him as liberal-minded, since he wasn't what we'd consider a liberal now, because of his racism towards Blacks (and others).

So, what can I do? I don't think he's ever seen a video or read anything about de-transitioned people and their horror stories. And every article or talking point I had brought up in our discord group chat/server thing I'm sure he's ignored, since he never responded to them.

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Pruto
You can be based as fuck IRL if you do it with style, if you make it funny or cool, if you just behave like an autistic basement dweller who repeats the bigoted shit you see on Kiwi Farms or /pol/ unfiltered you're gonna be seen like an offended weirdo and normies will want nothing to do with you and its gonan be your fault.
Nobody likes triggered snowflakes, and those can also be 100% rightwing/conservatard, if you can't handle degenerates in this degenerate world then you're not gonna survive.
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Remind him that while there may be plenty of people out there who will agree with his positions, you're someone who will be his true friend for real, and that's a lot harder to come by.
 
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AbyssGazer said:
Clown World will not stop until people do exactly this. People ending friendships because of political sperging that has little to no ground in their real life is sad and unbased.
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OP didn't say anything about why he wanted to stay friends with this person aside from "i have known them since kindergarten".

I knew a lot of people in kindergarten, I am friends with none of them at this point because we have nothing in common anymore.

"He shared his pokemon cards with me in 2nd grade" isn't a reason to continue pursuing a failed friendship with someone who is brainrotted.

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Because I've known him as my friend for far longer than I have as some pro-tranny shill.
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You will not be able to force him to change his political opinions. The more articles and shit you send him the more aggressively he will react to them.

Your only real option is to try to be friendly with him but just retain your opinion and not be ashamed or afraid to say it if the topic comes up.
 
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VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
OP didn't say anything about why he wanted to stay friends with this person aside from "i have known them since kindergarten".

I knew a lot of people in kindergarten, I am friends with none of them at this point because we have nothing in common anymore.

"He shared his pokemon cards with me in 2nd grade" isn't a reason to continue pursuing a failed friendship with someone who is brainrotted.
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I thought the fact that I'm asking this question while giving out that I've known him since we were toddlers was enough to say that I considered us close.
VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
You will not be able to force him to change his political opinions. The more articles and shit you send him the more aggressively he will react to them.

Your only real option is to try to be friendly with him but just retain your opinion and not be ashamed or afraid to say it if the topic comes up.
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Well, that's what I did do. When he asked me if I've reached a level in my philosophy studies to elucidate thoughts on whatever topic in some shitty video by that faggot PhilosophyTube he shared with me, I said "I'm not watching this if the guy's transgender, don't send me videos of sub-humans ever again".
 
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biozeminadae1 said:
I thought the fact that I'm asking this question while giving out that I've known him since we were toddlers was enough to say that I considered us close.
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Usually you can tell when someone is starting to go down the slippery slide of libshit, so your statement that they just "all of a sudden" are proLGBTQIA+ trannyshit is an indication you're not as close as you think you were.

You also said he's been living in Germany for 7 years which means you aren't physically hanging out anymore, as he lives in a country that you don't live in.

Your friendship ended 7 years ago when he moved away. Long distance friendships aren't really something that you can keep alive long term.
 
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VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
Usually you can tell when someone is starting to go down the slippery slide of libshit, so your statement that they just "all of a sudden" are proLGBTQIA+ trannyshit is an indication you're not as close as you think you were.
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I didn't mention that it happened suddenly, just that it happened. I've known of his views for at least three years beforehand. I never once considered he was Bisexual.

VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
You also said he's been living in Germany for 7 years which means you aren't physically hanging out anymore, as he lives in a country that you don't live in.

Your friendship ended 7 years ago when he moved away. Long distance friendships aren't really something that you can keep alive long term.
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We still hanged out when he came back to his home. During his vacancies and during Holidays.
 
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You've labelled people that are human as sub-human. You've labelled gays, lesbians and bisexuals as sub-human, people who have different sexual orientation than you as sub-human and those seeking sex changes as sub-human.

It sounds rightly the friendship has ended. Move on. He didn't want to not be your friend because you thought differently, he moved on because he knows you have a hatred that has surpassed just hate when you start referring to humans who are different to you as sub-human and ergo unfit or unsuitable to be considered human beings.

"Christian and married" is a label that often fits child rapists, pedophiles, criminals, good people and just about people of every inclination or moral level. so your association with "Christian and married" not fitting with a guy who is bisexual makes little sense.

Why on Earth would a guy want to be your friend when he knows that you view him as sub-human? Get real.
 
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biozeminadae1 said:
I've known of his views for at least three years beforehand.
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And you did nothing to change them then. Why do you think you have a chance now, when his behavior and beliefs have had time to cement themselves in his head?

MadStan said:
Why on Earth would a guy want to be your friend when he knows that you view him as sub-human? Get real.
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This is a good point from an otherwise really gay post, and think about it the other way around - why would you want to be friends with someone you now consider subhuman?
 
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You can be based as fuck IRL if you do it with style, if you make it funny or cool, if you just behave like an autistic basement dweller who repeats the bigoted shit you see on Kiwi Farms or /pol/ unfiltered you're gonna be seen like an offended weirdo and normies will want nothing to do with you and its gonan be your fault.
Nobody likes triggered snowflakes, and those can also be 100% rightwing/conservatard, if you can't handle degenerates in this degenerate world then you're not gonna survive.
 
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VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
And you did nothing to change them then. Why do you think you have a chance now, when his behavior and beliefs have had time to cement themselves in his head?
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It's not like we didn't argue about this, I just don't have the skill, back then and now, to break the conditioning he was put through.
MadStan said:
"Christian and married" is a label that often fits child rapists, pedophiles, criminals, good people and just about people of every inclination or moral level. so your association with "Christian and married" not fitting with a guy who is bisexual makes little sense.
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Apologist nonsense. I don't even believe he's Bisexual, it's bullshit.

Pruto said:
You can be based as fuck IRL if you do it with style, if you make it funny or cool, if you just behave like an autistic basement dweller who repeats the bigoted shit you see on Kiwi Farms or /pol/ unfiltered you're gonna be seen like an offended weirdo and normies will want nothing to do with you.
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It didn't feel like it mattered how I came across, as he'd just shut down the conversation, saying typical stuff like "Well, it's just your opinion." or whatever.
 
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biozeminadae1 said:
It's not like we didn't argue about this, I just don't have the skill, back then and now, to break the conditioning he was put through.
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biozeminadae1 said:
I don't even believe he's Bisexual, it's bullshit.
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You are literally just stomping your feet and saying IT'S NOT TRUE HE IS NOT BISEXUAL HE DOESN'T REALLY BELIEVE THE THINGS HE SAYS HE'S JUST BRAINWASHED

Stop having your gay little tantrum about your fag friend.
 
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biozeminadae1 said:
It's not like we didn't argue about this, I just don't have the skill, back then and now, to break the conditioning he was put through.

Apologist nonsense. I don't even believe he's Bisexual, it's bullshit.


It didn't feel like it mattered how I came across, as he'd just shut down the conversation, saying typical stuff like "Well, it's just your opinion." or whatever.
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It kinda sounds like your friend didnt really like you. Rip
 
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