Gender euphoria always sounds like a fetish to me, autogynophillia has been around for a while, and I think autoandrophillia has recently been recognised.
"Think about that: defining trans people solely by their experiences of discomfort means believing that being trans is so awful that only misery could drive us to it"
11/10 great logic. I remember when I last felt sad, I did something even worse to make me sadder.
"Think about that: defining trans people solely by their experiences of discomfort means believing that being trans is so awful that only misery could drive us to it"
11/10 great logic. I remember when I last felt sad, I did something even worse to make me sadder.
Okay, so they're retarded. It's not "misery could drive us to it," it's "dysphoria is a medical issue." But I'm just some nasty "truscum" trans man, so...
I'm pretty sure getting feelings of pleasure and anticipation from being called your opposite sex in private while being fine with being your born-as sex irl is called a fetish. That doesn't make you trans. It's like saying that just because you get pleasure from your sexy maid role play you need to make your entire life about being a maid. You don't.
I'm pretty sure getting feelings of pleasure and anticipation from being called your opposite sex in private while being fine with being your born-as sex irl is called a fetish. That doesn't make you trans. It's like saying that just because you get pleasure from your sexy maid role play you need to make your entire life about being a maid. You don't.
Honestly, It's kind of horrifying how much these people just DENY DENY DENY and try and convince themselves that they're absolutely perfect in every way, it's not healthy.
Even if this is a valid reason, then it's still not an excuse. Denying that procrastinating is bad and an easy way out of doing work is not going to change the fact that it'll end up biting you in the ass later.
Even if this is a valid reason, then it's still not an excuse. Denying that procrastinating is bad and an easy way out of doing work is not going to change the fact that it'll end up biting you in the ass later.
They didn't say that though? If I'm correct, their points are:
-People procrastinate because not trying = not failing, which explains why it happens to perfectionists and anxious people
-You learn to procrastinate every time you do it because it's a guilty pleasure, unlike most works that don't provide short term goods
I'd say they're right, procrastination is shitty but unlearning it is hard without external help.