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SouthernBitchBob said:
Correct.
This appears to be the depth gay guys plumb, at least in my area. The number of times I've hit this exact scenario tells me it isn't a one-off. Guy flirts with me -> invites me out -> the evening is an unattractive, unsexy boring slugfest that he puts zero effort into -> guy either ghosts or tells me I wasn't a good date.........when he invited me out, was totally unresponsive to any attempt to make it an actual decent time, then acted as if I'm the eunuch with the taste of a 12 year old who bombed the "date". Sorry, if I seemed uninvested in this evening it's because you've displayed exactly zero attractive qualities in person.

I'm convinced that I ultimately need to move or import if I'm to find an actual human being instead of whatever the hell these things are.
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Did u ever go to bed with a guy
 
Vingle said:
I'm pissed and want to powerlvl the fuck out, but I'll try to keep it brief.

A "friend" friendzoned me, expecting me to be his friend. When he's a fucking whore, and I RARELY even get someone to say hi back to me on Grindr. Did he really not think that’s fucking hurtful to watch and listen about? The whole reason why I have not committed an hero long time ago, is because I refuse to watch stuff that reminds me that my life is shitty as fuck and ANY normal person would done an hero right away in my shoes.

And lol, he thinks I will have a bad time for "losing" him. The fucking audacity, I have been friendless in my whole adult life. That's my fucking normal.
And yea, he's an alcoholic. Not completely, but he party a lot and I know he will look awful in some years. He's so proud of his youthful look, and only likes younger guys. Ahem, I look far younger my age. Meanwhile he was in a relationship for 4 years, with a guy that literally looks like he got a syndrome.

And even if I were a fucking cuck, that's stuff that can't be reversed.

Not even asking him to love me, as I'm more cold than a dead fish.

Edit: This mood fits too well.
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Tbh it happens a lot. Especially grindr gays. They are the absolute worst and I hate getting blocked.
 
Never been too into the dating apps since it gets so repetitive, but I've always kept tinder. I swear even the apps themselves go through "dry spells" where there's nothing but either geriatrics or fatties (or both).
 
Ted_Breakfast said:
This is a good thread to powerlevel in, no worries.
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Not really angy anymore, and god. Someone has to keep this thread alive. It's not like I beg for any feels here, but it says a lot when people here are kinder than basically everywhere else.
Aunt Marge said:
Never been too into the dating apps since it gets so repetitive, but I've always kept tinder. I swear even the apps themselves go through "dry spells" where there's nothing but either geriatrics or fatties (or both).
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But you have an inflation fetish? And you have been quiet about you harassing the Harry Potter subreddit.
 
Vingle said:
But you have an inflation fetish? And you have been quiet about you harassing the Harry Potter subreddit.
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That is true, I really need to get back to doing that. Unfortunately they changed the rules for new accounts and have really cracked down on anyone who so much as mentions "Aunt Marge getting blown" so it requires more coordination and effort now.
 
Bisexual but I unironically believe I was born straight. I'm attracted to both men and women and am perfectly comfortable with that, but my interest in men is purely sexual. Not interested in having any sort of romantic relationship or attachment to another man, also never experienced a desire to be in a lasting relationship with a man. I discovered pornography at an early age and had extremely poor impulse control and couldn't enjoy it in moderation. Because of this I personally believe my excessive porn use starting at an early age and spanning perhaps a decade caused some wires to get crossed in my brain.
 
Tranimal Farm said:
Bisexual but I unironically believe I was born straight. I'm attracted to both men and women and am perfectly comfortable with that, but my interest in men is purely sexual. Not interested in having any sort of romantic relationship or attachment to another man, also never experienced a desire to be in a lasting relationship with a man. I discovered pornography at an early age and had extremely poor impulse control and couldn't enjoy it in moderation. Because of this I personally believe my excessive porn use starting at an early age and spanning perhaps a decade caused some wires to get crossed in my brain.
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What make you not want to be in a romantic/intimate relationship with another man? Do you think you won't get the same emotional connection out of it like you would a women?

I am kind of the same way but in reverse. I do find women sexually attractive but thinking about being in a relationship with them seems like a chore. It's not even like I can blame my mother because she was good example of a wife and mother. The human brain is fucking weird.
 
Otis Boi said:
What make you not want to be in a romantic/intimate relationship with another man? Do you think you won't get the same emotional connection out of it like you would a women?

I am kind of the same way but in reverse. I do find women sexually attractive but thinking about being in a relationship with them seems like a chore. It's not even like I can blame my mother because she was good example of a wife and mother. The human brain is fucking weird.
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It is sort of like that. When I see a girl that I like there is much more of me that thinks about the possible relationship aspect of pursuing my interest in her but with guys its much more just penis go brrrr. When I think about the mid to long term future and what sort of relationship I would like to have going into my 30s and beyond I can only really picture it being with a woman. None of my I guess what you could call "relationship fantasies" involve men. Even the thought of a simple dinner date with a man even if it's one I'm attracted to just feels totally alien to me.
 
polonium said:
@Vingle just because you're too unlikable to maintain a relationship, doesn't mean it isn't possible.
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Someone sounds mad. I'm happy you feel that way.

Anyway, you can't really be unlikeable to anyone. If they took one look at you and went "Oh hell no". As I have said earlier, I'm a pretty boi, a twink. Eastern European men are the ones mostly into that, not other Western men. I just happen to not live in an Eastern European country, which is a shame in a way. Because they are for the majority more manly, as I fucking despise feminine "boys". I do like my living situation in my country though, and not interested to live in a shithole country.
 
Tranimal Farm said:
Bisexual but I unironically believe I was born straight. I'm attracted to both men and women and am perfectly comfortable with that, but my interest in men is purely sexual. Not interested in having any sort of romantic relationship or attachment to another man, also never experienced a desire to be in a lasting relationship with a man. I discovered pornography at an early age and had extremely poor impulse control and couldn't enjoy it in moderation. Because of this I personally believe my excessive porn use starting at an early age and spanning perhaps a decade caused some wires to get crossed in my brain.
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That is also my case (but with flipped sexes) and why I am reluctant to call myself a bisexual.

I've never had any inclination towards the same sex until the porn consuption started. But I can't see myself in a romantic relationship with another woman. A bit of a curiosity to try if it is really my thing, but I don't chase it. And I have a hard time even with friendship with other women - unless they are also tomboyish like me.

It is easier to find men with the same interests as me, and I also like to have the possibility of forming a family.
 
Vingle said:
I'm a pretty boi, a twink. Eastern European men are the ones mostly into that, not other Western men.
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In what fucking world do you live in where western men aren't into twinks? If you're a "pretty boi twink" that isn't getting the beloved attention you deserve, maybe it has to do with something other than your looks. Like a shitty attitude and personality.
 
SomeDingus said:
In what fucking world do you live in where western men aren't into twinks? If you're a "pretty boi twink" that isn't getting the beloved attention you deserve, maybe it has to do with something other than your looks. Like a shitty attitude and personality.
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I'm more of a model-pretty, not your typical boyish twink people go for. Men do like me here too though, but it's majorly fat, old creepy men. I don't consider those to matter though.
How can attitude/personality matter if I never talk to the people I actually like?

And why are you getting angry at lil old me? Did I hurt your feeling too? In which case, good.
 
Vingle said:
I'm more of a model-pretty, not your typical boyish twink people go for. Men do like me here too though, but it's majorly fat, old creepy men. I don't consider those to matter though.
How can attitude/personality matter if I never talk to the people I actually like?
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Not gonna comment on the bait, but if the people approaching you aren't your type, you should approach those you do like. Man up and ask out those hotties. If there are none around where you live, broaden your search. Do something, anything other than complaining. That makes it worse.
 
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