🤮 Gross Memerey Revels / ismemry / flutter/ mutualaidmem / torqu111/ memwho - Grifting munchie running one of Twitter's largest e begging rings, featuring a revolving cast of white knights and shit filled basements

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Ghostly blames apathetic people not donating on Mem getting a CashApp loan

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Ghostly is also offering $5 pfp commissions for Mem’s cause; her boss is a satisfied customer

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Still driving illegally, new “due date” for that is a doctor’s appointment on May 4

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Covid scary

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Boosts another crowdfunder (which she does semi-regularly), then continues with an anecdote about how her first place post-homelessness was also a roach hotel

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Mem's main Twitter account has been suspended. The Flutterfreee account is still up and mostly reposting the same begs that are on Threads.

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Speaking of Threads, she's been posting a lot of her typical suicide threats and lecturing. Also has been spamming tags with her beg posts in the hopes of increasing engagement

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Mem is baiting about self harm, and ban evading.

I mean WE wouldn't do anything but....
 
Who could imagine after barely 6 years of funding Mem’s lifestyle and only a handful of times being exposed for scamming that the donations would eventually dry up.

Nobody cares about Mem. Not the algorithm. Not those donors who bought her that car that she now says is illegal to drive and in urgent need of repairs. 300lb Mem longs to return to an ancient time where she was free to just sit around, eat, and play video games.
 
I don't get the lamenting over D and the cats, either. Rehome them. All of them. The cats can go to a good home that can care for them, and there's no reason D can't (not) take care of himself alone. Mem is choosing to stay in this situation she claims is a nightmare. And it's not working anymore.

Girl, call your dad. If he doesn't own the property you live in, beg him to help you break your lease. Look at group homes for mental health issues, since you have shown for years online you can't care for yourself. Like...this isn't rocket science. I'm kinda surprised she wants to live this way. Especially now there isn't money coming in from it.
 
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This is such crap, begging for the car so she can get to treatment. Medicaid recipients in Missouri can get free transportation to and from medical appointments. The company is called MTM, any doctor's office billing medicaid knows about them. And I guaran-damn-tee you Mem is on medicaid.
 
It's Never Leprosy said:
I don't get the lamenting over D and the cats, either. Rehome them. All of them. The cats can go to a good home that can care for them, and there's no reason D can't (not) take care of himself alone. Mem is choosing to stay in this situation she claims is a nightmare. And it's not working anymore.

Girl, call your dad. If he doesn't own the property you live in, beg him to help you break your lease. Look at group homes for mental health issues, since you have shown for years online you can't care for yourself. Like...this isn't rocket science. I'm kinda surprised she wants to live this way. Especially now there isn't money coming in from it.
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She claims she's no contact with her dad for her safety, because he tried to kill her (I.e. he didn't indulge her "I'm disabled" act, and expected her to get a job or at least pick up after herself). I suspect she's just using that as a grifting angle and is still in contact with her dad, and that he does provide some level of financial support behind the scenes. I wouldn't be surprised if the car came from him.
 
Ass Dan said:
She claims she's no contact with her dad for her safety, because he tried to kill her (I.e. he didn't indulge her "I'm disabled" act, and expected her to get a job or at least pick up after herself). I suspect she's just using that as a grifting angle and is still in contact with her dad, and that he does provide some level of financial support behind the scenes. I wouldn't be surprised if the car came from him.
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He's paying her bills every month since the begging has dried up, and we've speculated he might own/partially own the property she's living in, which is why no landlord ever seems to care she's shitting it up and keeps renewing her lease.

I think, in the long run, it would cost him a lot less to get her on Medicaid/SNAP and into a group home situation. She's proven repeatedly she can't care for herself, it isn't really even a question. I would even argue she needs to be in a group home far more than either Andi Proskus or EmmyKatrina from the munchie thread, and they're right where they need to be, too. Because, mental or physical, they straight up can't care for themselves. Just not necessarily in the way they think.

And why TF would Mem fight this? No more having to beg for anything, no more taking care of cats or D (if he exists lmao) no more cars (she really shouldn't be driving with her 'health issues' so that won't be difficult). Like, why would she say no to all this? So she can keep smoking pot lmao? That's...a fucking choice lol.

I'm just sperging here, trying to imagine a family member in this situation and how, if I owned the property, I would try to step in to stop the cycle of madness. I'd make sure D (if he's even real) left. I'd rehome the cats. She needs constant supervision, so if she's my child, I'm moving in til we find her a placement. No more grifting, obviously, or I stop paying for her phone. No more $75 a day spent on food, we're cooking/I am teaching her to grocery shop.

It's going to take her 'abusive' dad really cutting the purse strings before anything will change, sadly. And this is all just a fantasy... it's still up in the air whether she's actually going to wind up homeless or in jail. It's 50/50 I think.
 
Cutting Mem off isn’t really going to make her change anything, IMO, because her whole problem lies in the fact that she doesn’t understand the very concept of supporting or taking care of herself. She seems to genuinely believe that she is helpless, and a lack of help clearly doesn’t make her realize that she isn’t. No matter how much trash piles up in that apartment, it’s never enough to make her actually take any of it out, it’s only ever enough to make her complain that it’s there.

I agree that she really needs to be in a group home or something. She’s basically a 300 lb toddler who’s learned to parrot social justice talking points.
 
If someone swooped in, fixed the car, paid the rent, removed the garbage, cleaned the house, stuffed the fridge and cupboards with supplies, supplied new electronics, and replaced all the furniture with heavy load bearing ergonomic pieces.... what then? What happens when that someone leaves and Mem is left alone with her cats and Schrödinger boyfriend? What happens after the supplies are consumed, the house is trashed, and all the bills are late?

A normal person might say, "Okay, while I've got breathing room and disaster is held at bay, I need to use this space to make sure I don't end up back where I was," but Mem would just get blitzed on her drug of choice, and wake up six weeks later to her usual garbage hoard.

I agree that she's likely got some kind of impairment, but it's the type of impairment that comes after smoking, drinking,, snorting and injecting brain altering substances for far too many years.
 
glass_houses said:
A normal person might say, "Okay, while I've got breathing room and disaster is held at bay, I need to use this space to make sure I don't end up back where I was," but Mem would just get blitzed on her drug of choice, and wake
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This is literally what has happened to Mem multiple times. Twitter HAS got her into housing and has given her thousands of dollars for expenses. She’s received life changing amounts of help more than once. None of it has helped because Mem just assumes that help will be there forever.

She definitely can’t take care of herself properly and it’s really fascinating to me. The multi year scams she ran indicate that she’s at least intelligent enough to hold down a menial job and pay bills. But she refuses to change.

It seems more like a compulsion at this point, because even the other ebeggars of her generation have either stopped entirely (Polissa, Kyttie), or they’ve modified the grift from “pay my bills, cracka” to “I’m looking for work and just need a bit of cash to tide me over.” (Regina)

Mem cannot let go of the dream of a fully subsidised lifestyle, and it is legitimately fucking her up
 
Yeah, there would be no more attempts at any form of independent living if I were Dad. That ship has long since sailed. But there would be a wait to get into a group home and I sure as shit wouldn't let her in MY house for that wait, so hers it is. I'd also never give her cash - pay the service providers directly, never Mem. She can't be trusted not to use it on weed, doordash, and 'illegal cars' lmao.

Incentivize her taking her psych meds somehow? Provide junk food rewards for cleanliness? Even in those circumstances, her oppositional defiance could mean she'd be evicted from a group home situation, especially if she made it dangerous there for others. Then she's homeless, assuming Dad is gone. That's really the only ending for this story, I'm afraid.
 
Mem won't go into a group home because they will see she's more capable and it'll be a fight also she will play the Andy Ditch of I'm in charge but you all wait on me game.

Mem has went from a lazy stoner to legit broken sanity by being a gross slob. It's crazy to see.

Yeah in a perfect world her parents could do a lot but it's far too late.

It's like say your kid starts drinking far too much and you just let him be a lazy drunk 35 he's wet brained and you're sick of them.

Well who didn't nip it in the bud? Her folks should have cut her off way before. She claims she's sane and all could have got help etc.

She's too broken by her own doing. Also i agree about D and the cats. The cats are real and suffering. D is either a schizo dream or a real loser like mem.

Again not that we would but next time she says anything about his behavior I definitely feel domestic abusers are also and scary def need to get D out of that situation. She can't even claim or be in the god awful situation she needs him for the rent.

Sal, do something more productive than help mem, even finger painting with your own shit is.
Also where's my muppeona? I'm tired of asking nicely.
 
Attractive Sexhaver said:
This is literally what has happened to Mem multiple times. Twitter HAS got her into housing and has given her thousands of dollars for expenses. She’s received life changing amounts of help more than once. None of it has helped because Mem just assumes that help will be there forever.
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Attractive Sexhaver said:
She definitely can’t take care of herself properly and it’s really fascinating to me. The multi year scams she ran indicate that she’s at least intelligent enough to hold down a menial job and pay bills. But she refuses to change.

It seems more like a compulsion at this point, because even the other ebeggars of her generation have either stopped entirely (Polissa, Kyttie), or they’ve modified the grift from “pay my bills, cracka” to “I’m looking for work and just need a bit of cash to tide me over.” (Regina)

Mem cannot let go of the dream of a fully subsidised lifestyle, and it is legitimately fucking her up
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This is it exactly. There absolutely was a time when she was making enough from donations that she paid all of her bills and then spent hundreds a month on weed and fast food. But the audience that did that is not interested anymore - the white guilt thing rampant on twitter post George Floyd faded out, a lot of people left X which was her main fundraising platform, and honestly I think people just get sick of sending money and it making zero real difference. Also, most people don't have as much disposable income anymore and they are not interested in sending it to someone who has been CF online for years. People are more comfortable sending money to help someone out of a temporary jam than they are endlessly sending money to someone who is just in the same spot every single month. She constantly says she's reaching out to "past donors" but it seems even that is not working anymore.

I think even her little employee kir is done with helping her as much, her threads account is mostly trying to raise money for yet another black woman who got evicted bc she won't work and who demands thousands a week for "shelter", not Mem.
 
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I think its one part retardation and one huge part she just dont grasp the worth of money. She never had to stand up for 10h being nice just to wake up the next day to do it again. She don't grasp the worth of a dollar because money has always been handed to her, either through family, CF or the state.

I'm sorry, I don't think she's retarded per se, just extremely simple and entitled after a long hard life of never working. The only skill she ever picked up is making herself useless for sympathy and now she dont know how to recalibrate.
 
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