Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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Core Theorist said:
"I know I sound and look suspicious but I want people to stop being mean to me even though I'll admit I deserve SOME suspicion, just not this DEGREE of suspicion."
This perverse level of willful ignorance and yet total self-recognition is just... this is sublime! It's like a dynamic equilibrium.
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Well yes i'm a retard, how did you know?
 
chromatic_oxygen said:
Is it my place to warn the friend that she's on very fucking thin ice and if this or anything like it ever happens again I'm going to talk to her parents about this and everything else me and my dad have warned her about? My dad keeps saying "she's his only friend" and that her parents have another child who's disabled, but I know I would've gotten a hard smack if I did this shit as a child. She's almost a teenager but acts like a 5 year old.
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You need to put your foot down. In addition to what Otterly said, I also think you should check in with her parents (especially if you give her another chance but she keeps breaking the rules even after you've set them out) because:
chromatic_oxygen said:
Probably should have specified both points here in the first post: they met at school, and he doesn't go over to hers because apparently every time he does, she says or does something that upsets him, he starts crying and he has to come home. Somehow that doesn't happen when she's at our place.
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This doesn't sound like a friend. It even sounds like she might be acting worse when they're at her place precisely because her parents tolerate her behavior.
 
Are there any neurotic women here who are also lonely? I have a gf but I need someone to talk to. Preferably someone who has bpd like me and no that's not a joke.

DM me. Or we can chat here, whatever works. I'm bored as hell.

Oh yeah guys are OK too, just don't make it weird.
 
That sounds a bit suspicious that you have a gf but want to talk to women online, especially mentally ill ones. Sounds like a straight path towards adultery, even if you have innocent thoughts about it in the beginning.
 
The Repeated Meme said:
Are there any neurotic women here who are also lonely? I have a gf but I need someone to talk to. Preferably someone who has bpd like me and no that's not a joke.

DM me. Or we can chat here, whatever works. I'm bored as hell.

Oh yeah guys are OK too, just don't make it weird.
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This sounds exhausting. Why can’t you talk to your girlfriend? What’s the point of dating if you can’t talk about stuff?
 
Deezy said:
This sounds exhausting. Why can’t you talk to your girlfriend? What’s the point of dating if you can’t talk about stuff?
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She can't be talking to me all day and night, and I don't expect that.

Actually when we first started talking to her we talked for hours. It was a lot of fun. We're really compatible.

What about you, do you have a bf?

BTW I love your hamster avvy, very cute.
 
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The Repeated Meme said:
Are there any neurotic women here who are also lonely? I have a gf but I need someone to talk to. Preferably someone who has bpd like me and no that's not a joke.

DM me. Or we can chat here, whatever works. I'm bored as hell.

Oh yeah guys are OK too, just don't make it weird.
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wouldn't recommend trying to find new prospective partners here, it's largely different flavors of chris chan or shanny for christ, sprinkled with the meme of the chad guy looking in the mirror and seeing he has downs, especially if you already have something

if lonely i'd recommend looking for a media thread you like or are comfortable with, doing something, for example like "i love nge/nge's ending is dogshit" or "i like (x) star wars books" and back and forthing. if very lonely multiple at the same time. if you find a user you back and forth a lot you can try to go from there but don't bet on it, lots of people here tend towards more hostile or isolationist
 
Birthday Cat said:
wouldn't recommend trying to find new prospective partners here, it's largely different flavors of chris chan or shanny for christ, sprinkled with the meme of the chad guy looking in the mirror and seeing he has downs, especially if you already have something

if lonely i'd recommend looking for a media thread you like or are comfortable with, doing something, for example like "i love nge/nge's ending is dogshit" or "i like (x) star wars books" and back and forthing. if very lonely multiple at the same time. if you find a user you back and forth a lot you can try to go from there but don't bet on it, lots of people here tend towards more hostile or isolationist
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I'm not looking for prospective partners. I have a gf. I just want someone to talk to, that's all.

I think this is the perfect place cause we already have the farms in common. Also I've had 2 gfs on the farms one ex and one currently dating. It's fun. You should try it.
Squanto Airi said:
That sounds a bit suspicious that you have a gf but want to talk to women online, especially mentally ill ones. Sounds like a straight path towards adultery, even if you have innocent thoughts about it in the beginning.
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Nothing wrong with having female friends and also being in a relationship. I get where you're coming from though. But I promise it's not like that.

Also I already have one other women that I reached out to talk about whatever, it was fine. We're both spoken for, it aint like that.
 
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The Repeated Meme said:
Nothing wrong with having female friends and also being in a relationship. I get where you're coming from though. But I promise it's not like that.
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I get you are trying to use some logic, but this is an emotional scenario.

There isn't majorly wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, but what happens when you and your gf fight? You'll have an already slightly messy thing turn worse if you go to the friend you've been confiding in.

Plus to use the ol' reversal scenario: would you be fine with your gf looking for male friends to talk about things with, while doing a "women can dm too, just don't be weird"?
 
Squanto Airi said:
I get you are trying to use some logic, but this is an emotional scenario.

There isn't majorly wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, but what happens when you and your gf fight? You'll have an already slightly messy thing turn worse if you go to the friend you've been confiding in.

Plus to use the ol' reversal scenario: would you be fine with your gf looking for male friends to talk about things with, while doing a "women can dm too, just don't be weird"?
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I don't care if my gf has male friends because I'm not insecure.

She can talk to whoever she wants. So can I. It's called being a mature adult.
 
Why would you specifically want to talk to a female user, wouldn't anyone you have a enjoy chatting with work? There's a chatroom and there is a mass DM thing (no idea, seems gay and once in a while the lolmilk spills out into the forums) you can chat with people with.

The Repeated Meme said:
Preferably someone who has bpd like me and no that's not a joke.
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So, when are you gonna split on your gf and ruin her life? Or is this internet gf part of the setup?
 
Waffle Iron said:
Why would you specifically want to talk to a female user, wouldn't anyone you have a enjoy chatting with work? There's a chatroom and there is a mass DM thing (no idea, seems gay and once in a while the lolmilk spills out into the forums) you can chat with people with.


So, when are you gonna split on your gf and ruin her life? Or is this internet gf part of the setup?
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Why women specifically? Idk. I'm fine with both. Crab shack is kinda dead and I haven't heard from my gf today.

I just picked this thread because fun.

It's so fucking hard for me to sit still these days so it's kinda made my main time sink which is watching content to be kneecapped so I really just feel like talking to people.
 
The Repeated Meme said:
Are there any neurotic women here who are also lonely? I have a gf but I need someone to talk to. Preferably someone who has bpd like me and no that's not a joke.

DM me. Or we can chat here, whatever works. I'm bored as hell.

Oh yeah guys are OK too, just don't make it weird.
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Bro you sponsored this? Isn't this love quest kind of embarrassing to feature?
 
Squanto Airi said:
That sounds a bit suspicious that you have a gf but want to talk to women online, especially mentally ill ones. Sounds like a straight path towards adultery, even if you have innocent thoughts about it in the beginning.
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Probably just some creep getting inspiration from the Turkey Tom thread looking for an easy victim. ”I already have a gf so I have no ulterior motives 👉👈”. Sure, Jan.
 
Rocket-fueled Wheelchair said:
Probably just some creep getting inspiration from the Turkey Tom thread looking for an easy victim. ”I already have a gf so I have no ulterior motives 👉👈”. Sure, Jan.
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I am not a creep. I just wanted someone to talk to. It's not like that.

I've struggled a lot with my bpd so that's why I included it. I just want to talk to someone who understands how hard it is.

Nobody reached out btw, not surprised but it's OK. Guys in the crab shack bullied me for it of course but I don't mind. It's all entertainment to me.
 
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