- Joined
- Oct 4, 2018
I work with a few transpeople. The FTM's I've known have been pretty great, even if I don't want to hear about their transition. Only one of the two ever brought it up; the other is highly guarded about it, which I think only makes sense if you're trans. I might even call one of them a friend of mine.i worked with a ftm and first i tought he was a really gay man. he was nice but at a party he started talking about his transition and i couldnt give a single fuck. thats different from the mtf rapists who want to enter female spaces imo
The MTF's are the anti-midas to my work. Everything they touch turns into shit. They're slovenly, weird, hyper-sexual, and repulsive. If I don't include them in enough of our work, they get sensitive, which caused one of them to feign a meltdown about "wanting to do work" and "being excluded." I finally stopped putting up with it and said "you just don't do good work." They quit on the spot.
My work organizes and puts people in front of other people. Our job is to convince people to change their minds about very important things, and we have about twenty seconds to do it. If you don't have them within twenty seconds, they're going to shut down and nothing else you say is going to stick. I trust our FTM contributors; I have to hide and distract our MTF "contributors."