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I’ve just read the whole thread and have some observations.
There is very definitely sexualisation of children in this family and I do believe there has been child sex abuse BUT I think the primary victims were Jeanette and Debbie. They have then accepted this as normal.
No one talks to an infant about breasts in the way Debbie did to Jazz. Breasts are a source of food and comfort to an infant, not aesthetic.
The only other person I’ve seen discuss breasts and infants in this way is Trump.
I think the inappropriate sexual discussions come from Grandpa.
Jeanette- I don’t think she necessarily wanted a girl, she wanted a special baby. If Jazz had cancer or was disabled as a baby, I think that would have worked for her. The need may have been stimulated by having the twins.
I have twins, I’m a very private person so hated the attention, when I was pregnant complete strangers coming up to me in the supermarket and putting their hands on my stomach, then when I had them coming up and touching my babies. I suffered PND and stopped leaving the house because I couldn’t deal with the attention. However, I can see someone like Jeanette thriving on it.
She wouldn’t have got the same attention having a singleton and may have craved it, so needed something to make new baby as special as the twins. Illness or disability would have given her the same hit of attention, but he was healthy so she had to find something else.
Sander- am I only only one expecting a “coming out” statement. That kid is so obviously gay.
There is very definitely sexualisation of children in this family and I do believe there has been child sex abuse BUT I think the primary victims were Jeanette and Debbie. They have then accepted this as normal.
No one talks to an infant about breasts in the way Debbie did to Jazz. Breasts are a source of food and comfort to an infant, not aesthetic.
The only other person I’ve seen discuss breasts and infants in this way is Trump.
I think the inappropriate sexual discussions come from Grandpa.
Jeanette- I don’t think she necessarily wanted a girl, she wanted a special baby. If Jazz had cancer or was disabled as a baby, I think that would have worked for her. The need may have been stimulated by having the twins.
I have twins, I’m a very private person so hated the attention, when I was pregnant complete strangers coming up to me in the supermarket and putting their hands on my stomach, then when I had them coming up and touching my babies. I suffered PND and stopped leaving the house because I couldn’t deal with the attention. However, I can see someone like Jeanette thriving on it.
She wouldn’t have got the same attention having a singleton and may have craved it, so needed something to make new baby as special as the twins. Illness or disability would have given her the same hit of attention, but he was healthy so she had to find something else.
Sander- am I only only one expecting a “coming out” statement. That kid is so obviously gay.