Amber the Hedgehog
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Plus there can be kids, shared assets and investments. Divorce and even just brake up if you lived together is a big deal. It means alot needs to rearranged and dealth with, from getting a new place live, who get what to just telling everyone what's going on. It takes alot of money, time and really uncomfortable feelings. It's not something most people are eager to jump so many will try alot before calling it quits.Depends on whom you mean by 'those people'.
The transitioning partner wants to stay as long as possible because the relationship is a safe base. They can experiment at will and the partner will have to drag (no pun intended) along and keep affirming his mate's newly found "identity". Most trannies we've read about are, or soon become, financially dependent on their spouse.
The normal partner has invested in the relationship and doesn't want to let go that easily. Perhaps the person you once loved so dearly is still hidden in that mess who rummages your lingerie drawers. And once it turns out they're lost, you still stick around just a bit longer because it's clear this person would end on the cobbles without your support.
But almost inevitably, it ends in divorce.