LGBTQiwis

[synthetic_glazer]

To other people, yes. It actually raises a question. How many gay men here have had straight women flirting or being weird around them?

Is that actually a thing that happens to gay men? It's never happened to me, but I've never had anyone flirt with me in general.

Back in my day before the LGBTiwis thread we used group DMs for our faggotry

Someday I will be cool enough to end up in a KF group DM, and not one of those weird piss RP ones

Nowadays especially between younger folk, i see the abusive word being thrown around very irresponsibly

Any time you tell me what to do, get upset with me, or refuse to do something I want, that's abuse. If you're nice and do things for me, that's love bombing, which is also abuse. And if you try to tell me none of those things are abuse, well guess what, shitlord, that's gaslighting, which is yet another form of abuse.

 

[mister meaner]

Someday I will be cool enough to end up in a KF group DM, and not one of those weird piss RP ones

sure you will

 

[Leather Gliscor]

During college I've had fag hags and theyfabs tell me I'm not really gay or tell me that I'm making a sick joke when I let them know I was a faggot. I think it's because I'm deadpan, not autistically lispy, colorful, or effeminate, and have no interest in (and criticize) hyperpassionate activistslop. It always comes as a surprise to whoever I'm talking to followed by how I'm apparently "not gay enough/not like the other ones."

 

[General Patton]

Is that actually a thing that happens to gay men? It's never happened to me, but I've never had anyone flirt with me in general.

The ex-friend I mentioned did it to a gay friend of mine, and commonly targeted other gay men by either being inappropriate and extremely flirty to the point that it was creepy, or she tried to ruin their reputation in some way.

I guess it's just her being an asshole, then.

I got quite the attention from faghags during my university days. They usually drop you once they realize you don't behave like a catty queen

Yeah, see, this adds up, then. The friend who shared this information with me also isn't catty. But she is.

It’s happened a few times. I used to work with this girl who had an obvious crush on me (always hanging around my desk to talk, bringing me snacks, offering to give me a ride home when my car was fucking up, asking me if I had a girlfriend etc) once she found out I was gay she eased up a bit but still made no bones about liking me as more than a friend.

Other girls might not hit on me but once they find out I’m gay they start getting way too TMI with me about things because I’m the safe guy who won’t hit on them, or they want to treat me like their token sassy gay BFF and that’s not my personality at all.

Yep, she did this shit to my friend too.

way too many times to count, it doesnt help that my default mode when interacting with women is sassy lesbian.

I think the woman is just creepy and weird in general, but it's interesting to know that it happens.

 

[synthetic_glazer]

The ex-friend I mentioned did it to a gay friend of mine, and commonly targeted other gay men by either being inappropriate and extremely flirty to the point that it was creepy, or she tried to ruin their reputation in some way.

I guess it's just her being an asshole, then.

Sorry, I worded that poorly, I meant I wasn't sure if it's as widespread as TV/movies/whatever makes it seem, since it's something I've seen in fiction with women wanting a token gay friend and saying flirty things to homos like "ah, if only you were straight," and whatnot. I'm sure there are women who feel that way, but is it a 'thing'? I dunno.

But yeah what you're saying sounds like a whole different ball of wax. I think she was just a bitch or, if I may play armchair psychologist, my theory would be she hated the idea of men who aren't attracted to her, so either tried to pressure them into either returning advances, or ruined their reputation to get "back" at them. But who knows. I, for obvious reasons, am not in tune with how women think for the most part lol

 

[General Patton]

But yeah what you're saying sounds like a whole different ball of wax. I think she was just a bitch

It's a crazy story to begin with when I think back on what I was told about this woman. She either flirted with gay men and acted romantic with them or she hated them and tried to screw them over.

Either way, she'd target them someway and chased out the gay men who she worked in groups with.

My theory is: she hates her marriage, isn't in love with her husband, but he's wealthy so she stays married while drinking, and because her life is so shitty, she flirts with gay and bisexual men.

If she wasn't such a disgusting person I'd feel bad for her, lol. But if I'm going to be honest, this is the only story I know of where gay men were targeted by a sad drunk straight woman, lol.

 

[Battlefield42]

Rarely if ever had straight women show interest in me, possibly because I dress, act and talk like a fuckin bogan (Okay, okay, I AM a fuckin bogan). The one time I did have a intending fag hag want to go shopping with me I told her okay love get yer boots on we're gunna go to the pick and pull yard I'm getting an transmission and an alternator and shit off an old Falcon and I need somebody to pass me tools and maybe help lift the greasy filthy old driveshaft out of the way. She lost interest real quick. Maybe she thought we was gonna shop for clothes. I do that at KMart Bunnings or Repco or car shows

Aussie? Do you drink VB?

 

[Token Faggot]

Aussie? Do you drink VB?

Yeah I've had VB and XXXX but dont drink much now

 

[Anatomical]

Rarely if ever had straight women show interest in me, possibly because I dress, act and talk like a fuckin bogan (Okay, okay, I AM a fuckin bogan). The one time I did have a intending fag hag want to go shopping with me I told her okay love get yer boots on we're gunna go to the pick and pull yard I'm getting an transmission and an alternator and shit off an old Falcon and I need somebody to pass me tools and maybe help lift the greasy filthy old driveshaft out of the way. She lost interest real quick. Maybe she thought we was gonna shop for clothes. I do that at KMart Bunnings or Repco or car shows

Kinda tangential, but I've always wondered, is there any sort of similar term for a lesbian who mostly associates with gay/bi dudes?

(Iirc, a fag hag is an expressly straight woman, but correct me if I'm wrong)

 

[Leather Gliscor]

Kinda tangential, but I've always wondered, is there any sort of similar term for a lesbian who mostly associates with gay/bi dudes?

(Iirc, a fag hag is an expressly straight woman, but correct me if I'm wrong)

fag hags can also be queer women, if anything they're especially the queerhogging and queerhopping ones using excessive labels despite being both the straightest and most mentally ill woman you know. I believe lesbians that associate with gays are just fellow homos. A good share of true and honest lesbians don't bother mingling, because why bother? It's not like we normally know (or care about) anything pertaining to women. I think we mostly relate to one another with how our homosexuality isn't normal, is surrounded by prejudice both inside and outside of the community, and we have losers misappropriating our lifestyles as "identities" to validate their niggercattle need for hyperconsumerism and to feel wanted. I've met a few elder lesbians at my old job that gave me some solid advice when I really needed to hear it. Same job also had those college age queer women who started out experimenting but then got carried away one-upping each other wanting to feel special, like the ones that told me I'm not gay enough.

 

[Dollar Store Crack Whore]

It always comes as a surprise to whoever I'm talking to followed by how I'm apparently "not gay enough/not like the other ones."

I find that these types tend to clam up if you start praising masculinity. Feels like this always comes from annoying progressives who for some reason expect you to join in on the 'ugh, men are the wooorst, right gals?' kinda shit. You start talking about how much you love dudes, they get defensive and weird.

I know it's just the nature of feminism/progs to screech about men, but I think it's hilarious when it happens. Like why would you expect a man, who fucks men, who explicitly enjoys masculinity, to sit there and shit talk with your dumb bitch asses?

no interest in (and criticize) hyperpassionate activistslop

If activism worked like activists claim it does, then the whole world would be gay paradise in a couple of years, as they could just hop around everywhere starting protests that lead to total gay liberation™. In reality, cultures that value individual rights and freedom of expression as an ethos enable that type of activism to begin with. You wanna really lose some friends, start talking about how this manifests itself nearly exclusively in white, western countries.

 

[synthetic_glazer]

Kinda tangential, but I've always wondered, is there any sort of similar term for a lesbian who mostly associates with gay/bi dudes?

(Iirc, a fag hag is an expressly straight woman, but correct me if I'm wrong)

Not sure if there'd be a term for it. The vast majority of the lgbt people I've interacted with in real life have friend groups that are almost exclusively gay/lesbian/trans/nonbinary/etc. I could very well be wrong, but I think that's just how the social circles of most lgbt people look like in general- a lesbian being palling around with gay guys isn't novel in the way a straight woman hanging out with gay men is.

 

[Leather Gliscor]

I find that these types tend to clam up if you start praising masculinity. Feels like this always comes from annoying progressives who for some reason expect you to join in on the 'ugh, men are the wooorst, right gals?' kinda shit. You start talking about how much you love dudes, they get defensive and weird.

so fucking real. why do they expect us to hate and complain about men?

 

[Anatomical]

Not sure if there'd be a term for it. The vast majority of the lgbt people I've interacted with in real life have friend groups that are almost exclusively gay/lesbian/trans/nonbinary/etc. I could very well be wrong, but I think that's just how the social circles of most lgbt people look like in general- a lesbian being palling around with gay guys isn't novel in the way a straight woman hanging out with gay men is.

True enough!

I find that these types tend to clam up if you start praising masculinity. Feels like this always comes from annoying progressives who for some reason expect you to join in on the 'ugh, men are the wooorst, right gals?' kinda shit. You start talking about how much you love dudes, they get defensive and weird.

If I can say, fag hags typically not interested in being friends with anything other than the stock standard catty queen kinda also has its converse, with lesbros typically not interested in being friends with anything other than the stock standard hey-mamas fuckboi. I think these people somehow equate your being homosexual to you hating your own masculinity/femininity - which, in their eyes, then makes you a safe person to be a manhater/womaniser around. We're men and women, not fucking troon- and pooner-lites, for fucks sake

 

[LovisXVI]

so fucking real. why do they expect us to hate and complain about men?

Well, the sort of people who complain endlessly about the other sex other-izes them and is typically not very interested in their workings and the virtues inherent to their sex. If you even see them talk about "aughts" then it's things they do rather than are, like how a lot of these women narcissisticly want a slave of a man, not that the worst of men are any different. The thing with homosexuality, is that ostensibly, they cannot otherize their desired sex, so it's less likely to find someone who will endlessly shit on their own sex.

 

[awoo]

Back in my day before the LGBTiwis thread we used group DMs for our faggotry

We should have one so I can share embarrassing personal details knowing they will be kept secret and never leaked or shared

 

[LovisXVI]

knowing they will be kept secret and never leaked or shared

Tempting fate or ironic acknowledgement? I'll let the audience decide.

 

[We Are The Witches]

I've heard a good amount of times that some women like to have their token gay "friend", like something they must tick off in their "to do/have" list, and have them as "accessories" for their boring life. Seems like it happened to some Kiwifarmers as well!

That sounds so miserable and contrived, I'd be caught dead before giving these assholes my time of the day.

 

[LovisXVI]

I'd be caught dead before giving these assholes my time of the day.

I'd make a joke about the phrasing, but I prefer to keep my posts clean(er), so just imagine I made a lewd joke relating to the thread topic instead.

 

[awoo]

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