Ask men why they do things the way they do and maybe you'll get an honest answer

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As proof of this.

The second you were confronted by someone disagreeing with you. You instantly rushed to another woman in an attempt to make a gang against the people disagreeing with you. You jumped into female behaviour patterns. You are not an exception.
No she’s saying that the very ‘men do only x and women do only y’ is the trope, and I agree with that. Because that trope is always put as the strong male unbothered by emotion and the weak female blithering away in tears, silly women, aren’t they stupid?
Whereas most of us fall somewhere in between, and do or need different things depending on the situation. Almost like everyone’s different. What fixes grief isn’t what fixes a bad day at work
 
Emotional abuse can be a terrible thing. Almost always will introduce physical abuse. People under daily emotional duress won't leave their partners, especially if there's kids involved

Even men can be victims of a situation like that. There's a huge difference between being an asshole spouse and an abusive one
I have a lot of empathy for people trapped in abusive relationships. They don't try to win internet arguments with them.

I feel like I should tell you for your own sake that I don't think you're helping bridge any kind of gap of understanding between the sexes but I'm glad you're making it blatantly apparent why people shouldn't put much stock in your other posts here.
You shouldn't put any stock in internet posts any way. I am a F1 driver with 3 private jets. I fly planes for Space X when I'm bored of being a Navy seal spec ops marine ranger soldier. Any one can lie or bullshit on the internet and you should consider everything suspect.

I just find it very funny when women like her use the same play book every other woman does and says they're special.

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The guy in question’s relationship is in trouble because she’s just just annoyed at HIM and looking for any excuse to have a go.
If that were true every relationship on Earth is in trouble.

In all seriousness I’m sure that’s your honest takeaway from that snippet but I know them and it’s not. That’s how a lot of women just exist in relationships they’re looking for trouble even when things are fine.
 
If that were true every relationship on Earth is in trouble.

In all seriousness I’m sure that’s your honest takeaway from that snippet but I know them and it’s not. That’s how a lot of women just exist in relationships they’re looking for trouble even when things are fine.
I would hate to live like that. It sounds miserable and draining
 
That’s how a lot of women just exist in relationships they’re looking for trouble even when things are fine.
I think we even had an example a few pages back with that girl that was "teasing" her boyfriend for bad driving.
 
Pick better men.
Yep, indeed!

Every time I've gotten to know a man like the ones you're describing it was because they had some sort of childish vice that they would rather be doing instead of being productive. Mostly weed and video games. When you cut that shit out, you start looking for stuff to fix out of boredom. That said, there's also a bias in the sense that the things that feel satisfying to work on and fix, at least in my experience, are the things that have no ambiguity -- cars, appliances, software, plumbing, things where the outcome is plainly apparent: it either works or it doesn't. If you asked me to sort out government documents or something I could probably figure it out but it's not something I'd get any sort of innate satisfaction out of. We like to fix things in the most literal sense.
Without detail, none of that was in play in my marriage, but yes, agree as a general matter that having a productive and beneficial place to direct energy is important for everyone, regardless of what that may be for each.
I have a lot of empathy for people trapped in abusive relationships. They don't try to win internet arguments with them.


You shouldn't put any stock in internet posts any way. I am a F1 driver with 3 private jets. I fly planes for Space X when I'm bored of being a Navy seal spec ops marine ranger soldier. Any one can lie or bullshit on the internet and you should consider everything suspect.

I just find it very funny when women like her use the same play book every other woman does and says they're special.

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My short comment was merely explaining why your "baby daddy, every time" generic (as always) effort at insult was stupid and wrong. That's it. If you interpreted a short list of relevant data as a plea for pity or emotional manipulation, that's your ignorance and (again) uninformed arrogance.
 
But this is not a debate thread and you shouldn't really see it as such
Oh I'm not debating. Sorry if I gave that impression.
Yes. Hence “the best thing you can do is give that a rest”
Some women just can't. The only thing worse is a woman who must clean up constantly. Even if it doesn't need doing they still do it. And we all know any time a woman cleans up she is going to put stuff in places for no reason. It's infuriating when you put your gardening gloves with your hand tools then come back and she's put it in the fridge or under the sink because that's what makes sense to her. It sounds like bullshit but some times the location really is that silly.
My short comment was merely explaining why your "baby daddy, every time" generic (as always) effort at insult was stupid and wrong. That's it. If you interpreted a short list of relevant data as a plea for pity or emotional manipulation, that's your ignorance and (again) uninformed arrogance.
Next you call me a virgin or an incel okay? Same playbook as always.
 
Every now and the a woman convinces a group of men, accidentally or on purpose, that she’s one of them and can handle it. And so they include her. And she always has a really bad time.

I know you won’t be able to see this, but it really was a compliment, They thought you were cool.
thanks for the answer which leads to another question. What can I do to make men not think that I'm one of them? I'm not into wearing girly clothes and whatever.
 
thanks for the answer which leads to another question. What can I do to make men not think that I'm one of them? I'm not into wearing girly clothes and whatever.
Lots of weak men want you to be one of them and will invite you into male spaces because they want a girl in them / want to fuck you. You can't stop men like that trying to make you one of them. You just have to recognize what is a male space and try to not get involved.
 
Every now and the a woman convinces a group of men, accidentally or on purpose, that she’s one of them and can handle it. And so they include her. And she always has a really bad time.
Pretty sure this will be playing out at work in the near future with a girl in Maintenance Planning and the boys in Process Development and Operations.

I've provided my 2c about how badly shit is going to go for them if the roles were reversed on some of the grabass she's chosen to play a role in, but it continues to be entertaining to watch.
If you just tell us what you need from the conversation up front we'll be better equipped to provide it
I've found that if a guy wants to tell you about a frustrating retard at work, he will begin his speechify with "lemme tell you about this fuckin' retard" and then regale you with tales of the retarded, at the end of which you may respond "wow, what a fuckin' retard." and this is a good social interaction.

A woman will usually drop that preamble, and it's just some story about a cow-orker. The best outcome is that you're on the same wavelength, you're picking up what she's putting down, and at the end you still respond "wow, what a fuckin' retard", but it's important that you reach this conclusion without the priming.
 
thanks for the answer which leads to another question. What can I do to make men not think that I'm one of them? I'm not into wearing girly clothes and whatever.
you could be open about how you don't like to be teased and stuff. make them remember that your aren't a guy they'd probably get it if you explained it to them

though depends on the guys
 
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