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[Candidate No 7]

That wife's birthday gift might be realizing she needs a divorce.

Then she'll have two things to celebrate every year, nice!

 

[AskMeAnything]

Yoshida Express,

Looks a bit pricey to me. Asian slop like that only costs a couple of dollars over there.

 

[Coldsteel the Hedgehog]

That's the whitest looking hafu I've ever seen, goddamn. Maybe she trooned out cause she couldn't get her hands on any "I'm actually Japanese" internet points and had to make do LOL

 

[Procopius]

That wife's birthday gift might be realizing she needs a divorce.

Absent that, not having to fuck a tranny might be the next best option.

 

[Breadtop]

The pole dancing guy I posted last week has hoisted himself back up there again and made some enlightening discoveries (see spoiler).

I also did a bit more research.
Names: Thaddeus Cook, aka Brianna Cook legally I think
Attended Monroe Community College (MCC), graduated with Associate's in June 2024
Work: Now a staff member at MCC
Work email: bcook31@monroecc.edu

When I had wondered if he worked with kids due to his horny teacher posts, the answer turns out to be: Kinda. Monroe Community College like many CCs also offers a fast-track program where high schoolers can dual enroll and come to campus and get uni credits while still in high school. He mentioned in a Tumblr post that he did lectures for English 101, but I wouldn't expect he'd really have much opportunity to convert high school boys.

He is also attending a private uni in the area for his Bachelorette's Degree, but I'm not sure which uni. He got a full scholarship for his paper, From Stereotype, Freedom: Tracking the Impacts of Queer-Coding in Vampire Fiction. What a joke.

There's also a video of him talking. You really can't even tell.

Spoiler

Spoiler: Full size photos

The dainty lass makes it look effortless.

Spoiler: Assortment of other pretty princesses

Spoiler: Practically Thaddeus's twin

Tumblr user Punkitt-is-here


The second one was captioned "I look kinda hot rn"
And the delusional validation right on time:


He's also a game developer for "Susan Taxpayer" and "Astral Guard," and has an MLP ponysona.


Was the "transition" really necessary if all he wanted to do was be hairy brony who plays MTG while holding a shitty sword?

Spoiler: Willow

She/her/it of course.
"Willow" is the one with round glasses in these gruesome gatherings. I think there's a woman (TiF) in the second photo, in front of all the 6'2 'girls'.





Indistinguishable from the hucow anime girls.

Why are they all in classrooms now, what's going on?

Spoiler: Rapidfire glow-ups

The Pentagram earrings guy's blog title is "Indulging the other", which is a line from a 1994 Frankenstein play, the full line is "I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy the one, I will indulge the other." But that's probably nothing to think about in the context of the tranny shooters of late. Fitting to compare themselves to a monster cobbled together from corpse parts though at least.


All she/her variants, most have been on hrt for about 6 years.

And last, but also least:

Spoiler: Agie

She/they/ null???


Does it?


Loving the grease and yellow stains, very girlypop chic.


These span a full year. This is the look he's settled on, I guess.

 

[Random Internet Person]

 

[Newton Pud]

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>I love toxic yuri
Wow, I could’ve never guessed!


Geez, I remember seeing his Touhou fan-art countless months ago. Never expected to see him again.

 

[Lonjil]

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The same people who fantasize about killing others who reject their worldview also kill themselves the moment that come up against any pushback or issue in life.

These people are too retarded to be a threat lol

 

[Vott]

Spookalucca / Spekkio / Sirspekkio / themaineman5 / mattdonatelli / Lucca Donatelli / Lucca Nocturna Donatelli / Matt Donatelli / Matthew Donatelli / Matthew Gilbert Donatelli
DOB: February 21st 1989, 36 year old Game Engineer and Antifa activist from Vancouver, BC, Canada. Originally from Seattle, Washington and St Louis, Missouri prior to that. Attended Columbia College in Chicago and received Bachelor of Arts at Principia College.
He was a Level Designer for Pure Imagination Studios and Game designer for his Donatelli Designs project. He then went on to become a Game Designer at Graphite Lab in St Louis where he worked on Hive Jump.
He later was a Scrum Master, Agile Coach and Engineer at Expedia Inc and worked at Brace Yourself Games as a Producer. As of now he's streaming on his socials while seething over his social media bubble about everything on his feed. He appears to have deleted some of his socials but some things still stick.

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Pre troon






Current images

More of his Bluesky posts

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These are some of the many games that he's helped work on such as Rock Band, Wolfenstein, Quake, Call of Duty Warzone, Phantom Brigade and Pacific Drive.
One of Matthew's big projects included Hive Jump while working at Graphite Lab when he lived in St Louis. A



Socials

Bluesky, A
Linktree,
Youtube, A
Old Youtube, A
Twitch, A
Github, A
Itch.io, A
Fortnite,
Mobygames, A
Gofundme, A
Patreon, A
Steam, A

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[deermeat]

The trannies have fully started to co-opt right wing lingo and memes lol


Another one replied with this:



The irony and lack of self awareness is on point, as always. Trannies are all normies.

 

[Chandelier]

After the incident in BC, troons are begging people not to talk about the obvious fact that the shooter was a troon. These same people would not be heeding their advice had it just been a regular Neo-Nazi; OP in particular is your casual communist troon who can't even get on his idol's level.

"The right used Iryna Zarutska's murder when her family begged them not to" - funny, her fellow Azov Battalion Ukrainians would've hung the nigger.


Turns out, our troon was a noble Neo Nazi:

Our dear ADL lays down the law: sorry fam, your UWU troon had a few Heil Hitler tendencies.


In the UK, another troon laments the NHS taking away puberty blockers, citing a Puke News article about how suicides are through the roof.

There was just a problem: the suicides peaked in 2022, before the ban was implemented.

 

[Anasa Tristis]

Spookalucca

That bondage pumpkin is a first for me. It’s no wonder he takes great pains to hide his nose, mouth and chin in practically every photo. His face reads male so much without them (even when obscured by his luxurious curls, kek) that with them showing there’d be absolutely zero doubt about his sex.

He probably goons to some of his own photos. He gives off strong “become the GF” troon vibes. Ew.

 

[neverendingmidi]

Spookalucca / Spekkio / Sirspekkio / themaineman5 / mattdonatelli / bendonatelli / Lucca Donatelli / Ben Donatelli / Benjamin Donatelli / Matt Donatelli / Matthew Donatelli

Ummm... Pretty sure having an outfit called out as "like sexual frustration" is not praise.

"Wow, you look sexually frustrated!" =/= "Wow, you look sexy!"

 

[Kyff]

"I learnt that, as a pole dancer, I simply must get an orchiectomy" (paraphrasing)

I winced and I'm not a bloke

 

[ThisIsGonnaBeGood]

This isn't even about a tranny themselves being cringe (other than simply existing), so much as a TOTALLY BASED TRANSREP ALLY (who happens to be a fat, white chick) complaining that there aren't enough troon actors.

 

[Magic Pickle]

A creepy uncle catches heat from his sister when he tells his girly young niece that he's "becoming a princess" and never felt "allowed" to be one before, which inspires the child to promote male femininity to random guys she comes across. While I think that's very cute on the niece's part to be such an open-minded little creature, I can see how his sister's Mama Bear instincts might be kicking in on the indoctrination front, especially with his apathetic response to her concerns.
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Sister is mad about how I explained my transition to my 4 year old niece.​

I have a 4 year old niece. She loves everything princess. I told her that I always wanted to be a princess like her. That I never wanted to be the prince. That I felt bad being the prince in the stories. That I didn't feel allowed to be a princess. Now that I'm a grown up I decided to become the princess I've wanted to be. It's a lot of work to be a princess but I'm trying. My sister is mad because my niece now goes up to Men and tells them they can be a princess if they want. She says that is inappropriate. I thought that is cute. I gave it thought before hand and thought of a very kid friendly way to say that she would like. I don't think my sister wanted my niece to know. But it just felt like an excuse to misgender me. She is mad and says she is to young to think about these things. I'm not indoctrinating my niece. My sister will get over it and it will all be fine. Just annoying.

ROGD at its finest: a nearly 40-year-old woman, only weeks ago, was a regular straight chick as bog standard as they come. But ever since she had her first taste of muff, she's been caught up in a transgender tornado, culminating in her setting up an appointment to begin HRT only weeks after her first homosexual encounter. She herself admits that less than a week after realizing she was transgender, she began transitioning! And they say medical gatekeeping is too harsh.
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My Eureka Moment​

lived my life for 37 years as cishet woman. I've always questioned my sexuality but I thought I was only bisexual.
4 to 6 weeks ago I slept with one woman and then another in short succession. Then I decided I was lesbian and wanted nothing to do with penises. Then I talk to an AFAB non-binary friend from my past and realized I could be trans masculine. I came to the conclusion that I am a trans man, and then 48 hours later I got an appointment with my PCP to begin transitioning.
I just knew from right then that is where I wanted to be This is who I am. Started testosterone 2 weeks ago, and I injected myself yesterday under the guidance of a nurse. I've already transitioned socially to my roommates, medical staff, and family. I plan to change my name sometime this year. I got injected with testosterone 3 days after I saw my PCP, so less than a week after realizing I was trans I got injected.
Now I simply identify as queer as I am attracted to people of all genders. I thought I was straight as a man but I still apparently like dick.

Notice how this troon resents that radical feminists have had to switch tactics to focus on chromosomes instead of anatomical appearance, yet to snipe back at his political opponents he implies that they, too, may secretly be male. So which is it, OP: are they self-hating tranners themselves, or are you mad that there are some gates with locks that even a surgeon's scalpel can't pick?
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Mental gymnastics of TERFS​

Imane Khelif is back in the news cycle. Ugh. I feel so bad for her having to justify her womanhood. TERFS are acting like this new chromosomal "revelation" (as if she hadn't already shared that she's intersex) is some proof that she's a man. They've moved the goal post from "gender is based on if you have a penis or a vagina" to "sex is based on your chromosomes". It's fucking baffling to me. I guarantee a decent chunk of these terfs calling Imane a man are intersex themselves. Intersex traits are about as common as being a natural red head. Fuck these bigots.

A MTF delights in the torment a biologically female friend of his endures because those of his tribe have made her an accidental target of abuse; chillingly, he doesn't even try to act as if he has sympathy for her plight, simply remarking that he's never had this kind of maltreatment take place and that it's just "kinda insane" that she had to pay for the misbehavior of him and his kind. This is, of course, imagining that this story is even true; I, for one, am greatly skeptical, but the focus here is not on the truth of the matter, but his icy presentation of it.
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Cis friend mistaken for trans​

I have a friend who's a cis girl. She has long hair and dresses feminine. Recently she's been depressed and has been neglecting herself in many ways. She stopped shaving her legs among many other things. She's also 5'7" which is pretty tall but really not that unusual for a cis woman.
She was using the bathroom at a clothing store earlier today. These two women started ganging up on her, calling her trans, and saying she didn't belong there. They used the hair on her legs as evidence that she can't be a cis woman, and that she's too tall to be one. And started pointing to random traits like having wide cheekbones and small boobs. One of them threatened to call the police on her. She ran out of the store into her car and she broke down crying.
Make no mistake, transvestigating is a way to police women's appearances. It's a tool of the patriarchy and this is an intended, purposeful consequence. Any woman who doesn't follow the "rules" by dressing in an acceptable way, shaving her body hair, etc will face consequences from this. Ironically as a decently passing trans woman, I've never had this happen to me, yet my friend who's cis has. Kinda insane.

A li'l dood haunted by the poltergeist of a penis she never had resents that people see her as a chick on 'roids instead of as a sickly man. What I want to know is how do you have a phantom sensation for a limb, specifically one made up of an extremely specific kind of tissue, that you never even fucking had? The human brain is a nightmarish organ and arguably the worst of the lot, but given the propensity for appendixes to chimp out randomly they have to take top spot for sure.
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I feel like cis people should just listen to me when I say “I am not a female on testosterone, I am a male with a health condition” so I don’t have to explain the minutiae of phantom dick over and over again.​

It’s just annoying.

Are your eyes feeling stiff and tense? Think they could use some relaxation? Join me at the Magic Pickle Ocular Yoga Studio for opportunities to stretch those retinas by rolling your eyes at posts like these, in which a tranny writes a questionably truthful tale of clapping back at strangers and describing it victoriously as his "first girl fight." Readers will notice, however, that the reality of the scene likely looked more like a grown man approaching an injured teenage girl and her mother quickly rescuing her from an unknown male, too flustered by her child's injury and his looming presence to analyze his appearance very closely. But hey, whatever wins you can get, right?
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First girl fight​

A very strange and disturbing gender affirming experience today at Costco. Kind of busy weekend rush. Just doing my thing. I see a young woman in a corner at the end of an aisle on the ground tucked between some pallets. She was holding her ankle and rocking in pain with nobody helping her! I maneuver over to her and ask, “hey, are you ok? Can I get you some help? She says no, but she seems to be in pain. I’m like, “are you sure?”
At that moment an angry older woman with a classic Karen haircut comes over and gets in my face and says “she’s fine! She doesn’t need help!!!” The energy is so weird. As the woman storms off, I ask the young woman again, “are you sure you are ok - is there anything I can do?” She again declines and I don’t know what choice I have but to move on, but I feel awkward about it. I move around the corner. As I do I see the woman go back to the young woman and hear her yell that she’s “sick of this shit”.
She then comes back and confronts me again.
“She’s fine! Leave my daughter alone!”
“She doesn’t look fine to me”, I reply.
“Mind your own business”! And she’s off again.
I move a little further and as she is agitatedly moving through the aisle, she confronts me again.
“Who do you even think you are? What kind of person talks to a kid like that? Leave her alone! I am handling it!”
Let’s be clear. This hurt girl was not making a scene. She was clutching her ankle and trying not to cry. She was at least 15. It was like she didn’t want to be noticed.
“I’m not sure you are” I responded.
“What do you mean?!! I’m her mother!”
“She is hurt. I would be taking care of my child not yelling at her and leaving her in a corner in pain!”
This kind of flustered her. She managed a hilariously weak return quip “Well you’re doing a great job lady!”
I’m sure she was thrown of by my smile as I replied “Thank you!” I was not tracking my voice and I was expecting to be clocked at any minute!
She stormed off and back to her kid, who I soon after saw limping off through the store. My friend, who caught part of this whole thing went to look for her a little belatedly but didn’t find her.
So, my first guns blazing girl fight since coming out and my opponent accepted me as a woman. I feel affirmed even as I feel sick for that girl and think of the damage she will need help with to repair growing up with such an abusive bitch of a mother.

A crossdressing space invader is offended when the female spaces he tries to occupy are not quite as acquiescing as he would like, which leads him to feel "genuinely done with online feminist spaces." Yes, I'm sure the women who were holding their breath to grand you more room will be devastated at the loss of you breathing down their necks, OP.
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Transphobia in feminist spaces​

I've always considered myself a feminist. So when certain popular feminist subreddits adopted a "No TERFs", I felt safe participating in them. I took that no TERFs to mean no TERFs.
Yet over time I've realised that's a big fucking lie. You will often find posts and comments on these subreddits that echo TERF talking points from the claim that trans women are "biologically male" to insisting that trans women are male socialized and so take up too much space in trans spaces.
A lot of feminists who claim to hate TERFS and be trans allies also seem to genuinely believe that while trans women are women, they are biologically male.
I made a post on a very popular feminist subreddit in good faith explaining why that claim is scientifically inaccurate and it was instantly removed by mods.
At this point I would prefer if people were honest about their transphobia instead of pretending to be allies. I am obviously going to keep being a feminist but I feel genuinely done with online feminist spaces.

A pouty li'l pooner thinks that it's time to turn the tables on her aunt 'cause Auntie doesn't care to cater to her caterwauling. I love posts like these because it's such a mask-off admittance to utilizing pronouns and chosen names as a form of social control instead of being as allegedly life-saving as advertised. I mean, good grief, OP, do you want your aunt to kill herself? Shame on you!
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I'm going to start using "he/him" for my disrespectful aunt.​

I'm 3 years into my medical transition. I have had top surgery and I have been on full-dose T for about 2 years. I pass about 70% of the time. Not that you need any of those things to be a man, it's just my context.
Most of my family adapted well. I have been using my chosen name and he/they for about 3 years too, and they do mostly fine. They treat me as a man.
Except for my aunt, who doesn't seem to care.
We had lunch together for my sister's birthday. My dad and me were the only two men in a table of 10 people. My family is mostly women. My aunt then told my dad:
"Hey Rafa (dad's name), you are surrounded by girls!"
No biggie, there were mostly women at the table.
After saying that a second time, she starts pointing "Girl, girl, girl..." Points at me "girl"
She apologized casually after, but yeah, that won't do. She still used "she" for me today. About to start using "he/him" for her, let's see how she feels.
I love her very much and she loves me too, but she's being an asshole.
So yeah, stay strong y'all, just wanted to share.

A predatory HSTS (i.e., a homosexual male) post-dickchop encourages his fellow dickless homosexuals to stop being honest about the reality of their bodies because it risks dooming them to a lifetime of loneliness, claiming that "If you disclose to everyone you are setting yourself up for failure." I suppose if you see not winding up dead in a ditch somewhere as a failure, I can kind of understand his logic, but some people are too stupid to not learn lessons the hard way, so if you follow OP's advice just know that you deserved it.
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Stop disclosing. Stop it.​

Dating is easier when you avoid disclosing until a later stage. I've had 3 boyfriends post SRS and I only ever disclosed to 1 of them after around 5 months of dating. He probably wouldn't have dated me if I disclosed on the first date but when I disclosed we were already deeply bonded so he accepted me. If you disclose to everyone you are setting yourself up for failure. Also stop using Grindr

Speaking of predatory HSTSes, here's another gay eunuch who delights in the idea of making presumably heterosexual men suffer for the crimes of being, presumably, heterosexual, even though any man willing to make bed with a man is bisexual at best. The thrill of abuse here is noteworthy, in my mind, because even among transgender critics there remains heavy consideration that male-attracted troons are victims of violence - but what of those who fetishize the perpetration of it? Does a man who desires to subjugate and rape deserve bloody consequences for bloody desires? Food for thought.
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Omg, girls.. ​

I’m having an identity crisis.
I’ve always been the “fuck you mean?” girl when asked about topping.
Especially with married men. Especially with the ones who act like cheating is a hobby. When they asked me to top them, I used to joke I’d fist them.
Then I started handing the “.. but I’ll fist you” ‘joke’ to any guy who had the nerve to ask me to top him.
Not because I’m a dom.
Because I was irritated.
Disgusted.
And I wanted to punish the audacity.
And somewhere along the way, the irritation turned into.. enjoyment?
A little sadism.
A controlled amount.
As a treat
Now.. this cute, rugged construction guy asked if I’d use a strap-on with him.
And instead of my usual “lol no,” my brain went: Oh.
Now I’m picturing photoshoots.
Harnesses.
Leather.
Did you know they have strapless strap-ons?!
I’m sitting here getting excited like I literally didn’t get the exact appendage needed for this surgically removed.
And part of me is angry. Gay men have been vilified, jailed, and murdered over this exact activity for decades. In plenty of places it's still illegal. Then “straight” men rebrand it and suddenly sodomy pegging is “kinky” and “progressive” and “sex positive.” Love that for them
But now.. now there’s a part of me that’s excited to make them whimper.
Not even in a cruel way.
In a “you’re going to learn something about yourself today” way.. lol okay yes, maybe a little bit of cruelty
So.. is this growth? .. or hypocrisy?

A female-to-con artist wants to know how to get the sweat to stop pouring when her past name comes back to haunt her no matter how many times she tries to keep it dead and buried. I find this sort of stuff rather Orwellian and creepy despite being a prolific phonebooker, but I have to admit, it's funny watching the troons 'n' poons get nervous knowing that their true selves will never truly be erased no matter what they do.
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What ways are you outed just doing normal life things like getting a mortgage or having your information on a public information database?​

I legally transitioned almost 11 years ago. The first two I was clockable but since then I'm able to meander through life stealth. I hope it's okay to ask this question. I do understand that I am privileged to be able to go through the world stealth. Does the stench of your dead self follow you around forever?
Things like: a year or so ago I put forth the effort to remove my name from all those public information databases. It backfired on me because I've returned but it's a mash up of my dead self and my real self. In one example: the Whitepages profile has my first name, my dead first name as my middle name, and then my last name along with the normal demographic stuff. It's so frustrating because I'm trapped in a world where it can be very unsafe for certain people to find that information. I just looked at Whitepages and it looks like they've done a good job of erasing my existence. For now.
And then there's the AKA issue with legal name changes. If you get your records sealed does that then solve the AKA issues or does it just mean that your case doesn't show up in probate public court records? When I got my mortgage one of the closing papers I had to sign was a sheet that had my former name and now my current name. I wasn't expecting it so I was terribly uncomfortable but the title agency was professional about it. I imagine that cops will always have that information in their databases? I can kind of understand that. How else will my AKA pop up? What other random situations? A few years ago it came to me randomly that I would never feel comfortable filing for bankruptcy because the notices always list the AKA's. I suppose if I was in a dire situation I would just have to live with it, at the time it was just an observation I made. Right after I transitioned my car was parked in a way that could be considered suspicious and a cop pulled up just to make sure everything was okay. I explained what I was doing and he was on his way. As he was backing up he stopped and asked, this car is registered to you, right? It didn't click right away but I realized later that I hadn't updated my registration so my dead name was showing up even though I was not that gender. He hadn't asked for my license or anything, just had the plate information to go on. It was a white privilege thing. I would have been treated much differently if I were a POC.
I don't love that at every level my medical records scream trans. My insurance has only ever known me as male but my diagnosis is listed and everything is always "xxxxx xxxx, a female to male transgender....". Last month my PCP (who is fabulous) sent over a lab request to a larger hopsital. The tech happened to send that lab order directly to me and next to my name in parenthesis it said "female". That bothered me so much. I chickened out of bringing it up at my last appointment but I'm going to at my next one. I don't understand why it said that. All of my lab levels are checked in the male ranges. Why are we having to scream out "it's a transgendered" as I walk through the door?
Just a quick note on disclosure: I am picky. My dentist doesn't know I'm trans. I have yet to have a situation where I've felt compelled to answer honestly to the question of ASAB. That question isn't being asked in good faith. If it were something that I thought might have legal ramifications then I would consider answering honestly. Amazon asking me just to register with their RX program? Hard pass.
As far as the public information stuff. I did look into companies that will help with that. I know that DeleteMe is advertised the most but their prices are out of this world. I think they really want to cater to the medical professionals and judges and people that make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. I still need to research but I know that Kanary and Optery were on my shortlist. Even just to have them do it the first time and then I'll maintain it from there.
What other situations have you encountered?

The Gender Dysphoria Bible, a known transgender grooming tool, has captured yet another unwitting man in its net as he turns to Reddit in hopes of gaining some clarity on crossdressing. Though he once was a man of science (with a tendency to wear his girlfriend's underwear in secret), he is now freefalling into the realm of troonacy, consulting the text and making his own conclusions that fully support a delusion he has already decided to pursue. It's stupid to bother asking if you're transgender when others will say you are no matter what, but we all know this is only asked by people with spines made of silly string who are simply waiting for others to push them off the ledge and absolve them of responsibility.
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I may be an egg... and need some advice on what these signs mean.​

Risking this on my main account but the alt was getting blocked for low karma, so here goes nothing.
Hi everyone, I will start by saying that this is very difficult to post and is a long one, so if you do read and comment, thank you .
I, up until last weekend thought I was just a regular cis man (29). Im not particuarly masculine in stature (5ft 9") other than some facial features and broad shoulders, but I have a lithe build and small hands. I don't know what finally made me go looking for answers, but I came across some amazing article on genderdysphoria.fyi and it was like a grenade of reality went off in my mind. I now realise I have been repressing for around 15 years and memories are hitting me like a bullet train. I am anxious, and scared. I am from the UK and grew up in a rural area which is NOT kind to anything outside of gender norms, including friends and some family members. I also come from a scientific biology background and that I think helped squash any thoughts and demonised myself through the years.
I will start by saying that I am seeing a gender therapist next week and am very excited about that, as well as absolutely terrified. I wanted to share some memories I have noticed, may have been signs, as well as some experiences that lead me to believe that I may, not in fact, be a cis man after all. Without further ado, here is a list.
- The button test - Instant push. Didnt even question it.
- I don't hate my body, and wouldnt consider myself as having major dysphoria but I have never been fully happy in it especially my face, even when I have people say I am an attractive man. Always thought I would have been happier being born as a girl.
- snapchat filter of gender swap: kept it for years as secretly loved her face and the fact family and friends said I would have been a pretty girl. Hard to believe anyone when they called me handsome
- Lost my dad to cancer last year very suddenly, never would have approved of anything other than his son so wonder if that has influenced things now grief has somewhat settled.
- Really love floral scents and nice smelling shampoo and conditioners, but never said this out loud.
- Apparently looking down and wishing you had boobs and being in the shower hoping your chest had magically got bigger isn't a cis thing to do. Supposedly cis people never really question their gender?
- Lying awake at night wishing you were in a body that brought you peace which was female.
- Making a joke on holiday last year when I forgot to bring any underwear (I have no idea how) and the only available ones in the shop being womens that I should just get them anyway as it would be funny (secretly internally really wanting to try them)
- Walking with a different gait sometimes when no one is looking and then second guessing myself
- Always hating body hair, which leads me to shaving my legs for the first time on Monday after Sundays realisations, and LOVING the feeling and look of them afterwards. I lay there in bed in complete euphoria before the anxiety clamped my chest.
- Trying on partners bra's at the time in secret and then feeling ashamed and shrugging it off wondering why I did that.
- Escaping into fantasy with video games and always creating female characters because I just 'liked it more'. In BG3 made a trans girl... only just clocked that writing this list. Seems like now it was the only safe container for me to be who I am?
- I have always got on easier with women and absolute disdain at the lad mentality and aggressive wanker attitudes so many of them have, finding it very awkward when I was left alone with them at times through uni etc.
- I have had some lovely relationships in the past with women but realised I was never in this body during any intimate moments, instead imagining myself being in the body I wanted to be in.
Anything anyone can say or thoughts in general would be great to help me sleep at night. I currently feel like my world is collapsing inwards in the realisation that I have not been true to myself, but am so anxious about that I dont know what to do with myself. I am taking it slow and one day at a time. There are many things if this path is true that will be damaged, but I need to remember those people were never there for me to begin with in that case.
With that, I hope everyone is doing okay and I really appreciate now just how scary this must be for anyone unsure of their identity, or the realisation in my case of lying to yourself for 15 years and knowing you couldnt and didnt have any language or ability to explore it earlier due to the fear of ever being found out by anyone.
Thank you <3

And we'll wrap up with another gender-questioning dipshit, but this one is of the butch lesbian variety. Within only 10 hours of this post going live in r/ftm, OP goes from being a turbobutch lesbian to coming out as transgender to her family, leaving the shackles of lesbianism behind and seeking out a prescription for testosterone, which should just go to show you that piranhas and pooners are eerily similar with how quickly they both descend on flesh the second it hits water. I am aware that this is mostly a movie myth, but the mental image of a fish tank full of li'l doodz shredding a ham hock in seconds amused me too much to resist.
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I think my wife thinks I’m a trans man and it’s thrown me into an identity crisis?​

I apologize if this is the wrong place.
For context: I’m a very (very) butch lesbian. I married my wife in 2023 but we’ve been together since 2018. I just started going to the gym a year ago and made a ton of progress (lost 50 lbs and I’m getting so much stronger) but I’m dealing with MAJOR body dysmorphia.
I’ve always hated how I looked. I want a sharper jawline and I hate my boobs so much. Overall I want a more masc look. Not saying I want top surgery but a little smaller wouldn’t hurt, ya know? Anyway, I want don’t care for how people address me, I don’t get offended when someone calls me sir or he/him or whatever, because I totally get it. I can pass for a guy in a club if I’m wearing a sports bra kind of thing. I recently thought about getting on T to look more how I want to. I want an angular jaw, better fat distribution, just overall I want my physique to match what I’ve always wanted to see.
Lately, my wife has been saying things like “I’m practically married to man,” “I think you should try T, I like when your voice is deeper,” “I think you’d be really sexy as a guy, too” “the only difference between being with you and being with a man is that you steal my clothes,” etc.
I’ve always been pretty confident in my gender, being cis. Sometimes I’ll have a weird dream where I’m a guy, but dreams are weird anyway. But, now, with what my wife is saying, and even my personal trainer sometimes says stuff akin to “your brain and straight man’s brain are pretty much the same,” I’m like getting thrown for a fucking loop. Because now I’m thinking about how I overall want to look more masculine because that’s how I’ve always seen myself, but I just saw myself as a really masculine woman; or I think about how my wife is lowkey telling me to start T, and then I’m like, well, fuck, is this a situation where everyone knows except me? I don’t think I’m in the wrong body (except that I still see myself as 260 lbs and fat with tits)? When people call me he or sir I don’t care, and it’s not like I prefer it or anything I just don’t really mind. I mean like yeah I pretty much exclusively shop in men’s sections, but like, I thought that was a butch lesbian thing anyway??
But now I’m like scared to try T, because even though I’ll probably get the body I want, I don’t want gynacomastia (if that’s the word) because I don’t want to have “equipment” if you get what I’m saying. And also (and forgive this if it sounds transphobic, I’m just blurting my thoughts out, and I’m trying to word this correctly) what if I like being on T too much? Which if I do wouldn’t be a problem because my family is incredibly supportive of everything. Idk, I’m just in a crisis now? I don’t think I am a man, but everyone else seems to think I am? Does that make sense? Anyway, thanks for reading and any advice is appreciated
UPDATE: ya’ll have watched this happen in real time. You guys are so nice and supportive!! I want to apologize for the internal transphobia that was pointed out. I am very shameful and embarrassed about it, especially because I had no idea. Long story short, my wife is right (as usual) and I hope I can forgiven and welcomed in. I have a few lesbian subreddits to leave. I mentioned in a comment that when I came out as gay, everyone around me basically said “oh, you didn’t know?.” Guess what happened when I mentioned it to one of my friends. And my sister.
To the person who asked if I was wanting permission to be trans, you made me cry, because I was, I think, weirdly, asking for permission.
Wanna know what’s worse? When I was little my mom told me she swore up and down she was having a boy when she was pregnant with me. Was planning to name me Andrew. So I guess, mom was right? It just took 27 years, lol. Guess we’re doing a gender reveal party pretty soon. Thanks guys.
Edit: how do you change your username??
UPDATE 2: my wife called me her husband and I could have floated through the roof with the high I just felt
Edit 2: now that I have fully accepted this, I have realized that ever since I was like 16/17 I’ve wanted to be on T and have top surgery but never actually thought about it that deeply because I just thought most people went through a phase like that too ya’ll I’m dying at how obvious this was

 

[The Noticer]

These people are too retarded to be a threat lol

If they aren't violent psychopaths, they're rapists or child predators.

 

[LateNightMuffin]

A li'l dood haunted by the poltergeist of a penis she never had resents that people see her as a chick on 'roids instead of as a sickly man.

When describing himself, no real man would ever use the words "minutiae" and "dick" in the same sentence.

Also, if I were the father of that four year old that first guy was grooming, he would never speak to that girl again.

 

[Toxic BRAAAAP Mask]

and chin in practically every photo.

He does have one of those tranny shooter chins, doesn't he?

It's stupid to bother asking if you're transgender when others will say you are no matter what, but we all know this is only asked by people with spines made of silly string who are simply waiting for others to push them off the ledge and absolve them of responsibility.

Really love floral scents and nice smelling shampoo and conditioners, but never said this out loud.

Well, gee, I guess we're all trannies then if that's what it takes! Throw out all your candles that aren't Old Spice and Brut scented while we're at it, fellas. Can't have anyone thinking we're one of them transexual eggs I keep hearing about on the news.

 

[poggers]

Notice how this troon resents that radical feminists have had to switch tactics to focus on chromosomes instead of anatomical appearance, yet to snipe back at his political opponents he implies that they, too, may secretly be male.

They've moved the goal post from "gender is based on if you have a penis or a vagina" to "sex is based on your chromosomes".

I mean, Khelif doesn't have a vagina, he has some kind of mutated penis. Just because your penis didn't grow in properly, due to a disorder you inherited from your parents being closely related, doesn't mean you have a vagina. Try again, sir.
Westerners, terf or otherwise, are unlikely to be intersex. Disorders of sexual development are more prevalent in places like Algeria and Africa where incest and first cousin marriages are common.

A MTF delights in the torment a biologically female friend of his endures because those of his tribe have made her an accidental target of abuse

This story is clearly made up, as are all this guy's "but I passed flawlessly" reddit anecdotes. But can we just appreciate how even in his fantasy world, its really insulting for anyone to think you're a tranny.

His bio girl friend ran out of a store crying because people thought she was trans? But why? Shouldn't she be unbothered? He's admitting that bio women would be gravely offended to be thought of as what he is. What a self own