But then she'd lose the special snowflake tumblr oppression brownie points. She just needs a nice cis gay man to forcefem her and get her mpreg'd so she can be a seahorse dad.
Y'know, I think I might just write a greasemonkey script to auto-rate every post in this thread as horrifying. It would probably save a great deal of time and benefit my mental health.
Funny inter-community drama today. "Femboy" pooner is now taking testosterone and devestated and dysphoric at how it's making her masculine. Her and other lil poons are fighting in the comments saying they're still valid men and the dysphoria is the same as "cis femboys".
A lot are also calling her out and making fun of her.
"Being feminine doesn't equal womanhood" So I guess all the people who go "trans women are women because look how feminine they are" can no longer use that argument.
"Their gender expression doesn't conform to norms established by society to identify as said gender"
This right here is proof we can't trust any study on transgender people's brains. If people's gender expressions are all different then what exactly is a man's brain? Again, it can't just be an inner identity that has 0 traits to it. According to these people, I can literally identify as a woman, not take any HRT, dress masculine, and still claim to be a woman. This entire movement doesn't know what it wants to be.
hairyNsubmissive has some very strange genitals. I hope the meat-augurs in this thread can tell us what procedures are responsible.
She is a 32 year-old FtM Submissive Masochist, Power Bottom, Sadomasochist, Hedonist and cumslut. Her sexual orientation is Androsexual, i.e. she likes men.
Her profile text:
"I feel wet thinking about a hard cock inside of me. I am FTM trans. No pussyhole anymore, (unfortunately) but still have my clit, labia, & vaginal tissue. I would like a man to use all my holes and fuck my labia until I orgasm from my clit. I should be punished & force femmed for not having a fertile hole he can impregnate."
Even the most cursory look at her groups and kinks reveals that this gal really, really fantasizes about big dicks barebacking her until she is pregnant and forced detransition.
Now what piqued my interest was that hairyNsubmissive still has most(?) of her female genitalia. Just stuck on the outside, looking like a cross between a prolapsed anus and a mangled ballsack with a hole going nowhere except regret.
Of course, she has also written about some things important to her.
Good news: I can squirt still (and it felt great)
I haven't squirted in 12 years, but did last night, twice. The last time was about a year before I had gender affirming surgeries. I have always heard it was possible & am elated it is for me...with the right guy & a good pounding. The flood gates opened as a large cock pounded me out; I exclaimed, "oh fuck, I'm cumming" as I shot all over the bed. It was both embarrassing & euphoric. I didn't want it to stop. I would love for this to happen again soon.
Tags: Trans - Female to Male,Squirting,Submissive,Orgasm,Cumming
In regards to messages along the lines of "I didn't know you could get rid of your pussy" or similar sentiments...
...as of today, I am no longer answering these questions. I will click on your message, click "revoke consent", & that's what you should expect. As it stands, I am offering too much kindness already. It takes a matter of seconds to search "vaginal canal removal procedure name" without creating an uncomfortable & dysphoric environment in my inbox.
I don't mind talking about my experiences as a trans person, but many people open messages focused on something I do not have. As far as pleasure goes, it raises concerns because my labia & clitoris still sit in basically the same position and are NEVER asked about. It's never "how can I pleasure the parts you have" or "how do you experience the most pleasure". If you can't care about how I feel for even a second, just accept we're not a match & move on. Every day AT LEAST one person is in my inbox trying to guilt me for not being the person they wish I was & I'm not giving any of my energy towards that any longer. That's all.
Tags: PSA,Trans - Female to Male,Boundaries
Shit like this is super invalidating. Like imagine telling someone what they are when that isn't how they identify or present. I am FTM nonbinary & a submissive; should be allowed to post accordingly without men trying to dictate what my transition is to me.
Next, we have a true and honest African Kang. King-Malik is a 37 year old Primal Top, Trans Man, Transgender, Sadomasochist, Dominant Sadist. She is queer, sapiosexual and demisexual and goes by He/Him pronouns. She only just started her journey into gender euphoria, as she received her first dose of testosterone only in late January.
Here is her profile text. Bolding not mine.
"I want to be the reason you lose control.
I am a 243 lb Primal Top looking for a partner who craves a heavy, deliberate presence. My dominance isn't about cruelty; it's about consuming you. I want to explore the dark, heavy spaces of play with you—CNC, beating, breath play—but always wrapped in the safety of absolute trust and aftercare.
What I Am Looking For
I am exclusively seeking AFAB Femmes and AFAB Sissy Trans Men.
Body: I have a deep appreciation for all body sizes. Bring me your body exactly as it is.
Age: 18-30 preferred.
Reciprocation: I am not here just to serve; I am here to share. I need a partner who wants to explore and worship my body just as ravenously as I will yours.
Pleasure: Pussy Worship is my religion. I want to learn every inch of you.
Intimacy: Limits are respected. Safe words are respected. Aftercare is promised.
Hard Limits: No urine, scat, or blood."
You may have gotten a few rapey vibes from her desire to consume her partner in a non-culinary way. But King-Malik assures you that she is not a rapist, despite being into consensual-non-consent.
"I have so much passion built up in me for sex and love and intimacy that I think I scare people off. But I am sincere. I want women to be safe around me. I want them to feel safe most importantly. I want to be the container for them to fall apart. After of course we play. I cannot stress enough how much I care about women being safe or people who are born as women."
Before I post her pictures, I want to show you how King-Malik sees herself.
"As someone who lived as a very beautiful by societal standards cis woman for nearly four decades, you go right ahead and use that privilege. Black trans women are hated so much by society, fuck it. Fuck them."
King-Malik has started a diary of her transition on fetlife, which I will keep an eye on.
Malik's Transition - Day 1
I got injected with testosterone cyphionate today. 200 mg per 1 ml and they inject you with 1 ml every 2 weeks. Experiencing crotch tingling, vocal box soreness, subtle scent changes, I stopped fidgeting, I feel a sense of calm. I feel at ease in my body and in my soul. Will need the other testosterone formulation as this one is causing systemic all over body itching.
Jan 23
Day 8 on T: The Animal Has Entered the Chat
Testosterone isn’t just a physical sensation; it is a complete rewriting of the brain’s priority list.
I used to think the "horniness" men talked about was just a bodily function. I was wrong. It’s not just a sensation; it is a focus. It is a disturbing, relentless pursuit drive. It’s like an animal has taken over my executive functioning. My eyes scan rooms differently. My brain assesses "goals" differently. The dopamine hit isn't just in the connection anymore—it's in the hunt.
But here is my secret weapon: I have the cheat codes.
Because I spent 37 years socialized as a woman, I know exactly what it feels like to be on the receiving end of this energy. I know how reckless and tone-deaf it can feel when a man shoots from the hip without thinking.
So, I am learning the art of The Pause.
When the T screams "GO," my history whispers "Wait." I have to manually override the animal instinct to ensure I'm still operating with emotional intelligence. It is a constant game of trial and error—feeling the surge of the "Fuckboy" impulse, acknowledging it, and then choosing to act like a King instead.
I am running a manual transmission in a world of automatics. The game is changing, but I’m still the one driving.
Feb 1
Sanctuary: Why My Silence is Not Loneliness
People often ask how I can alone and be the happiest I’ve ever been. They don't understand that for 37 years, my life was a battlefield.
I am no longer dodging the shrapnel of emotional abuse. No one is hands-deep in my pockets trying to control my money. No one is violating my body. I have retired from the role of the "Unpaid Therapist" for people who refuse to grow while I am out here evolving at warp speed.
For a long time, I stayed in the noise because I thought keeping people around—even toxic ones—meant I wasn't "alone." But I was lonelier then than I am now.
Transitioning to Malik isn't just about the Testosterone or the surgery; it’s about Sovereignty. It’s about the peace of knowing that the only voice in this room that matters is mine. I’m not "isolated." I am in a sanctuary of my own making. I’m finally in a space where I don’t have to protect myself from the people who claim to love me.
I’ve outgrown the version of myself that tolerated being treated like shit. The silence isn't empty—it's full of the man I am becoming.
Feb 1
To sum it up, she is using life altering medical treatment to run away from herself and her own past. Must have been some serious traumatig events, right? Luckily for us King-Malik has written about a few of her bad experiences. Now I know these are only two texts and she is not very descriptive. I can easily see how this could have been real rape and a real traumatic event. But having a dude open up to you about his own childhood sexual abuse and coming out of that relationship thinking you got no intimacy and later concluding that you have been raped is a really strong victim mentality.
The Cost of Coercion at 19
When I was 19, I met my first adult "boyfriend" at the coffee shop where my stitch 'n bitch group met. He was 25 and worked there. I lost my virginity to him, partly because I worried keeping it would be a hindrance to my future dating life.
The truth about that connection is that it was entirely sexual, and looking back, I never received any intimacy from it. The most intimate thing that happened was him telling me about being sexually abused as a child.
This was not a healthy relationship; it was months of sexual coercion.
I would go to his house, and all he ever wanted me to do was suck his cock. That's what he kept pressuring me and telling me to do over and over again, for months. I absolutely did not want to do it all the time - I actually wanted to stop doing it completely.
I was forced to go down on him repeatedly while he sat there and watched television. I believe that forcing someone to engage in sexual acts against their will is rape, and that’s what I experienced.
He broke up with me because I was too "immature" and "young minded" for him. To call that connection a relationship would be an overstatement.
This was rape. And I am speaking out about it now.
Dec 8, 2025
Here she retells how a white man on tinder who "gave off that "hood" vibe" paid to drive her to his home and forced her to bake him a chicken. The night continued with a series of escalating red flags that ended up with her having screaming orgasms on his dick. Yeah, it sucks that he was so hung he left her bleeding, but she really couldn't get off the red flag escalator before she arrived at Barnes & Noble?
The Cost of a Lyft, The Cost of Silence
I want to start sharing pieces of my history, not to dwell, but to process and remember how far I’ve come. This is the hardest one for me to write, but it was the worst in my personal experience.
A little over three and a half years ago, just before I finally got clean from alcohol, I met a man on Tinder.He was attractive—muscular, white, with long hair, and he gave off that "hood" vibe. We talked, and he offered to pay. He paid a total of $400 for a round-trip Lyft, sending me all the way from my home in Hyannis to his place in Plymouth. This is not a short drive. It felt off, but I was drunk, and I went.
When I got there, we were drank and smoked cigarettes. Then, in one of the strangest things to ever happen on a first date, but he had me go bake him a chicken.
The rest of the night was a series of immediate red flags and escalating abuse. He had an large penis—honestly, the largest I’ve ever seen—and when I tried to perform oral sex, there wasn't enough room. I ended up having to use my teeth, and I had to stop because I couldn't help it.
When we moved upstairs for sex, we were in doggy style, which is actually one of my favorite positions because it feels so good and easy. I’m vocal during sex and I was orgasming, making noise, when he said: "Shut the fuck up, bitch".
I froze.
I stopped moving, I shut the fuck up, and in that moment, I went into a rape-induced freeze. Freezing is the appropriate trauma response when you think someone is going to kill you, and that’s exactly what I did to survive.
I left his house bleeding, went straight back to Hyannis, and went to work the next day at the two-story Barnes & Noble in the mall. I hated that job, but I showed up, pretending I was fine.
I am not fine. But I survived it. I am 3.5 years sober from alcohol now, and I am choosing to reclaim my body and my narrative one day at a time. I am a survivor.
When we moved upstairs for sex, we were in doggy style, which is actually one of my favorite positions because it feels so good and easy. I’m vocal during sex and I was orgasming, making noise, when he said: "Shut the fuck up, bitch".
I froze.
I stopped moving, I shut the fuck up, and in that moment, I went into a rape-induced freeze.
What? So she got upset and decided she wanted to stop in her head but didn't communicate it in any way. I really don't think this would be considered rape...
That's a phalloplasty. Either the photos weren't clear or I squinted at the wrong ones, but from the lumps and her text I suspect she had the phalloplasty with vaginectomy, but without clitoral "burial" or an attempt to turn the labia into a cosmetic scrotum. Maybe on purpose, maybe as a planned second step that didn't materialize.
Go post that in the SRS thread, we love us a good crotchflesh origami over there. By "good" I mean "gah what the fuck," not good.
Agree with @Aunt Carol, she's had phalloplasty and looks like medical tattooing as well in an attempt to make it look more like a dick and less like a tube of sugar cookie dough. 2/10 effort, kinda fails in execution due to the burned vagina just below it, among other reasons (such as being haphazardly attached to a mentally ill woman).
Pooners in an uproar after they're kicked out of a Lesbian subreddit
What's up with pooners calling themselves lesbians? I've never seen a troon try to claim they're homosexual?
Straight men (what they try to larp as) are on the bottom of their victim olympics, meaning that in their worldview they are the most privileged group and therefore are not allowed to whine, otherwise they would be called incels and told to kill themselves if they get whiny about their dating life
So wanting to have their cake and eat it too they have to keep calling themselves lesbians to be able to get the required asspats from their woke associates
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"Their gender expression doesn't conform to norms established by society to identify as said gender"
This right here is proof we can't trust any study on transgender people's brains. If people's gender expressions are all different then what exactly is a man's brain? Again, it can't just be an inner identity that has 0 traits to it. According to these people, I can literally identify as a woman, not take any HRT, dress masculine, and still claim to be a woman. This entire movement doesn't know what it wants to be.
This is a real argument that someone tried to make. It reminds me of when that non-binary Welsh mayor (Owen Hurcum) tried to gotcha a gender critical guy by asking him if he thinks that non-binary people should be forced to use the men's room or the women's room. As online as these people are, even their minimal exposure to the real world should make it abundantly clear that these are weird, fringe beliefs, and yet they pretend that these are commonsense beliefs for them to morally grandstand on.
To be fair, I wouldn't say that to a furry femboy cis twink since he's not transitioning, he just is a man and even though I find the whole femboy thing obnoxious I don't fundamentally have a problem with a man being feminine as long as he doesn't make me pretend that he's a woman.
It happens. One famous example is Malcolm "Marsha Johnson" Michaels who expressed annoyance that his johns would pretend to believe he was a woman. It irked him that these obviously gay or bisexual men would pretend that his weathered ass had managed to trick them into picking him up and the idea of having sex with a cross dresser was some epiphany they were having and not something that they’d fantasized about or even done many times.
Malcolm sort of represented the low-end of the midwit meme where he was clearly too stupid to be fooled by gender sophistry.
A woman who got her vagina sealed shut to ensure that she can only get fucked in her butt is mighty tired of men wishing they could, instead, fuck her vagina. Please have pity on this poor li'l poon - all she wants is to get her "asshole resized," is that so much to ask?! Link | Archive
I'm post-op for a vaginectomy but still pre-op for meta. Vaginectomy only seals shut the vaginal canal but ofc they have to leave behind the tissue (labia/vulva? Idk) for scrotoplasty so unless you're up close its a bit hard to tell that I've had it done. I do tell people that I don't have a vagina and I only have anal sex. I still have people make comments about my non-existent vagina. And I get it's not inherently problematic, people are allowed to have genital preferences. But I can't help but be sad and disgusted it feels like I'm most valued for something I don't have and hate. I was hoping that having a vaginectomy would make things better, but right now I just don't feel like things are inherently better, just different. I know even after meta the comments won't fully disappear but I can at least hope they'll be less.
Hey folks,
I initially used the “advice unwelcome” tag to avoid being told to just leave spaces that don’t suit me. I know. But I feel weird about something that I can’t quite name.
If anyone has more experience in BDSM spaces gone awry, please let me know if this is a pattern. I’ve been looking at misgendering kink subreddits as a kind of CNC/BDSM-style entertainment.
I’m questioning the authenticity of the posters (and feeling bad about it). As well as the intentions of the “doms.”
Most ftm posters are clearly pre-T, showing off large breasts and hips, in lingerie etc. They specifically draw attention to their feminine features.
When I’ve posted, the men who message me don’t just engage in misgendering. They are genuinely disappointed by testosterone, facial hair and a flat chest. They are explicitly not attracted to those features and ask for pre-T pictures.
One person recently made an “I’ve had it, I’m leaving” post. They said they were interested in the kink but can’t take the doms seriously anymore as someone a decade on T. They received so many hate comments they deleted their whole account.
A few questions:
If men want to see feminine AFAB bodies with no hormones or surgery, surely they can go anywhere else on Reddit?
What are even genuine transphobes getting out of this, if they are not attracted to masculine bodies?
What is subversive about being called a stupid girl if you’ve made zero steps towards social or physical transition? (I realise this question leans transmedicalist. It’s very context-specific)
EDIT: This is the most contentious question. I was uncomfortable with the transmedicalist lens anyways. I’m more asking what is being subverted if there transness or masculinity are not claimed, and then men don’t want to see any transness or masculinity either
Are we going to have to make an r/ FTMMENMisgenderingKink The ultimate Reddit horseshoe.
Wig, snatched: while poking fun at a friend's receding hairline, a "stealth" FTM gets more than she bargained for when her chrome-domed companion straight up scalps her by pointing out her obvious femininity; this is actually so painful for OP that she's been on an abusive, drunken bender ever since to cope with the humiliation she endured. Link | Archive
I’ve been on T for 5 years, never have any issues with passing at all. I work in rural MAGA country and people yap about hating trans people to me and have no idea. Tall, facial hair, flat chest, no hips. I am stealth to most people I have met since I moved cross country.
I was gaming with my friend who I have not told im trans, and we started kind of play arguing. I called him bald and he said ‘brother you look like a woman’. This happened last week and it’s been eating me alive. I’ve been excessively drinking since, I’ve been having fights with my girlfriend and friends, everyone’s been telling me I need to figure my shit out because I’ve been a total asshole and I know this is the reason i’ve been emotional even if im not thinking about it in the moment. I didn’t talk to my girlfriend about it because I just don’t want to talk about it to anyone. I almost feel embarrassed.
A hopeless romantic feels insecure about how most of her true and honest male friends aren't quite as captivated by love stories the way that she is, seemingly unaware of some of the greatest love stories ever written being penned by the hands of men. There really isn't a single damn thing you kooky kids won't feel insecure about, is there? Link | Archive
When I watch TV shows and there is a romance between two characters, I usually get pretty attached to these characters and it becomes one of the most exciting things about the show for me. I feel like this is a really girly thing though I am sure plenty of cis guys get wrapped up into fictional romances, I just don’t think the guy friends I am surrounded by do the same way I do…
I’m not really insecure about it and I very proudly enjoy ‘feminine’ things but it’s a thing that kinda bothers me a little that I get so devoted to fictional couples cuz that feels very feminine being into romantic stuff lol. Kind of in two minds about it.
On the verge of beginning testosterone therapy, a dood's dude worries that taking heart exploding juice will send her already tender little ticker to the Shadow Realm, so he wants to see medical paperwork that proves it's safe for her; OP, however, is a bit worried that it may turn out to be medically unwise for her to take aforementioned heart exploding juice after all, so please provide personal anecdotes that definitely aren't presented as benignly as possible to reassure her that it's, like, chill, bro! Link | Archive
Hey guys!
A little bit of background information, I am looking into starting testosterone therapy. The only problem is, my family and myself have a history of heart problems, and I understand that some studies have shown that testosterone can have adverse affects to heart health. However, some people claim that it in fact does not pose a significantly increased risk to heart health. I'm looking for medical journals, studies, documents etc. detailing the effects that testosterone has on the heart. My boyfriend is incredibly worried for me in this regard and it is for this reason that he is very against the idea of me taking hormones, even though he is fully aware that it would help me, he is very worried about me having a heart attack, potentially dying.
I have told him that there are no guarantees, but he unfortunately is a man whose mind cannot rest until he gets hard proof of something.
I am going to do research into this myself, of course, but in the meantime if any of you have any good resources I could share with him that document the effects on the heart of HRT in transgender men, it would be greatly appreciated. For added context, the "history of heart problems" I'm talking about are: last year my maternal grandmother had a couple of strokes and had to have open heart surgery because of it. She has never had the greatest diet, though, and struggles with obesity. In terms of me personally, I was born premature and had a lot of health complications as a young child. I will admit I do not quite remember what all I had problems with, but I had an abnormal heartbeat for most of my younger years, although it did eventually fade with time. I no longer have this odd heartbeat rhythm, but it is something I did have at one point in time.
Of course, even if you don't have any links, if you have personal information regarding this topic I would be thrilled to hear it as well. I really want to reassure my boyfriend that I will be okay, or not... depending on what research will turn up. I really don't want to have to tell him "Hey baby, you know that thing you were worried about? Yeah, it'll probably happen to me. Oops." As well as for my own peace of mind.
Finally, a pooner worries that a classmate's insulting caricature of her is indicative that the knowledge of troons 'n' poons has escaped "containment," seemingly under the impression that this was some kind of secret intracommunity language rather than a method of sexing transgenders the way one might refer to toms and queens or bulls and cows. Link | Archive
A couple months ago someone I loosely know drew a joke art of me (pooner) during class It looked exactly like a pooner drawing: big black shiny eyes, puffy lips, round ass face, prominent ears
As far as I know this person is cis, meaning a cis person perfectly replicated pooner art on the spot just by looking at me, or they are a boymoder that did a containment breach
Really hoping it's a containment breach because if not ouch...
Edit: realized the title might be misleading, the person that drew the art of me knows I'm trans, I only started passing bc of T more recently
Agreed very female. Its popular in spaces that claim they are attracted to ‘tumblrsexyman” like the onceler, Alastor, and the tv guy from poppy playtime, and then basically write fanfiction/sjw art depicting them as soft uwu boys or larp as them because they are so ‘gender’ . Tbh i think it’s mostly a joke but people who try to emulate these characters are either school shooters or you know…the gender specials
Very rarely do I come across faggots simping for murderers, but it's a big thing with Dead by Daylight. Gay bara artists drooling over gay bara coded murderers. Then you got women who choose to make it their life's mission to simp over.. Medic from TF2. A random clown. A background henchman. The average dude may be a depraved gooner but women are always of either extreme: Aromantic asexual (gooner) or proud gooner (feet fungus decapitation type shit).
Straight men (what they try to larp as) are on the bottom of their victim olympics, meaning that in their worldview they are the most privileged group and therefore are not allowed to whine, otherwise they would be called incels and told to kill themselves if they get whiny about their dating life
I need examples of pooners celebrating being called cis white colonizing rapists or something. The same way they celebrate "male phobic" animals biting them.