My initial impression after watching the video is that I do wish they had been more up front about what exactly they had texted him, though I understand why they didn't (it'd be quite embarrassing for anyone). It's certainly carefully crafted to make them look bad, but none of it actually fully contradicts anything other than a few things. Call my rationalizations of them sweeping if you want.
- Sacramento did know who Tom was. (She mentions also having been a 'niche internet microcelebrity', this could've been in an attempt to preserve her anonymity. Still probably would've been better to have been up front about that.)
- Katie did try to meet him a 3rd time (BPD attachment issues can explain this.)
- Sacramento had said something about recording one time (It can pretty reasonably be interpreted as a joke, and she's said she knew he was filming.)
- Sacramento attempted to text and call him numerous times after they broke up (Again, attachment issues or just general anger can explain this.)
The breakup phone call doesn't really prove anything, Sacramento even acknowledged from the beginning he would probably use it against her. People say a lot of dumb and vindictive things when they're upset.
Things that were not addressed whatsoever:
- High School e-relationship
- DMing Scautara when she was 15
- Having actually met Ellie, no statement on whether or not he was aware of her ageplay fetish
- Having been in contact with Ellie during his relationship with Sacramento (even if it can be excused by being over the blackmail issue)
- Cheating on Sacramento at Vidcon 2025
- Sleeping with one of Destiny's orbiters
Covering the mouth during sex- Being rough in general without asking first
- Inability to ejaculate through normal means
- Furthermore, having a porn addiction and needing to use recently recorded videos to ejaculate
- Inability to get an erection after being informed your partner has knowledge of your Kiwi Farms thread
- Brandon Buckingham's alleged whippet use (not really related to him so fair enough)
Neither list is exhaustive, feel free to correct me.
In general, people say pretty embarrassing shit to each other all the time in relationships. It often contradicts how they actually feel, people will lie to their partner to try and preserve the health of a relationship. For me, this does not exonerate Tom at all. The most concerning and most easily provable allegation, his interactions with Ellie, was barely addressed at all.
Edit: All he shows in response is a single text from Ellie (after the accusation was made) saying he never did ageplay with her. Besides this hardly being proof of anything, the accusation was not only that he had done ageplay personally, but also that he didn't have a problem with it and pursued a sexual relationship with a woman he knew had it as an interest. As I've said before, this is tacit approval of it. If you are not uncomfortable with the fact the woman you're having sex with might be mentally roleplaying as a toddler you're also fucked up, maybe not as much as she is but still very much so. He does not address the blackmail (i.e. the fact he sent his dick to a bitch whose instagram is pictures of her wearing velcro shoes and fucking children's clothes) at all nor does he address the fact he lied to Sacramento about his interactions with Ellie (staying with her for multiple nights in a hotel room), a sign he knew something was wrong with her. He acknowledges this indirectly in the texts Sacramento showed by calling her a 'twisted slut'. For a guy whose entire career is based mainly on calling out and making fun of sexual degenerates on the internet, this is all extremely hypocritical.
