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a certain lady lawyer that is talked about regularly in this thread made an appearance in a youtube video recently at the 11:00 minute mark.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=wahLozHDYJw
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a certain lady lawyer that is talked about regularly in this thread made an appearance in a youtube video recently at the 11:00 minute mark.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=wahLozHDYJw
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Wait, is the Pooner Lawyer still a "man" or not?
She says she acknowledges that she's female. We'll see if that lasts.Wait, is the Pooner Lawyer still a "man" or not?
She'll always be a Pooner though before you ask.
Except that women have naturally stronger core and thigh muscles, so they probably are. Women have greater endurance than men too, on average.You may have heard before that AFAB people's hips aren't "designed" for thrusting. This may be true, but these are muscles you can build. This is another reason why I often wear strapons alone, so I can indulge in the gender euphoria of penetrating something and practice thrusting my hips at the same time.
This is another reason why I often wear strapons alone, so I can indulge in the gender euphoria of penetrating something and practice thrusting my hips at the same time.
5. Explore masc-affirming D/s and fantasies
Honorifics and words are one step, but playing with power dynamics and fantasies are another way of exploring masculinity. Because we live in a patriarchal society, there are many power fantasies present throughout our culture that are defined by the male role. We impart ideas of gender and power onto almost everything - age, occupation, clothing, physical characteristics, even animals. Even though this is largely harmful, the truth is that you might find some gender validation in arbitrarily traditional masculine power structures and fantasies, and this is okay to play with. You might be attracted to the hypermasculine leather daddy role, you might like the roleplay of being the rich male CEO, and you might like being the forcibly feminized and emasculated male sissy cuckold.
But there are many ways to approach masculinity in roleplay, including ones that are a little bit more distanced from our daily lives and physical bodies. There are many transgender ageplayers and petplayers, and it's not surprising why - there's tons of opportunities for exploring different performances of gender in those kinds of play. Being a little boy is a very different form of gender expression than being a daddy. Being a stallion conjures up many cultural ideas of maleness, as does being a dog.
I have an entire class on exploring sex and gender in petplay (which I will do a writing about as well), but being a ponyplayer and a "breeding stallion" is a MASSIVE part of my masculinity, inside and outside sex. It is also part of having a well-rounded and healthy relationship to performing masculinity - I am soft and silly, beautiful and graceful, strong and virile, all at the same time.
Engaging in sex in this headspace also changes some of the expectations people might have of a man during sex. I'm not expected to talk. I'm not necessarily expected to be dominant or be a top. I am not necessarily expected to be having straight sex. I am not necessarily being emasculated if I am being fingered or "anally inspected." Since I'm fully dressed up most of the time and wearing my strapon shorts, nobody can see my genitals, except for the dick I want them to see.
Wearing gear and dressing up can help you distance yourself from dysphoria and step into a more masculine space. Bodysuits and zentais are great for this, both for covering up a body you don't want and creating a somewhat streamlined look between various components of your play - my bodysuit blends nicely into my strapon shorts, for example, there's a continuity of form that reads "stallion" instead of "person wearing strapon boxers."
In ageplay, there is so much room for the simple indulgence of culturally "little boy" activities that can be very masc-affirming. I might also say there are opportunities to play with gender in a way that implies one will "grow" into a man. An idea I have had, but not tried, is dark ageplay where my T-dick is given attention to (something I normally don't want) under the pretense that it is simply a penis that hasn't "fully grown" yet.
Ageplay and petplay helped give me some clarity on my bottom dysphoria, since for years in both of those spaces (even before I realized I had bottom dysphoria), I felt a lot of discomfort with receiving any sort of vaginal attention in both of those spaces, because both spaces were a somewhat unhindered, pure form of my maleness.
Now, that is not to say that the gender you feel or play with in different headspaces means anything, but it's something worth exploring.
The levels of cope these people have almost amount to worldbuilding. The problem can’t be that they’re girls incompetently performing masculinity. No no, it’s that masculinity isn’t real, it’s just that some of the fakers (WHICH IS EVERYONE) are better than others (BUT NOT INHERENTLY). I always want to ask, where are the super-masculine pooners who can show us mere biopenis-owners how it’s done? Like, IRL?Do you want to be more of a man in the bedroom? Drummer_Pony has you covered. She wrote a lengthy text giving her thoughts on the matter. Using her own experiences withpenis envybottom dysphoria she details several coping mechanisms and ways pooners can practice what they are by nature. All of it is based on an in depth foundation of gender theory allowing her to confidently state that 'cis men aren't actually experts on what it means to be male.' She explains how even cis-men perform gender and that therefore a pooner dressing up like a cheap halloween horse and donning a strapon to get into the right headspace is just as valid of an approach as a pooner engaging in 'dark age play' to convince herself that her clit is merely a baby penis.
I'm a little late but I've seen a few messages like this before on this board and wanted to add something. I won't PL as any details for me would be super local, but those spaces and groups still exist unpozzed. Meet people at the shittier events/shows for local artists, find the shit that explicitly doesn't do any social media shit. The raves that are invite only, the shows that you'll only hear about on fliers at cool venues or from buddies with their own bands are very very very different from the ones trying to get as many people to attend as on Instagram.I haven't been in my local scene for years because the good ones have dissipated and the others are just gay corporate shit for influencers. I can see how raves would appeal to trannies and I'm glad I got to experience things before gender sorcery became a thing but just how bad is it these days?
Nigger, wut?Except that women have naturally stronger core and thigh muscles
Oh, here we go.I am going to start by discussing masculinity as a construct,
Really? Go on...cis men aren't actually experts on what it means to be male.
Yeah, it's all theater. Gender is a creative choice. Optional too. Always has been, always will be...Now, when I say "perform," I do NOT mean that I am "acting," "pretending," or "faking." I talk a lot more about this in this writing, but when we talk about gender as a performance, I mean the expression of gender and masculinity that all men - cis men included - engage in to feel comfortable and affirmed. I am referring to the work we put in to "perform" gender - shaving, haircuts, working out, wearing certain clothes, etc. This performance is not necessarily difficult, or even something we think about, because some of us are performers by nature, (and, more nefariously, because performing gender is indoctrinated into us into a young age).
This performance to be aligned with what is considered culturally masculine for a lot of us, but like all great theater, there are opportunities to subvert expectations.
Treating races differently in 2026
Some YouTuber interviewed the Tboy wrestler who got injured. Tbh this video was exhausting to listen to, do not recommend. I did learn that Tboy wrestling was charging POC discounted ticket prices so they could virtue signal, of course.
“Gay” pooners (straight butch women) try so hard to be gay cis men it’s not even funny, actually it is laughable and I’ll be talking about it more. The gay pooners will dunk on straight cis men for issues that too exist for gay cis men, and when they get into friendships with homosexual cis gendered men who aren’t a stereotype, guess what happens? They find ways to get uncomfortable by them, because despite what yaoi/bl have told them, gay men are still men and are still ‘socialized’ the same way. Yet they still attempt to overcompensate for how much they are a gay man they are by saying that gender is a ‘social construct’ and wearing their little straps and putting down cis gendered men (which one again, includes gay cis men) as if they aren’t actively taking hormones and planning surgeries to be them. Transgender men or just transgender people in general feel like the ultimate form of larp.A question every Gay dood must ask themselves
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as a kid i'd look at my cis male peers and think, "why is he doing that? what's the aim here?" now i'm roughly 2.5 years on testosterone and i think i get it. here's my list:
basically most of my questions are answered with recalibration. he's changing and he hasn't yet figured out what he can and cannot do. add to that: he's a dumbass kid. i think a mindset of trial and error is better than withholding everything out of fear. everyone makes mistakes and they don't define us. when you're afraid you hide and that builds resentment and that leads to bad habits.
- why is he jumping and smacking doorways all the time? test of newfound strength. i'm stronger, can jump higher, and when i'm feeling myself i jump up and smack doorways 'cause i can.
- why is he so goddamn clumsy? misunderstanding newfound strength. i restarted T in july. about a week in i knocked over a can of coke while i was playing video games. a week ago that would have been a gentle reach for my drink. then suddenly it's like my arm just shoots out. i was like a cat on a counter for awhile.
- why in the bathroom all the time? does he have bladder issues? the bathroom's a great place to hide from bullshit. he's also masturbating probably, but i live in a house with 7 other guys and sometimes you need to get away from mr. karen's nonsense for just 5 blessed minutes. the smartphone is the modern version of the guy on the john with a newspaper.
- why the oversized pants? your dick is not that big, bro. neither is mine, but it hurt like hell to wear regular-fitting pants for a while, and a packer was out of the question entirely.
- why the quiet monotone voice? 'cause, to paraphrase a quote from the nutty professor, his voice has more crack than harlem. i sound most masculine when i talk quietly and with little bounce. that also doesn't sound like me, so i'm recalibrating my voice to see how high i can get it when i'm emphasizing an emotion without cracking.
but, that's my questions about guys answered. what are yours?
i'm also tempted to ask a similar question about girls to trans women. having been a "girl" once myself, i can confirm some things and laugh with them.
n00b? Real gamer? Holy shit I'm laughing so hard.Fake gamer girl: a poon who has made being a gamer an intrinsic part of her identity is bowled over when a random Redditor believes she's a "noob" because she doesn't understand how GameCubes work, and this is so distressing that she can hardly type coherently due to the raging "dysphoria" it induces in her. Sometimes I envy troons 'n' poons for the simplicity of their problems... must be a pretty charmed existence!
The easiest/best way to 'prove their manhood' is the way many young men do: sports.“Gay” pooners (straight butch women) try so hard to be gay cis men it’s not even funny, actually it is laughable and I’ll be talking about it more.
Gender burning through the bullshit. Many such cases.What's going on?
Funny thing I notice about self identifying butch lesbians compared to pooners are that the self identifying lesbian or ‘studs’ as you call them always, without fail, outperform pooners in whatever thing they are trying to overcompensate for. Not all lesbians obviously, but y’know what I’m talking about. If you have met these ‘studs’, they talk more like men and it doesn’t even sound forced or anything.The easiest/best way to 'prove their manhood' is the way many young men do: sports.
For some reason, they avoid male sports like the plague.
All the recent SCOTUS hearings were about men on women's teams, its just understood that trans men (girls) too terrifed and weak to try out for the male teams.
If they did this as often as the trans women do, they could prove their manhood easily. Especially after they start beating the men!
I can't understand why they aren't doing this all the time, the trans women sure are.
I have also never heard of them being on construction crews or pit crews (my 1st jobs) --if they want to be among men and treated as a man, this type of job would be perfect for them.
Instead, I see them working at the PetSmart, fussing over parrots & kittens--acting stereotypically feminine. What's going on?
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Men's sports are open to women. The issue is, when women try out for them, this happens.All the recent SCOTUS hearings were about men on women's teams, its just understood that trans men (girls) too terrifed and weak to try out for the male teams.
If they did this as often as the trans women do, they could prove their manhood easily. Especially after they start beating the men!