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Bojack Horsekin said:
Eager to see what happens when the polycule of 4? creepy crossdressing men and 1 tiny straight woman
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1 tiny woman and 4 porn-sick perverts living in a house. I wonder what will happen.

Who am I kidding. We all know what will happen. They will open an OF to cover the rent and groceries and the tiny woman will be sucking more dick on camera than bonnie blue.
 
LikeAStone 2.0 said:
Posting this here because I have no clue where else to go.

My little brother, my heart and soul, told me today he’s trooning out. I’ve known he was faggy for years and he never told me, mainly because he’s a retard and can’t hide anything to save his life, but I just knew something was off this time.

I have failed. I am angry. Angrier than I have ever been in my life. Every last one of these discord using, brainwashing, faggot zoomers will feel no fucking mercy from me. I swear on every last strand of DNA through my fucking body I will make every and any tranny faggot feel my goddamn anger and wrath so help me fucking god.
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Hello Sneeders, an update on this. First thank you for the kind messages I received. Second, shit has gotten progressively funnier:

Tranny brother moved out of gay fat fuck roommate’s place earlier this year, and immediately started dating a (I’m assuming) pooner black tranny and moved in like 5 weeks later. He is quite obviously on troonshine, grew his hair out and looks like if my fat felony collecting aunt started starving. Also he quit his job and is now a complete leech on said tranny faggotfriend.

Despite my violent and vulgar demeanor, I tend to be pretty mild and easy going in real life. I just really enjoy letting loose on here. My brother was, thankfully, smart enough to wear gender neutral clothing to at least try and appease the family. He did dress like a goth retard, though. He did pull his sly bullshit despite everything. Talked about him getting his nails done, how he’s “going” through “menopause” (in front of my mother, no less), and went into the women’s bathroom following after my sister-in-law and niece. It was annoying, but not enough for me to totally blow up (I learned about the bathroom thing after he left).

He’s where shit get’s interesting. I noticed some furry-adjacent faggot stickers on his water bottle, and he had mentioned that his “boyfriend” makes a lot of money. I was able to track down her name because of a couple things my brother told me. Turns out, he’s leeching off of and dating is a furry and one who sells fursuits. Naturally, I phonebooked my brother’s faggot friend and will release it if he cuts his dick off as a final post on the Farms and as final fuck you to him.

TTD. Merry Christmas.
 
Mister Eveready said:
You’re a retard if you think you can just shame away a mental illness. It’s like telling an anorexic that they look terrifying and that people will mock them for being so thin and expecting that to cure them.
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This is a different mental illness that relies on the passive acceptance at minimum from everyone around them. Shame absolutely works on trannies. If we all just collectively agreed as a society to shame and belittle these freaks, the problem would 100% go away over night.
It isn't rocket science, when we bullied this out of people back in the 90s and early 00's it fucking worked.
 
Today I saw a photo of an ex-friend who has trooned out in 2024. Dude turned into a deranged clown. The photo was manipulated via filters and he still looks like a 6'4, balding, ugly degenerate. I'm so glad I got away from this tranny asshole.

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This Tranny mind virus stuff has been hell on most of my friends.

My best friend came out as Non-binary, though she's becoming a mom soon and has pretty much chilled out on it so that helps.

My younger brother came out as trans though my dad and I haven't been playing that game with him and refuse to call him by his chosen name of "Morgan" (what is with trannys and their shitty name choices.)

My stepbrother has also transed out after dating exclusively Trannys and has chosen the name Athena.

And I found out recently that someone I looked up to when I was in Boy Scouts back in the 2010s trooned out. Which is heartbreaking though kind of funny in a way. He was 6'3 last I saw him so the idea of this dude dressing like a hooker and trying to pass as a woman at least injects some humor into the situation.

My younger brother is the one that bugs me the most, so far he hasn't bothered to make any life style changes, he dyed his hair and painted his nails for a while but he doesn't have the money to keep doing that and he knows my dad won't pay for that. He also has given up correcting my dad and I when we call him by his name or call him a he. So there's that.
 
ScurvyRat said:
This is a different mental illness that relies on the passive acceptance at minimum from everyone around them. Shame absolutely works on trannies.
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Precisely. It works because modern trannyism is built upon the idea that you have to lie back and accept whatever shit they're feeding you.

If you tell them that you not only don't accept it, that it's wrong, and bad, and they should feel bad about it, they go back into their hidey holes and stop bothering the rest of us with it.

Professor Donger said:
My best friend came out as Non-binary, though she's becoming a mom soon and has pretty much chilled out on it so that helps.
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It absolutely fucking astounds me when someone who claims a not-female identity gets pregnant and is perfectly okay with it.

It's the ultimate expression of being female to be pregnant. If you don't feel like a woman, and yet, your body biologically is screaming that you are in fact female not only to everyone around you, but to you directly, wouldn't you have, like, all the dysphoria?

Yes, I know, what I'm saying makes perfect sense to anyone on this board, but as we all are aware, and to my point above, trannyism really isn't founded on anything stronger than a belief that is probably less sincerely held than the sincerely held belief that being a tranny is just a manipulation tactic covering up an asshole of a human being. They try and shift the goalposts and you make it clear that they won't be shifted, and they'll find someone else to bother with it.
 
Not A Bunny said:
It absolutely fucking astounds me when someone who claims a not-female identity gets pregnant and is perfectly okay with it.
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She married her husband long before she came out of the weird closet that is non-binary but thankfully her husband has been slowly poking at her about it. He never really agreed with her stance on things but is generally pretty nonconfrontational.

I think them having a kid is going to all around be a net positive for her mental health and hopefully she fuckin snaps out of it
 
I know this is about losing someone who has already trooned out, but I don't know a better thread to talk about my dilemma in. Is it appropriate to sperg out here about someone close falling into progressivism/troon ideology in general?

Although it is getting to the point where I might even be concerned about the individual in question trooning out. I'd never have expected it but I've seen cases of it coming from even less likely candidates on here once the ideology gets ahold of them.

I just don't know any other site where I can talk about this; other places are either too pozzed or not really "serious" enough.
 
Retarded Rabbit said:
I know this is about losing someone who has already trooned out, but I don't know a better thread to talk about my dilemma in. Is it appropriate to sperg out here about someone close falling into progressivism/troon ideology in general?

Although it is getting to the point where I might even be concerned about the individual in question trooning out. I'd never have expected it but I've seen cases of it coming from even less likely candidates on here once the ideology gets ahold of them.

I just don't know any other site where I can talk about this; other places are either too pozzed or not really "serious" enough.
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Go for it. All anti-troonery is welcome on the Farms, and this or this thread are good catch-alls for stuff that doesn't fit other tranny threads.
 
Basically I'm in a long term committed relationship. Both of our first "real" one (aka not those retarded teenage e-relationships that only last a few months). We started out both being "enlightened centrist" types years ago but we've found ourselves going in opposite directions as I go further right and he goes further left. He has taken the troon ideology koolaid and gone full TDS. I'm not even a Trump fan, I dislike both mainstream parties but he's getting himself worked up that Trump is genuinely going to become Hitler 2.0 and it breaks my heart to see him fall for all the fear mongering especially when he has a history of panic issues.

We are both very easygoing people who don't nag or nitpick on each other much so we rarely fight or argue. I could count the amount of actual pissed off arguments we've had in one hand.

But the one thing that we do fight about now is politics. We've started having these long arguments about topics like childhood transition, DEI, etc and it just doesn't get either of us anywhere. He scolds me if I say things like "tranny" or "retarded" and hates the fact that I use the farms (its not a dealbreaker but any time he sees me on it he'll comment on it). He never used to be like this, in fact we used to joke about chris chan and stuff like that in the past, and both grew up as 4chan kids.

The thing is we're a complete match in every other way. We have the exact same spergy quirks, same interests, I have never met another person as similar to me. He's the first person I ever truly loved. I always saw myself marrying him one day, maybe even having kids. But were becoming more and more incompatible when it comes to politics. It's to the point where I feel like to hide more of the far right views I have from him just to avoid a nice evening together turning into an argument. I haven't even brought up my views on race because God only knows how that would go. I didn't tell him I voted for Trump either.

When it comes to troons I really don't even care what adults do with their lives as long as they keep it to themselves. Wear a dress and panties in your bedroom for all I care. But don't force it on others especially not children, or try to restrict free speech disagreeing with their ideology. Or act like you can actually change sex for real. But he's gone full gender ideology, "trans women are women" now. Still not as bad as some, like he didn't support Charlie Kirk's death for example. But that did end up becoming a fight about how Kirk was racist and contributed to the harm of trans people while I tried to convince him neither is true.

Every other time we're not talking about politics, we're fine. I don't think I'll ever meet a person like him who I'm this compatible with, and I don't even want to. I really don't want this to ruin everything. Its at the point where I'd rather hide my views than be without him.

I'm just so conflicted. I'm at that age of my mid 20s where I'm not really a young adult anymore, and I do know that I want to settle down soon. But what if he goes more extreme, or God forbid troons out? I don't think he ever would but I've heard horror stories on here... and he is a nerdy guy who is into a lot of troon-heavy hobbies (then again I'm the type of nerdy tomboyish female who would be a prime candidate to poon out but I have always been able to see how retarded the trans trend is so I never did. I can only hope that he's the same). But he's perfect in every other regard. I just don't know what to do and I have no one else I can talk to about this. Anyway sorry for blogsperging but I'm just at such a loss for what to do anymore. I don't want to lose him.

Fuck this awful ideology and all the people pushing it. I literally can't fucking hate them enough.
 
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@Retarded Rabbit Honestly in my opinion, couples have to agree on politics in order to succeed, or at least have to agree on the same set of morals. The trans shit is kind of a form of congnito-gangrene in the fact it doesn't stop spreading.

I sympathize with the fact that he is perfect for you in every other way so I don't recommend breaking up yet. The best solution is to bring it up and argue to try to convince him. Though make sure you argue from a place of love and absolutely don't get mad and raise your voice even if he does. Pretend you are a Buddhist Monk or something.

I suspect this ideological zealotry is coming from his hobbies, I would recommend looking into who he hangs out with for his hobbies subtly. Don't try to stop him doing his hobbies though as that would make you seem really controlling.

Sorry about how I word things or space it out, I am overall bad at writing stuff like this. Hope it works out!
 
The main reasons for marriages breaking up are financial issues, values dissonance (religious and otherwise), disagreement on raising kids, and the in laws being evil. You're already seeing dissonance in values. People say these are petty political matters but they're not just disagreements on how to solve this or that issue but fundamentally different worldviews. Regardless of anything else it's something to keep in mind.

It's one thing to be with someone who thinks homeless people need to get a fire lit under their ass so they find a job vs. someone who thinks more shelters and charities is the necessary help. Both of them see the issue, agree it's an issue, and want a solution--they just disagree on what that solution is. Wholeheartedly believing trans people are what they say and you can trans children and all this other stuff is very different from that sort of thing. It's not simply a matter of a couple that quietly votes differently in the ballot box.

If you seriously want to consider making a settled down life with this man approach it from a family building perspective. Workshop what you believe is best for family life vs. what he does and what he's willing to sacrifice and how he's willing to grow up to make it happen. Some influences need to be cut out of your life when you make big steps like that and many times your social life changes anyway because you're just in a different phase and different type of life to your single/childless friends. So it's not something to think about just because of current year madness but something everyone looking to settle down with someone should communicate honestly about.
 
Retarded Rabbit said:
I go further right and he goes further left. He has taken the troon ideology koolaid and gone full TDS.
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I don't know how any man can choose to carry that banner and die on that hill unless they have something weird going on that they are not letting on. Being a moderate or having milquetoast tolerant takes , sure, but a man actually passionate about gay and trans stuff would at the very least make me raise an eyebrow. I don't think you are crazy at all for worrying, moreso than politics this issue verges into the realm of family values.
 
@Retarded Rabbit
I don't see how you expect to be with someone long term who you can't even be honest with.
You should tell him that you voted for Trump and film the meltdown. You could probably even get a restraining order based on the video.

Genuinely sounds like a dude on the fast track to wearing dresses and cutting his dick off.
Maybe I'm just jaded when it comes to dating, but I have 0 hope for the longevity of that relationship and anyone who thinks you can talk it out with someone that level of crazy just hasn't seen how bad these people are.

I suspect you've only stuck around because your affection for this man overshadows the glaring red flags. Sounds like if it were anyone else, you would have cut him out already.
Food for thought.
Good luck.
 
Retarded Rabbit said:
he is a nerdy guy who is into a lot of troon-heavy hobbies
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This almost flew by, but I bet this is a lot of it.

Troons have colonized hobby spaces and made them all have off-topic troon spaces, then infiltrate the main space. Troons take shifts to have a quorum of them online at all times.

He mentions when you're on the 'Farms. How many Discords is he in, and for how much time?

Even if he just joined communities for rules clarification, downloads and painting tips, there's a horrible signal:noise ration and the "noise" is 24/7 Lilith and Alice thought policing, hornyposting and looking for donations or for eggs to crack.
 
Aunt Carol said:
He mentions when you're on the 'Farms. How many Discords is he in, and for how much time?

Even if he just joined communities for rules clarification, downloads and painting tips, there's a horrible signal:noise ration and the "noise" is 24/7 Lilith and Alice thought policing, hornyposting and looking for donations or for eggs to crack.
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I give it less than 6 months before @Retarded Rabbit discovers his insane porn collection and the ERPs he has on discord.

But don't worry, friend, when it all comes to light, we'll be here for you. We've seen it happen enough.
 
Aunt Carol said:
This almost flew by, but I bet this is a lot of it.

Troons have colonized hobby spaces and made them all have off-topic troon spaces, then infiltrate the main space. Troons take shifts to have a quorum of them online at all times.

He mentions when you're on the 'Farms. How many Discords is he in, and for how much time?

Even if he just joined communities for rules clarification, downloads and painting tips, there's a horrible signal:noise ration and the "noise" is 24/7 Lilith and Alice thought policing, hornyposting and looking for donations or for eggs to crack.
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All of this. If I may powerlevel, he sounds like my 20something ex. Dude was so very straight but was a public TRA "for his friends." He had a cushy IT job and was involved in many nerd hobbies. He lived on Discord, including a porn-sharing server which he did not hide from me. All of this to say he was surrounded by people of gender.

He once asked what I was doing on the Farms. I said keeping tabs on Andrew Dobson and other artcows, which was and is true, they're why I signed up. He reluctantly said "oh ok," because this was a 4chan guy ffs, who was he to judge. Then the Maya Forstater/JKR drama hit the fan, my ex was up in arms about JKR being anti-trans for supporting Maya. I argued that the whole thing sounded like a woman being demonized for expressing her opinion. He didn't like that. A month later, I was kicked out on the streets for being an evil terf (and because his new gf and dad didn't like me).

Your boyfriend will be further groomed influenced by troons, and he will continue to make it your problem. It sucks that differing political views have to divide couples, but this isn't 20 years ago when you could agree to disagree on welfare and foreign policy.

Protistology up there was being a dick, but he's kind of right. With this being both your first serious relationship, it's not a good idea to settle already. You're so young. I know it doesn't feel like it, but take it from old lady Horsekin here. You will both still grow and change into your 30s, 40s, and beyond. Do you want to settle into marrying this one because he seems perfect for you, only to find his stash of programmer socks and lacy panties in 10 years? Or his secret online girlfriend (who is actually a gross internet-dwelling man— I mean, kawaii twans girl) who shares his morals along with his hobbies?

Do you want to suppress your beliefs just to "make it work" (read: appease him)? Simply liking the same cartoons is no solid foundation for a relationship. Trust me.
 
I echo a lot of the sentiments here, especially Bojack's. It's very important to at least be in the same general area in values.

What happens when you have a disagreement with family or friends over values in public, would he be there and back you up even if he doesn't agree exactly? Or would he make excuses for them about your more conservative beliefs to save face? If the answer is anything other than go to bat for you, that's a red flag.

Would he tell you you're overreacting if a troon was in the bathroom with you and it made you feel unsafe, or god forbid, said troon did something? What happens if you have a child who you need to regulate exposure to troon ideology? That's a distinct difference in what you'd both allow as parents for their safety. Parents need to be a united front and not have one say it's okay to be another gender while the other doesn't.

These are all things to think about, and you should discuss them and the future with him. If you're worried about lost time now, imagine 5-10 years from now. Better to find out if he has any troony feelings right now, because if he did and you don't support him 100 percent, there's a thousand troons on discord and reddit ready to tell him to drop you like a sack of moldy TERF potatoes.

This isn't something to push down the road, you need to reflect on where you see yourself and what you want out of life and make sure he can commit to supporting you and vice-versa. Think about it this way: If this was one of his troon friends, he'd tell them to live true to themselves, but here you a considering holding back around him while he gets to make snide comments about your Kiwifarms usage. Why don't you deserve the same or more as his girlfriend than a random man pretending to be a woman?

Hint: The answer is you do.
 
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