When OP's dipshit girlfriend decided to become a theyfab years ago, he took the news in stride, fantasizing about the possibility that his sweetie might be supportive of his own gender retardation. This illusion is shattered when, upon coming out to her, she responds that she would find him remarkably less sexy if he were to go through with it. This turn of events has put a damper on OP's wannabe gender reveal party, and now he's apprehensive about mentioning his intentions to pump himself full of horse piss and go by a moniker likely picked off of a baby names list from 2021.
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So, my partner of 3 years was the first to come out to me as a NB trans-masc and we would always tease about being t4t. I honestly thought they would be supportive and excited if I ever came out.
Recently I had a talk with them about using she/her pronouns and they seemed to be kind of upset and told me they might not be sexually attracted to femininity, but would still be romantically attracted to me. This cut like glass and
I haven't told them about my new chosen name and my intentions to go on HRT.
Im really scared to talk to them about this again and
it really just hurts to think that they might not like the new me. The only person I told about this was my therapist and its really eating me alive.They were also worried about what the hormones would do to our sexual wellbeing.
Should I be worried, will this make us incompatible,
or will this make us stronger in the end?
Hersuitism: a TiF's lady pal has been less than enthusiastic about her increasing sasquatchification, especially in regards to her newly-developed bear pelt below the belt. What offends her paramour the most, in particular, is the lush fields of hair stretched across her ass, which OP insists on leaving unshaven as she feels her hairiness "compensates" for the absence of a penis. Not sure how to inform OP of this, but generally the only people who enjoy ass hair are the filthiest, cock-craziest homosexuals you can ever find, and the whole "no dong" thing sort of complicates that attraction for them.
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I feel like she’s been complaining about it more and more. My body hair makes me feel really comfortable in my body. I’m not extremely hairy.
I have a decent amount of stomach hair and a normal amount of leg and arm hair for a man my age, just have a lot of ass hair. The one she comments on the most is my ass hair. I would shave it if I had bottom surgery or something, but that’s not something i’m looking to get anytime soon at all.
It’s really starting to get to me how much she brings it up. It makes me feel like shit she brings it up almost weekly, at least. I asked her to not comment on it again because it makes me feel bad about myself. Instead of being sorry,
she just got visibly upset and shut down, and said “fine. I won’t bring it up anymore”.
It just sucks.
It’s not like she’s ever down there anyways. It’s my body and i’ve expressed how comfortable in my body it makes me feel.
Feels like it helps compensate for not having a dick and having some hips. I wish she wouldn’t continuously comment on something I told her would never change when we started dating almost two years ago. It doesn’t feel good to constantly feel criticized on your body having your partner ask you to change.
I keep it to a hygienic level and shave my pubic area, that should be enough.
Everyone's a critic: a TiF's former coworker finds her writings despite cloaking herself under a psuedonym and leaves some nasty commentary about it. The twist here is that OP did
not get a Rowlingian-style TERFy dressing-down of her work; instead, the ex-coworker accuses OP herself of being transphobic, which has sent her into a tailspin of insecurity - especially regarding the pithy dedication she opened her book with.
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I think one of my ex co-workers left a horrible review of my book online.
They called me transphobic and ignorant in it and said my writing was horrible.
The reason I know it is them is because nowhere in my novel or otherwise am I listed as non-binary (It's a pseudonym). Yet they described me as non-binary in their review. They would only know that from knowing me in person.
I am floored and feel sick. I already lost that job for being trans and am homeless. Why do they have to kick me in the teeth like this.
Literally the dedication from my book:
And for those who are genderqueer,
non-conforming, gender-flux,
non-binary, and transgender,
may you be granted the safe spaces to be yourself,
and the found families to love and accept you.
Do not let others tell you who you are.
You are loved and you are valid.
Shine brightly.
I asked my partner, who has read my book, if anything came across transphobic in it and they told me no. This person is just trying to hurt me.
I don't understand why they would do this.
A tranny thought he'd finally gotten the upper hand over a transphobe when he has his coworkers rally around him to get a former neighbor, who he describes as an "
old hag," trespassed from his place of employment. But the Age of Aqueerius is coming to a close, so it's no longer as easy as it once was for those of They/Themiscyra to rule over mortal men with iron fists, leaving OP powerless against the concussive force of free speech.
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About three months ago I posted about my mother's neighbor coming in and dead naming me. I was told they were gonna have her trespassed so she couldn't come back in.
Turns out the sheriff's department refused to deliver the treaspass notice. Then when my managment called HR and district manager to try to get it done that way. My managers claim they were told that they can't do anything about it unless it goes through legal.
Well now
I have another customer that repeatedly and maliciously misgenders me. And again they tell me they cannot do anything.
I've been very vocal in saying that I think they're not taking this seriously enough and that if it were any other form of bigotry they would have already taken care of it. I asked my store manager if a customer would be removed for expressing other forms of bigotry, like slurs or harassment based on whichever trait. He said they would.
Then why not people who are expressing bigotry towards my gender?
In our harassment guidelines gender identity is a protected trait. And according to the form if a customer repeatedly harasses an employee which includes when the employee isn't present then management has the right to tell them to leave (which if they refuse they have the right to treaspass them). Yet
my managers are opting for a gentle hand of just correcting them and allowing the bigots to keep coming in and continuously misgender me and directly tell me I'm not a woman and despite the distress it causes me and the disruption it causes for work they're still allowed.
When I pointed out the what the harassment guidelines to my store manager I got a terse, "I know how to do my job, SemiHemi!"
Well I'm not gonna stop fighting for myself. And if you're not following the rules as presented are you actually is doing your job?
I'm getting tired of this.
Cuckquiescent: two months ago, a TiF appeared on r/ftm begging for help in satisfying her girlfriend, who craved real dick the same way them big-eyed girls do in them little Japanese pictures. Now she returns and, though she tried to do what she could to salvage their sex life, 'twas all was for naught: "
According to her now, she's a sex addict. She's fucking strangers. My friends. Anyone that lets her," she writes of her hideously horny honey. "
She's taking my daughter. She's going to fuck other men. I have nothing. I gave her my life. She traded it for dick."
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Guys, I need help. So badly. I'm spiraling and I don't know what to do.
I've been with her thirteen years. She is my whole world.
She misses the feeling of a real penis. It's eating away at her. Not only the guilt of wanting something she can't have, but the intensity of her desire for it.
She doesn't just wants it. She needs it.
I can't do that. I can't compete with that. I hate so much that I can't but here we are.
There's got to be options. Something realistic enough that we can try.
Please. I don't believe I'm the only one who's gone through this. Someone must have some answers that can help. There's got to be an answer.
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You guys were right.
There were so many men. I feel so broken.
Barely half an hour after he admits to his desire to impersonate women to his sister, the news spreads immediately to the rest of a tranny's family, and his parents rapidly retaliate by disinviting him from upcoming festivities. Has anyone noticed a trend in which female relatives are becoming especially quick on the draw when it comes to ousting men for their perversions? Because I'm loving this energy for 2026, and I highly advise it become common practice.
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I confided in my sister that I'm on HRT explicitly to keep it between us. Less than 30 minutes later my phone blows up with texts and calls from my mom, her dad, and my other sister. While my other sister reached out with support, her dad and my mom didn't.
Queue religious talking points and fake "concerns" that put me a sudden line of fire, being uninvited to holiday events, and insulted. This sucks.
An effeminate crossdressing gay man is bothered when other, more conventional gay men mock him for being so limp-wristed he qualifies for a diagnosis of hypotonia. Though he talks about how his legitimately female friends encounter mistreatment of their own when in the presence of such cattiness, OP has to make it about himself and how he's the biggest victim of "misogyny" just because he prefers to suck dick in a dress.
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This is not a post hating on gay men or trying to reinforce stereotypes or anything. Im not saying all gay men are like this,
im saying that there seems to be a lot more than I expected
I was at an event on the weekend and it happened at a local lgbtq bar.
I took my boyfriend there who identifies as straight and is masculine presenting. Meanwhile i can somewhat passbut i definitely do get mostly mistaken for a woman when im out and I'm wearing heavier makeup or done up more
My boyfriend was a bit out of his element so he mostly stood by me the whole time but the one time I left him to chat with some other people
I come back to find him arguing with someone and then as I go over there this guy is saying "if youre straight why are you here" and
when i came and started explaining i was mtf which I thought would calm him down cause i thought he thought my boyfriend was just there for no reason...
This guy starts rolling his eyes and turns back and theres actually a group of gay dudes behind him laughing saying to my boyfriend maybe hes not straight maybe hes just into femmes and that they could dress up like that too. Granted they were all drunk and laughing with eachother and my boyfriend is moving away and they kept following him. To the point where when he told them off the last time and when I got one of the staff involved,
the first guy starts to say "women ruin everything even fake women" which wtf? Then I had to hear them passive aggressively saying loudly that
who wants to be a woman anyway and hes probably only with me cause he hasnt met a gay who could take care of him without being and i quote "fucked up on hormones" I actually wish I was making this shit up because
I dont think anyone has made me feel so shitty as much as gay men have
Pre transition they did the same thing, I was more like a femboy and i had a lot femme gay friends (still do) and all of us would get shit on all the time for it. one gay older man I was into at the time kept buying me drinks and i thought he was interested because he literally said he wanted to get to know me, but as soon as his friends came he ignored me the rest of the night and when i went to thank him for the drinks his friend or someone was like "hes not into queens" and he didnt even say anhthing
Not to mention any time my friends brought any of their boyfriends to these places or even during pride,
if their boyfriends were in any way considered masc which most of them were because i think we all have similar types, there was ALWAYS some gay dude who'd try even harder to hit on them after seeing us as if it was a challenge or some threat to their masculinity
When I decided i wanted to transition I stopped going out downtown for this reason for a while because they made me feel like shit all the time. Some will ask about my experiences and then grimace when i talk about wanting surgery or learning how to do makeup and they especially get weird when you talk about liking masculine men as if im not allowed to do that.
At the end of the night this weekend my boyfriend told me they were flirting with him and when he said hes straight they got offended and asked why he was even here. I think he was trying really hard not to ruin my night because I have never seen him look so done being out with me
We left after that and I balled my eyes out afterward because I got extremely insecure about him leaving me because of bullshitnlike that.
I get way more respect outside of the lgbtq community than inside, pre and post transition and even when I was content being a femme gay.
Its all rooted in misogyny and I cant stand it because it bleeds onto to anyone feminine presenting. I have a lot of friends that are cis women and we used to bring like 2 out with us at the clubs and so many of them said they weren't coming back because they felt really uncomfortable being interrogated by gay men even thoigh they didnt act like stereotypical gay best friend type woman touching gay guys and directing attention to themselves.
Ive heard so many gay men go on and on about how disgusting women are and how theyre prudes in bed and thats why men are better so why would I want to be one...
Sorry for the rant, I guess im just really sick of this
Girlpills are no longer strong enough to beat back the dysphoria this MTF endures, a weight so heavy that he can hardly bring himself to even pick them up at his local chemist without enduring great shame. Part of his abysmal self image? He lacks a uterus: "
I don't think when people think of an "imperfect woman" they think of a woman without a womb," he weeps pathetically in the comments. "
I think the trans community isn't focused enough on pushing us forward. We have biology and science on our side and we focus too much on social dysphoria when in reality its the parts that everyone cares about. Those parts that i want to make myself complete..." Ladies, remember: this is precisely the kind of dude who would
love to take your corpse's organmeat the second you go cold. Prepare for your demise accordingly.
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I feel really shitty and dysphoric lately. Ive started to not just hate my body but also to hate my insides. I feel embarrassed about myself in ways i never did. I had to go to the pharmacy yesterday to get estrofem and
god i was about to cry. I called a friend over to help me guide to the cashier when it was my turn cause my entire face was down to the floor. I dont want to get reminded of treatment i cant take, and parts that i dont have,
i don't have zero choice over how i reproduce. I want to go through the same way, i want to be a regular woman, an average woman. Im starting to regret transitioning knowing my dysphoria would never be cured.
At most im basically "women minus" and it doesn't feel an average woman to me.
I cant be happy about it, everyone thinks i just just accept it and that im being unrealistic, but why does reality has to be so cruel to me?
An autistic troon's attempt to knock a real chick down a few pegs backfires as his social capital as a Brother of the Sissy Hypno Playlist no longer goes as far as it once did - so instead of coming out on top like he'd hoped, he's the one getting "cancelled" by local honey nut queerios. He assumes it's because he's a tranny, but
he explicitly states that he used misogynistic slurs and mocked her appearance in his attempted takedown, which he stupidly justifies by saying "
I was trying to be like cis women I know who beef with other women and utilize that type of rhetoric." Seems like troons 'n' poons are having quite a
Viva la Vida moment as of late, which bodes fortuitously for the coming year!
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Basically I semi called out a cis woman who is pretty big in the local queer activist community for her actual abuse allegations and the toxicity I have witnessed and the various manipulations I have faced being so close to her and then being verbally abused and discarded by her for calling it out.
Yes it also included things like making fun of her appearance and calling her a bitch and a hoe and her failed relationships and no excuse for that but she is a terrible person and i feel like she has everyone fooled and so many people know these things about her. Anyways
I am the one being cancelled and discarded by people I considered to be friends. I feel unwelcome in alot of queer spaces now and I do not wanna make this about my transfemininity but
I feel like our acceptance even in "progressive" spaces is based on us either being seen and not heard or just an all out "girls girl" who will basically be a minion and have no real autonomy or identity outside of hyping up and validating the cis women and enbys with social capital and providing entertainment with our personalities.
Basically a real life drag show.
Lastly, beside her grandmother's deathbed, rather than reflecting on a long life lived and watching living history pass away before her very eyes, a pooner focuses on what really matters in life: her gender feelings. At least she's being courteous enough not to oust herself as a lunatic before Granny kicks the bucket, but for God's sake, can you people think of anyone
but yourselves?
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Of all the things that have ever caused me gender dysphoria, my grandmother’s slow and painful decline has been the most unexpected. She was recently hospitalized for
what’s probably going to be the final time, and
is desperate to see all of her “granddaughters” before she goes.
Her eyesight is almost gone, which means passing as a girl isn’t a problem. But it feels like I’m committing fraud, standing by an elderly woman’s bedside and claiming to be her granddaughter. She deserves the presence of her actual granddaughter, not someone playing a role. But
that actual granddaughter doesn’t exist, so this is the best I can provide.
Coming out to her was never an option, and I always knew that she’d pass away without ever knowing the truth. I just didn’t expect to feel so disgusted with myself.
Be gentle with yourself, be kind to others, and let everyone exist as they are. We all deserve a little more love 
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