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These strangers like me: after learning that actual men also take supplemental testosterone (which is a normal part of male healthcare as they age), a FTM feels reassured about her status as a real boy. It's just like how she learned that men also lose their hair and sit to pee! So validating! Just wait until she learns about heart attacks!
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A tranny tries to rally his fellow Brothers of the Women's Changing Room to stop viewing themselves as mean, nasty transphobes do - as in, though the lens of reality. Instead, he insists on perpetuating the lunacy that is claiming a biological man is actually a biological woman, and that men who imagine themselves being fucked like underage stepsisters due to porn addiction are actually totally valid, okay? So don't let the haters win!cis men taking testosterone is a thing
I’ve been seeing ads and billboards targeting CIS GENDER MEN to take testosterone. They call it TRT. Even Joe Rogan has talked about taking it.
At first this kind of annoyed me (like how liberal straight heterosexual couple call themselves “partner” versus husband/wife/etc) but now I’m just kinda smitten because it makes me feel more aligned with the general population of MEN in solidarity… just like how I felt coming to terms going bald or using the stall/sit down to pee.
I guess trans guys aren’t so different than cis guys after all.
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Now that he's gotten his dick ripped off, this guy thinks he's no longer a card-carrying member of The Troon Mafia, claiming that "If someone saw (me) naked right now, they'd never know (I) was born male." While I believe troons always overstate their ability to pass, what I find funniest about this is that he doesn't seem to understand that his prostate will forever delineate him from other "regular ass women," given that they, you know, don't have them.Babes, we've gotta stop listening to transphobes
Listen, I know they seem like they're everywhere and they're extremely loud and, somehow, they have amassed an incredible amount of influence. Unfortunately, this also means that they have become the dominant force in writing about us, dictating language about us, and defining us for the public. This will pass, but it's going to take some time and a lot of fight. But in the mean time, babes, we CANNOT be repeating their lies and using their language.
I am hearing a lot of trans people, and not even just newly out trans women, not just the transmeds, buying into these lies and we have got to stop with that. Okay? So here's some truths.
You are NOT a biological man. Not at all. Not even a little. And this is true even if you're not taking HRT, even if you've not had any surgery, even if you never do these things. You're a woman. Your biology is a woman's biology. Saying you're a woman who's biologically a man is not only bigoted bullshit, it's not only a lie, it's pure fucking nonsense. Don't validate transphobic jibberish.
Trans and cis are not a label and they are not a slur and if you don't want it to be, trans isn't even an identity. These are adjectives. That's all they are. They describe people. Calling somebody a trans woman is no more putting them in a box than calling them a fun woman. Nobody hears "You're a fun woman," and starts shouting "Fun is a slur, don't label me! That's not my identity." And nobody hears "you're a tall woman" and insists "I'm not a tall woman, I'm just a normal woman! Don't call me tall!" They don't do that because that would be ridiculours. That's just not how words work.
You are not a pervert or a fetishist or a predator. And you're still not these things if you like the idea of having sex as a woman. You know who else likes having sex as a woman? Cis women. If you're a sex enjoying kind of person, OF COURSE you are going to want to have sex as yourself, in a body you're comfortable in. This is so normal it's BORING. A trans woman who wants to be a woman while having sex is the most vanilla thing in all the world of sex. You might as well beat up on yourself for liking missionary.
Being trans is not a mental illness and calling yourself a woman is not lying. I rarely hear trans women use the word delusional but some of you are really going out of your way to imply it about yourselves and, sweetie, you're worth more than that cruelty. You are a valuable human worthy of respect, especially from yourself. Do you know what being trans is? It's an entirely normal expression of human diversity. We're been around forever. And we probably will be around forever because we're a dialectical inevitability. Now you might have mental illnesses, but being trans isn't one of them. Being trans isn't a flaw in who you are. I'm not going to tell you to like it if you don't. I don't particularly like the shape of my hands, but they are regular hands within the scope of human diversity, just like being trans is a regular identity and experience. Your gender is real.
One of the big ways that transphobes are trying to erradicate us is though language. They want to twist language to suit their view of the world. It doesn't matter than "man" and "woman" have never in all of human history been catagories defined by chromosomes or organs, they need to redefine it. It doesn't matter that nobody has ever used the term "biological woman" because it's pure nonsense, they need to force it into the vernacular to define away the truth that trans women are women and we are biological, with the biology of a woman. It does not matter than nobody ever called public bathrooms a "safe space" until about five years ago. They need to redefine what counts as safe so they can play victim.
We can't let them get away with their attacks on us through language. And, babes, we definitely cannot fucking help them with it.
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What's the deal with airline food?: a pooner doesn't understand how women in other countries may be in need of more sex-specific protections than they do in her home country, so obviously the answer is to dismiss it as treating women as "unique creatures with special needs." Who wants to guess what eastern European country she hails from that's so progressive? Because last I was aware, that part of Europe ain't too nice about other kinds of women's rights such as funny little things called "abortion rights."Am I wrong to no longer consider myself a trans person post SRS?
I am nine months post op from my vaginoplasty. I have boobs, a vagina, and no one has called me "he" in years. I no longer see myself as a trans woman. I see myself as a regular ass woman. If someone saw me naked right now, they'd never know I was born male.
With that I sort of feel like I've graduated from the trans community. There's no more transitioning for me. I'm a woman and I love it and there's nothing left to transition to.
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A HSTS (i.e., a gay man) wants his fellow TiMs to know of the scourge that is girl hate, insisting that there are women out there who legitimately see a man in a dress as sexual competition. Any woman out here reading this who has actually gotten jealous of a troon's appearance, I want you to know that this is such a severe and tragic L that you should probably just take it to your grave. Why would you ever admit to envying fucking Mrs. Doubtfire?What's the fuss about "infiltrating women spaces" and women rights?
For clarification, this issue doesn't concern me or anyone in my life, I'm asking this out of pure curiosity because I see it online all the time and I don't get it.
Lately, most trans people (including ftm), are hated because we're taking away women's rights and that they don't feel safe when "men" get in their spaces and that the government should protect real women from this.
I know that this is probably an America problem or something, because I live in eastern Europe and I never heard any woman complain about their rights or whatever. We're a bit more traditional, but women here don't care when they share spaces with actual men and nobody ever felt unsafe about it. It's actually pretty common that in an aquapark, women casually change their clothes in the public changing area. When a man walks through the women's shower, nobody gives a damn. At schools, we have a lot of toilets for everyone cuz of money and space and nobody cares. And we always had PE connected together. We really don't have that much divided spaces, but it seems like in America, women are treated as some unique creatures with special needs or something. It kinda reminds me of the Victorian era, lmao.
My point is that we're a traditional country, but when there is for example a gay guy, he immediately gets accepted by girls and he's even asked to spend time in their spaces. So when there's a trans woman, I doubt that anyone would complain about her being with the girls, as long as she tries and actually look a bit like a woman.
I understand that some trans women might not pass that well, but when it's obvious that they're trying, that they feel like girls and are soft in the core, why should women complain that it's predatory? And even if it was predatory, I can't imagine any woman complaining about a "man" in their spaces, because literally nobody gives a damn as long as you don't bother them.
I want to understand this issue, because it makes most people judge all trans people, regardless of how well their pass or what people they are, and that's just stupid, because most of us are stealth and live a completely normal life without anyone noticing.
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Finally, a word from our sponsors: noteworthy tranny dicksucker Dr. Will Powers has taken to Reddit to try and suggest that all of the horrific outcomes you hear about in terms of HRT and SRS surgeries are ackshully signs of astroturfing and indicative of bad actors wanting to take away all troon healthcare for everybody. He insists he will not bend the knee to the 'HRT gestapo,' but still makes it clear which side his bread is buttered on as he declares "we are businesses, not charities," and that repeated legal battles threaten to sap these clinics of all their financial backing. You know, it's funny how cockroaches seem to hate the light...Cis women often are jealous and yall need to know this
The notion “no cis woman is gonna be jealous of a trans woman”
or “trans women arent prettier than cis girls or more desirable to men”
isnt true. many many trans women are as and more attractive than many many cis women.
many trans women pass perfectly and are attractive
many dont pass perfectly but embody their femininity without that ever taking away. without the history on them making them appear masculine
looking trans =doesnt= looking masculine or like a man a lot of the time
and yall arent gonna like hearing this but, you can be clocky and still appear more naturally feminine and even hot to cis heterosexual men than a completely cis averagely attractive women
clocked =doesnt= you look like a manit just means they can tell you are trans and sometimes thats because your holding yourself in ways cis women are scared to
which is why MANY of us experience
if a cis women (whether justified or not) sees a woman as both trans AND more attractive than her
- support in early transition
- blending in, attention from men and being treated as cis in later transition
- growing in confidence
- later misgendering, cruelty and social dynamics from cis women with a continued attraction from men and an added uncertainty
that triggers mad insecurity
(Edit: YALL ARE SO OBTUSE AND REACTIONARY ITS RIDICULOUS
my point was for girls to able to recognise that this happens
im explaining how a normal female social dynamic we often assume won’t apply to trans women, can infact apply and one way it can manifest.
(which yes is important because not all women who play that game. are dumb enough to be loud about it)
literally just saying “girls undermine other girls when it comes to social dynamics when they are thinking in terms of attractiveness and male attention and be aware you arent immune to this as a trans woman, and heres how it might manifest”
and maybe for people to talk about experiences it wasnt to generalise cis womenit wasnt to make a point about us being better
(Edit2: Some of yall acting like this is me being jealous or wanting access to men.
i couldnt care less.
thank you for being transmisogynystic and projecting the straight guy chaser and bitter trans bitch stereotypes onto me though
i am simply talking about experiences ive had with women as a woman and that others women have spoken about with me. both cis and trans
and saying we are not immune as women just because we are trans of getting wrapped up in this.
if you think i’m parroting a stereotype, go to feminist or lesbian subreddits and ask them about their experiences with male-centred women)
im sorry that youve not been around these girls, or not been in large girl groups or around (straight not queer) night life or any of that (what its really beginning to sound like)
not making a generalisation of all cishet women
im leaving editing now cause i cant be any clearer
edit3: “wether justified or not” = regardless of objective reality, as in said trans woman may not be objectively more attractive as a lot of that is subjective. i was stating it just matters how the person acting this way percieves them in relation to themsleves
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The trans community needs to be aware of what's happening. Trans healthcare is under attack but not in the way that you think it is.
I'll try and be concise here for once. But this needs to be said and trans people need to read it, so share it with those who need to know.
I have definitively stated that I wont bend the knee, and I'll be dragged off to jail before I stop treating trans people. In my mind, based on the behaviors of this administration, I imagined a scenario in which trans healthcare is banned, and my doors are kicked in by the HRT gestapo.
What has in fact happened is far more insidious.
I have a friend, their name is Dr. Beal, and they are one of the kindest humans. They run Queerdoc, which has been consistently harassed by the DOJ.
https://clearinghouse.net/case/47100/ (archive link)
The thing is, Dr. Beal recently posted about how they successfully fought off the DOJ, and got their attempts to do what they wanted to do to Queerdoc blocked.
https://queerdoc.com/queerdoc-subpoenaed-by-the-doj-but-still-here/ (archive link)
Great right? What this story does not tell is the fact that Dr. Beal had to spend astronomical amounts of money on the best possible lawyers in the country to fight the US government in a protracted legal battle. This case is not closed yet.
$500 an hour lawyers get expensive really quickly. Do you know what Dr. Beal "won?" even if they "win" the prize is being exactly where they were before the DOJ bothered them, but out hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees. What a prize! HRT is not a very profitable business, and trans people are not a wealthy population. HRT clinics are not sitting on mountains of cash to burn.
I am seeing in various online forums, stories about myself, Dr. Beal, or other trans treating clinicians where someone comes into a reddit post with something like:
"Dr.GENDERCLINIC actually tied me up in his office to a chair and forcibly sucked out my blood and put it into his mad gender science machine, and then force fed me cat food while he told me how I'm not really trans. It was so traumatizing!"
The person who made this post is not real. This "encounter" never happened, and the person claiming it did likely hates you and wants to see you have no access to care. The community is already scared, and given a scapegoat to attack and be angry at? They're all too happy to lash out at somebody, anybody they can, even though the story is so ridiculous its clearly made up.
The thread then devolves into people decrying Dr. Genderclinic, and demanding his head on a pike. People start saying Dr. Genderclinic needs to be taken down, encouraging license complaints and investigations.
You know how you have to invite a vampire into the house or they can't come inside in mythology? This is the equivalent of saying to the DOJ "Hey! You're welcome inside!".
The trans community literally is devouring its own right now. Sockpuppets are astroturfing your communities, verbally trashing all the major providers of HRT and Surgery, which is resulting in attacks from a hostile government by opening the door to these clinics for it.
The DOJ can't just kick in the door of Beal's clinic, but they can "investigate complaints" which then result in some trumped up bullshit such as "Federal health care offenses as defined in 18 U.S.C. § 24(a)," which enumerates more than 20 federal health care offenses. (about Queerdoc) "
Once the door is open, even if the reason Dr. Beal was "pulled over" in the first place was bullshit, they can find some "deficiency" to punish Dr. Beal with, or, can just draw out the legal battle endlessly with Dr. Beal until Queerdoc effectively runs out of money. They will kick out Dr. Beal's tail light just to give them a ticket even though Dr. Beal had no reason to be "pulled over" in the first place. It doesn't matter if Dr. Beal wont bend the knee to tyrants, if they bankrupt the Queerdoc clinic because Doc has to pay their employees, and if all Doc's money is going to this, its game over. We are businesses not charities. If we are not profitable, we die.
I'm Dr. Will Powers. Willpower is what I'm known for. I wont bend the knee, but I can be bankrupted.
The DOJ doesn't have to do the gestapo thing, they just shut us all down with financial lawfare.
I foolishly thought they were going to try and make trans care illegal. That's not going to happen. They're just going to deny it to poor people (blocking Medicaid/care access) which also eliminates any ability for us to receive any funds for providing it. Then, make it financially impossible to provide it by antagonizing trans care providers with nonsense until they run out of money. Once that happens, they close up shop, and you have nowhere to go anymore.
Keep this in mind, before you dogpile onto providers online, as what we're trying to do to survive right now is far beyond what the community collectively seems to be aware is happening. Soon, there may be none left, because we're dropping like flies. Every day I get asked if I can take on X patient from Y clinic as "we're closing our gender services clinic". They are turning this country into a "food desert" of HRT via financial lawfare, please don't make it harder on us than it is already. Do not fall for this trickery. We wont bend the knee, but we don't own money printing machines for lawyers like they do. We can be bankrupted out of business.
- Dr Powers