Chaeiry should just get off the internet. Live with family and find a wage slave job.
She genuinely cannot manage these people, and it’s not an environment that produces normal or decent people.
For fucks sake she is an orbit that is a couple steps away from 2 horse fuckers. This is a nuclear social environment.
She probably doesn't have an easy time with family or with a wage slave job, either. She's got impulse control problems and she has severe anger problems because of the BPD. She mentioned her family in that deleted post, as well as her ex. The people she finds online are garbage but at the same time, she's got a problem where she's both very good at reading people in certain ways, and completely delusional in other ways, so you never can be sure if everyone she thinks is awful is as awful as she thinks in the moment. This is one of my reasons Destiny goes after BPD women whose word can't be trusted.
jstlk dating cherry is morally neutral to me. people with mental health issues deserve to be loved too. there's nothing wrong with it, and my only caution would be that jstlk is able to support her in the way she needs and to have an abundance of patience and empathy.
the difference between this and what destiny did is that destiny intentionally victimizes mentally ill women because it provides him plausible deniability ("SHE'S CRAZY!") when he inevitably violates their consent in some way such as, oh i dunno, secretly recording them having sex and then giving the tape to a 17 year old girl that he's trying to fuck.
there is no comparison. jstlk innocent. destiny, by comparison, should be gutted and strung up by his heels with his innards hanging out on display in a public square (after a fair and ethical trial, of course, and the execution in this case would be done by the appropriate authorities).
JSTLK is an idiot for letting Chaeiry come out to Canada and move in with him, but he probably didn't know that much about BPD at the time. He probably thought it was fairly normal or didn't really see some of her more extreme behavior until he became her favorite person. For most people, being in that situation once is enough. Then there's guys like Destiny who see BPD women as easily dismissed, easily fucked, and a lot of fun until the other shoe drops. Then he gets to frame the argument like, "Oh, so women with BPD can't consent?" No, the argument is that people with BPD are a lot of responsibility and if you're not the kind of person who can't even ask for an ID or raise your own child, then you're not responsible enough to deal with the inevitable emotional issues that come with a fear of abandonment.
One of the last big falling outs that they had was when he ignored her at that in person event. You can't really ignore someone with BPD. They are going to react the way that Chaeiry did. So if you're the kind of person who is emotionally distant and causes a lot of confusion for someone with BPD, then you need to find someone else to fuck. I wouldn't even hold it against Destiny if he at least owned up to this or indicated that he shouldn't fuck with BPD people for THEIR sake, but he just focuses on how it affects him.
Like most things, Destiny wants all the fun and instant gratification, none of the responsibility.
Edit: That said, I don't have much sympathy for any women who fuck with him going forward. If it's out there that he can't even play a video game with his son, what makes you think you're going to be special?
I’m sad now and I’ve changed my mind. Destiny’s entertainment value is far outweighed by the harm he does. It’s selfish of me to want to watch him suffer, because he will just use the time to harm more people. The world would be a better place if he just did the needful for liveleak content.
I don't know why everyone keeps hoping that Destiny kills himself. If we're going to be hopeful, it would be funnier to see Erudite kill and eat him to absorb his soul and take the next step to transitioning into one being. The perfect being for Nick.
It'll happen any day now, I'm telling you.
