Being part of the older Zoomer cohort honestly, I think dooming about shit is extremely redundant regardless of how bad a situation is. I'm not saying you should just cope and lie to yourself, not at all, infact, looking squarely at how everything is shit in your life and environment is exactly what separates those who get off their ass and change, or just rot away and spiral.
Of course, I would be lying if I said I never have those days where I do feel like a doomer, or even weeks. You know the "everything is fucking crashing, there's no hope for the future, I have no money, this job fucking sucks blah blah blah" shit that runs through your mind. But at the end of it all its best to keep some spark of hope there.
If you do consider yourself a "doomer" I must ask what's even the point? Its kinda like Pascal's Wager in a way. If you're right and there's absolutely no way your life can get better as an individual, there is some merit in
trying. Because if you're wrong, and you just end up wasting your life for no reason when you could've made things better....well that's just fucking sad isn't it?
Then again I don't know shit about the world at this age, but that's my take.
Why should I go out to spend money I do not have? Why should I risk myself with meeting strangers? When the most common outcome nowadays is that I'll get murdered by some serial criminal that has been bailed numerous times already
Most can't find jobs because jobs are actually not hiring nowadays, can't make friends or find love because the worst the could happen nowadays is murder, can't do anything because we're broke and going out means spending our money.
Now I don't know where you live, and it could be some mega shithole like Jew York, Londonistan, or LA but regardless of where you live this does sound a bit hyperbolic. I mean I doubt you're going to be getting shanked by Deshawn just because you decided to join the local yoga group or some crap. I mean yeah it COULD happen, but you could also get splattered by a drunk driver or have some freak accident happen. None of those are good excuses to really "never" go outside. You seem smart enough to keep your head on a swivel about these things so perhaps you're in less danger than the average person in your city.
Honestly, why stay in the city? Yes, yes, I know "well retard I'm broke, and its expensive to move anywhere now, even to a rural area" but you have to try something. I have my own story about a leftist friend I'll tell another day, so I do know how it feels to be isolated, especially if you hold views you know your friends would rant at you for. But hoenstly if someone stops being your friend over sane political beliefs, like troons not being real women, then are they really a friend worth keeping?
I don't know your situation, your job, or your living conditions, but all I can say bro (or girl) is that even if it took me 5 years my goal would be to leave that shitty environment ASAP, regardless of the sacrifice. The bughives are NOT areas you want to be in once the 2030s and beyond start rolling around.