💬 Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Bill's Due]

@Rubatán Going to be honest dude, from my experience, you silently move on. There’s a tiny chance they could come to regret, but don’t bet on it.

@Rubatán

Yeah, I should bookmark the post where I talked about my troon friend who trooned out 3 years ago because of his feminazi gf from FFXIV, but I keep forgetting to.

A couple months ago I decided to just quit the server he's on - everyone on that server except me were leftists and hated Trump. Two of them are cowardly fags who ran away from California and are now shitting up Phoenix Arizona and turning that state blue.

Everyone called this guy a "she" and used his troon name. They were the ones asking me why I'm making such a big deal about it. I told him straight up that the person I knew as my longtime friend died the moment he thought he was a woman. I told him up front that he was brainwashed, and that as long as he suffers this delusion I would not be able to see him the same way.

I realized more and more that I felt like I was the only sane one in an insane asylum. Seeing this entire server openly accepting this troon's delusions. Why the fuck do I feel like the crazy one refusing to pretend this guy is a female? He clearly fucking isn't.

At this point I knew if I continued staying on that server and watching the rest of the server entertain his delusions I'm gonna say something I'm gonna regret and/or possibly get myself banned from the Discord service itself, despite Discord being a shitshow for a service to begin with.

Leave that group Rubatan, find new friends.

 

[GoldenSnake]

the day of reckoning for my brother is approaching. my parents have decided to sell their house so they can downsize, as their children are all grown and all but one has moved out, the one straggler being my brother. my brother is terrified of this, and sees it as being “kicked out” even though that is not the truth. with the new house, he is being asked to:

1: contribute to the household bills
2: keep his bedroom clean and orderly
3: go into some kind of education or training for a better job

apparently this is just far too much to ask for. what’s a troon to do? apparently, move to an apartment in a large and extremely expensive nearby city with a bunch of other people of gender. amazing.

I wish I could say I’m shocked by this, but I’m not. he’s always been deeply irresponsible and unwilling to do what he needs to do to improve his life. my parents continue to allow him to fail endlessly and the second they set some form of rules, he’s out! they better not help him with rent.

 

[Night Terrorist]

Also I think one of my exes is gonna poon out. To that I say lol, lmao, xD.

Update on this: she's currently in her man-hating 'I'm a lesbian now' LARP and she's showing this by dating a tranny, aka a man in a dress. So rather than poon out, she became a handmaiden instead. To which I say hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hope it's the worst time of your life. Maybe the relationship will implode and she'll poon out then. We'll have to wait and see.

 

[Chromeo]

fffFFFFFUUUUCCKKK!!!! FUCK! FUCK FUCK FUCK FUUUUUUUCK!!!
I'm so angry right now, I'm shaking. I'm in the middle of a stressful move, I can't sleep because the new place barely has AC and tomorrow I'm going to have to keep working at the old place in my dead sister's bedroom trying to keep what we can and throw out everything else because we have a WEEK to get rid of everything, and I'm just trying to not go crazy, that's the background, right?
I saw the community note about the wplace happening, how some tranny fucking shit all over the memorial for the kids shot by the trans shooter at mass, and I read the thread and got so angry and scared and just vented about it in my personal discord group chat, that's only me and my closest friends, and while EVEN THE NONBINARY ONE understood and consoled me, one of my closest friends for over the last 10 years just left the group chat and told me to never reinvite him because of this.
He said the group chat "no longer feels like a safe or comfortable place for him," suggested the guy that posted about it on KF is the perpetrator of the vandalism, bla bla bla, just sent this entire fucking therapy worded textwall to me about it

IGNORING that I also talked about my journey with all this shit in that same fucking text channel in the group chat, how I wasn't always this transphobic and wanted to be a good ally, but after I was sexually assaulted by a fucking troon and my shitass boyfriend, then saw that same tranny lecturing women about pronouns, I just snapped and started Noticing shit. BUT I GUESS THAT DOESN'T EVEN AMTTER, NOT EVEN IN *MY* GROUP CHAT, BECAUSE I'M JUST SOME TRANSPHOBIC FUCKING ASSHOLE WHO USES MEAN LANGUAGE "with the current state of the world" WHEN THE FUCKING TRANS MENACE KEEPS KILLING CHRISTIAN CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND WE CAN'T DO ANYTHING TO ESCAPE THE FUCKIGN TRANS BRIGADE LITERALLY ANYWHERE NOT EVEN IN WPLACE OR CHURCH OR ANYTHING BECAUSE THEY'LL JUST KILL YOU AND SHIT ON YOUR GRAVE AND GLOAT AND BLAME YOUR HYPOTHETICAL REPUBLICAN PARENTS!!!!

I just know all of my friends are going to turn on me like this someday. They're all out to get me, they're all so fucking willing to go to bat to the hedonistic bucket crab trans bullshit whatever, they all choose it over me eventually. Everyone chooses everything over me, that's all anyone ever does, and now I'm losing one of my dearest friends because of this shit, because he'd rather hang out with his tranny faggot asskissers who pretend like they're all perfect angels and they're SO morally superior because they goon to hentai so much it makes them want to cut their fucking testicles off.

I'm going to go cry myself to sleep. I'm not even being coherent. I'm sorry, I just have nowhere anymore. Fuck everybody.

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

Pour one out. My troon is getting his 'ditch dug this month. He prefaced by saying it'll be a long drive, but it's *intense manic eyes* MANDATORY IT GETS DONE. 20 months, estrogen to excavation. Reddit and Discord do a smashing job instilling the surgery urgency.

 

[m1ddl3m4rch]

Pour one out. My troon is getting his 'ditch dug this month. He prefaced by saying it'll be a long drive, but it's *intense manic eyes* MANDATORY IT GETS DONE. 20 months, estrogen to excavation. Reddit and Discord do a smashing job instilling the surgery urgency.

I enjoy your turns of phrase. I'm sorry for you and your friend.

One day I suspect someone is going to bonk their wouldbe-troon over the head and do a captive in-home detox and deprogramming. I wonder if testosterone gel would snap him out of estrogen brain. He'd probably react to it like a demoniac to holy water.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

Pour one out. My troon is getting his 'ditch dug this month. He prefaced by saying it'll be a long drive, but it's *intense manic eyes* MANDATORY IT GETS DONE. 20 months, estrogen to excavation. Reddit and Discord do a smashing job instilling the surgery urgency.

There is nothing you can do but to watch the train wreck.

 

[Dago]

I work with a pooner at a warehouse and she is a short tubby dyke with a zoomer mullet, she is ok at her job when she wants to be but lazy. She also let it slip that she listens to smut on the dock. From what shes told she came from a broken home and all the jazz and although I disagree with their life choices I can't help but feel bad for her. Somewhere along the way this broken girl was told the solution to her pain is to chop her tits off and start taking T. Just insane.

 

[Gay Sex Enjoyer]

My best friend whom I've known since I was around 9 trooned out about 3 years ago and has recently started fucking dudes. Now I know what you're thinking , "Oh but gaysexenjoyer, aren't you a flaming faggotoni as well? Who are you to judge? Tut tut, tut tut I say!" No, shut up. I just like men and act like a normal person, I'm nowhere near this level of fucked.

Now to set the stage, his parents were a retired cop and a stay at home mom, both of whom were very whitebread middle class Christian types, so naturally to compensate my friend was a lib-leaning homestuck fan for most of his life with a fedora firmly attached to his skull. You probably know the type, but it was a manageable level of annoying. He had girlfriends, worked a normal job, hung out with me and I've never been shy about my contrary beliefs with him because, even though we disagree, I trusted him as a normal person and he seemed receptive to my honesty. Up until he asked me to start calling him a troon name over Discord, before then outright asking me to call him a woman irl.

Now I get "fuck you dad" is a VERY dangerous chalice to drink from but I never could've guessed he'd actually swallow this particular bullet.

Part of me wants to just call him a retard and tell him to knock this shit off because this guy is literally my oldest and closest friend and I care about him immensely, but at the same time I have no idea how he'd actually react. He's a troon now so he could completely ghost me and never speak to me again or kill himself if I come on too strong or say the wrong thing. He doesn't pass at all (of course) so you know he'll react poorly when I start talking to him about it.

If it turned out he was just gay like me then that would've been more than enough weirdness for one friend group but still manageable, but putting on dresses and letting random dudes rail you because it gives you Le Hecking Gender Euphoria is so beyond the pale I'm honestly flabberghasted.

I just KNOW this shit came from his faggy new dangerhair friends from when he moved out to libtopia city to get away from his parents during Covid. No way he came to this conclusion on his own, my nigga was 6' and looked like Gabe Newell.

I genuinely don't know what to do anymore. I just... I just want my friend back. I can't even talk to him anymore without him bringing up troon shit. I have no one else to even discuss this with because none of my other friend even know him.

 

[Rainbow Child]

Part of me wants to just call him a retard and tell him to knock this shit off because this guy is literally my oldest and closest friend and I care about him immensely, but at the same time I have no idea how he'd actually react. He's a troon now so he could completely ghost me and never speak to me again or kill himself if I come on too strong or say the wrong thing. He doesn't pass at all (of course) so you know he'll react poorly when I start talking to him about it.

Telling him is the best thing for him. Better yet, take some candid photos, when he's unaware, first; and show those to him when you tell him. He's going to ruin his life, more and more, the longer he avoid confronting the truth.

You're six feet tall, bro. I know your tHeRaPisT tells you that LoTs oF wOmEn aRe TaLL, yOu sHouLd gO tO dEnMaRk, or whatever. But he's the fucking devil and he doesn't care about you like I do. Imagine what a dork I would be if I put on a monocle and top hat and LARPed 24/7 as a billionaire. Imagine what an asshole you'ld be if you didn't tell me to knock it off. That's this. You need to learn to accept what you are. There is no finish line to tRaNsiTiOn. You have to learn to accept yourself. .... something like that.

 

[Uncle Bunkle]

I saw an old friend of mine last week. She was one of those really boy-crazy artsy girls, sweet, but definitely dealing with some shit I could never understand. She got addicted to social media, got a lot of attention from creepy older guys while we were in high school, then pretty quickly trooned out. It was really sudden and I didn't understand what was happening or why she'd do that all of a sudden because we were young and I didn't know much about trans stuff.

Genuinely, I have no fucking clue what goes on in the brains of those artsy bippie types, but clearly some kind of consistent pattern leads them to pooning. Perhaps it's some kind of eldritch dood knowledge that once you comprehend it you're instantly assimilated into the horde. Yeah they have a lack of solid identity or so I'm told, but it's still extremely weird and from an outside perspective appears totally random and nonsensical. One day they just suddenly have some grand revelation that actually, they were a true and honest gay man all along and speedrun the titchop. Now they're addicted to cross-sex hormones, they've cut their lives short by decades, they had a bunch of expensive medical procedures, their brain chemistry is fucked, and for what? After all that, who are you and what have you achieved? Even if it's their definition of a 'perfect transition,' they're more miserable than they've ever been, their organs are permanently damaged, they're in pain, they hate their bodies even more, and they're depressed and anxious husks of their former selves.

As you can tell, I'm kinda upset my friend went down this path and I still miss her, but I've completely given up on her. When I saw her, she had an overpowering stench of sulfur so strong that I thought there was something ripe and rotting nearby. She had the exact same feminine body and features, same voice, everything, except a lot more inflamed, bloated, and oily and a lot of damage to her skin. Years and years of medical transition and you couldn't even tell she was trans at all save for the dumpster smell. You'd just think she was a woman, albeit a very severely ill and unhygeinic one.

 

[ScurvyRat]

Years and years of medical transition and you couldn't even tell she was trans at all save for the dumpster smell. You'd just think she was a woman, albeit a very severely ill and unhygeinic one.

This goes for the men too. Years down the line and they just look more fucked up and disgusting than ever.

 

[Hero's legacy]

My brother got hit with the tranny infection for some time now as he is now with 3 other dudes in dresses and I recently got blocked by him on twitter as I tried to mock him for being gross as hell. Saw him comment under dick picks and post some highly questionable stuff. Doesn't help that my mother and father seem all too supportive of it. And given how long this is going, I doubt there is anything I could do to change that, as I am going against my parents' support for this. Thankfully I do have other relatives that do see the issues with this, so I am not alone in the family.

Though I suspect that I won't be seeing him for quite some time as I told him that he isn't allowed to wear the dress in my home when I first found out about it.

 

[crowabunga]

God damn it, man, I try and find out what you are doing a good ways out from our college days and I learn your response to dropping out was to also go MTF - so far just a social transition, but who knows what's next. Fuck, I know the nerds we hung out with back then had some trannies in there, but I didn't realize how contagious it really was.

This is the worst I've seen of the social contagion firsthand, damn it. Damn it! I liked you, man, and now the only thing I can do is stay at a distance since you're probably knee-deep in a Discord cult right now and my entreaties would just drive you further into your chronically online pit.

It's all so tiresome. I can joke about TTD but I can't really mean it, especially not now. Fuck. I hate this contagion all the more now, and I hope that for some people the memes can be killed before they are irreparably wrecked.

However, every tranny groomer, every tranny discord cult leader, every retarded corporate/zeitgeist whore and simpering soyboy in a position of power who shills this shit, who normalizes it, and performatively acts the "good person" for the sake of dollars & clout, I'm so close to fedposting about that lot right now.

 

[teriyakiburns]

Not so much "losing" as "oh god another youtuber trooned". Anyone remember Door Monster? One of the OG Youtube sketch comedy channels. Did some pretty ambitious stuff and was pivoting to do bigger things right when the rona shit happened.

Some time in the last couple of years, one of their long-term members - Ethan Gelinas - trooned out and decided to announce it on the update video the channel did at christmas, explaining where everyone was these days.

This guy:

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...has decided he is now a woman. All he does is stream games on twitch under the name "earnest wheat", or "olive", and whine about how much everything sucks for him these days. I can't say I'm all that surprised. I am a little surprised there was no door monster thread in the multimedia board, otherwise I would have posted this there instead. This seemed like the next best place.

And now Kyle, the face of Door Monster, has also trooned. I thought I saw signs of it a couple of years ago, when he started growing his hair and wearing earrings, but I just assumed it was a thing. It's not a thing.

Announced elsewhere, but just fucking jumpscared on people watching his channel with the release of his 10 year anniversary video.



In retrospect it seems obvious. He's got the hump, the pot-belly, and he's obviously wearing a binder to hide his moobs.



No wonder he lost all his motivation and almost completely stopped making videos. He's destroyed his mind.

 

[The Cunting Death]

from the other "how are you doing" thread.

I mentioned in another thread (this thread you're reading not the one I'm quoting) my best friend from high school trooned out. I just found out today he was groomed and cut all contact with me. The thing I don't get is I didn't do a fucking thing to him at all.

I hate myself for not being able to do anything about it and stepping in when I felt like I should have talked with him.

I honestly believe he's gonna kill himself in the next few years.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

And now Kyle, the face of Door Monster, has also trooned. I thought I saw signs of it a couple of years ago, when he started growing his hair and wearing earrings, but I just assumed it was a thing. It's not a thing.

Announced elsewhere, but just fucking jumpscared on people watching his channel with the release of his 10 year anniversary video.

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In retrospect it seems obvious. He's got the hump, the pot-belly, and he's obviously wearing a binder to hide his moobs.

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No wonder he lost all his motivation and almost completely stopped making videos. He's destroyed his mind.

I read this post and immeditately cancelled my subscription. Trannies can all eat shit and die.

 

[healing rain]

I can shout TTD from the rooftops all day long on the farms but the truth is I’ve had a good “nonbinary” friend for about 5 years now. Today I let it slip that I don’t actually think being nonbinary is a real thing so she blew up and claimed that I never truly cared about her and was lying to her face this whole time so we broke things off then and there.

Unironically, am I the asshole? She wasn’t nonbinary when I met her, and it’s not as bad as full on transitioning so I thought I could look past it. I probably should’ve been upfront with my beliefs, but I liked her so much I decided to tolerate it out of respect. She’s acting like I secretly hated her for the color of her skin. I detest the way these people are conditioned to enmesh this ideology into their entire personhood.

 

[Baraadmirer]

I can shout TTD from the rooftops all day long on the farms but the truth is I’ve had a good “nonbinary” friend for about 5 years now. Today I let it slip that I don’t actually think being nonbinary is a real thing so she blew up and claimed that I never truly cared about her and was lying to her face this whole time so we broke things off then and there.

Unironically, am I the asshole? She wasn’t nonbinary when I met her, and it’s not as bad as full on transitioning so I thought I could look past it. I probably should’ve been upfront with my beliefs, but I liked her so much I decided to tolerate it out of respect. She’s acting like I secretly hated her for the color of her skin. I detest the way these people are conditioned to enmesh this ideology into their entire personhood.

Not the asshole; I have a friend who has some pretty braindead Reddit takes, but I enjoy hanging out with him otherwise. I suspect many queer people are unable to compartmentalise their feelings and go full on all-or-nothing when it comes to values. Do their friends agree with them on virtually everything except one core value? Defriend, shun, call them a "fascist". Consider Rowling, who was fine with trans people existing in society and having a lukewarm response to them at worst before she was attacked and sent death threats for supporting Maya Forrester's indignation for being fired for stating that there are indeed physiological differences between males and females; now she just doesn't give a fuck towards the community attacking her.

 

[Muskie]

I can shout TTD from the rooftops all day long on the farms but the truth is I’ve had a good “nonbinary” friend for about 5 years now. Today I let it slip that I don’t actually think being nonbinary is a real thing so she blew up and claimed that I never truly cared about her and was lying to her face this whole time so we broke things off then and there.

Unironically, am I the asshole? She wasn’t nonbinary when I met her, and it’s not as bad as full on transitioning so I thought I could look past it. I probably should’ve been upfront with my beliefs, but I liked her so much I decided to tolerate it out of respect. She’s acting like I secretly hated her for the color of her skin. I detest the way these people are conditioned to enmesh this ideology into their entire personhood.

No. Your friend chose a dumb fad over your friendship. You looked past your own preconceptions; she could have returned the favor and looked past her's but she didn't. Don't beat yourself up over it, there was probably nothing you could do to appease her and stay true to yourself. Gender bullshit is gay and retarded.