You Know What Grinds My Gears? - Things that personally piss you off

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Another thing that grinds my gears: never really knowing what's "in-demand" anymore. You can look it up, go to learn it, and then it's just either gone or everyone's offshoring it to H1Bs/H2Bs/etc. Like I keep hearing cybersecurity's in demand, so I go to learn it, next thing I know I just hear that everyone's just managing their cybersecurity to fucking India despite them being a US-based business. But you still have officials going "oh yes, it's totally in demand, you totally WILL get a job by having our certifications and degrees!" because they need money just as bad as anyone else does.
Like all I want is an honest answer, is it even worth getting into as a career, or are you just gonna get butt-fucked from the politics by the people managing you?
Looking at the clock at work, and feeling like time is going by too slowly. Seconds feeling like minutes and minutes feeling like hours
Had this happen often while I was at public school too. At least depending on your work you could find something to pass the time, in public school you had to sit like a robot on idle mode.
 
This shit.
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what IS your beef with pro sports though?
They're mad they can't easily make upper thousands to millions just doing bare minimum like athletes almost can. That is honestly the core reason people hate sports, anyways, I feel. They get mad at all of these athletes making 500,000 or 2.5 million or superstars raking in 300 million (which honestly in my opinion, they need to cap that shit). The idea that athletes can decide to retire at any given time and be set for life must really grind people's nerves as they have to tediously work their shit jobs making 1/10,000th of that.
 
I hate how with every post on Reddit now, all the replies are joke answers or you can tell by their speech patterns they’re jeets.

It used to only affect the popular subs and now it’s everywhere.

I only stayed on Reddit for a bunch of niche hobbies and now most of the older post answers are [deleted]. And anything new is a snarky ass joke response. I miss forums from the early 2000’s that had a sense of community.
 
I hate how with every post on Reddit now, all the replies are joke answers or you can tell by their speech patterns they’re jeets.

It used to only affect the popular subs and now it’s everywhere.

I only stayed on Reddit for a bunch of niche hobbies and now most of the older post answers are [deleted]. And anything new is a snarky ass joke response. I miss forums from the early 2000’s that had a sense of community.
That kind of behavior has long been Reddit's "tradition" for going almost a decade now. People love playing one-up with eachother on there for frivolous points. Hell, nothing on the news that is reported there is entirely immune from it. Someone is bound to make an edgy joke on a story that involves dead children even, among a sea of people trying to make an effort that they care.
 
That kind of behavior has long been Reddit's "tradition" for going almost a decade now. People love playing one-up with eachother on there for frivolous points. Hell, nothing on the news that is reported there is entirely immune from it. Someone is bound to make an edgy joke on a story that involves dead children even, among a sea of people trying to make an effort that they care.
I liked it better when it was harder to get on the internet or to places where you could post a response to something. It helped weed out a lot of undesirables.

When I was younger I was on a forum dedicated to just Zelda, another one for voyager, etc.

As much flak as kiwi farms gets, I actually enjoy how it creates that experience again.
 
Facilities and other services requiring you to come to their building to do basic things like transaction issues. Instead of just like, doing it over the phone or god forbid, e-mail. It is just a pressuring obstacle they push subscribers and customers through, as to how badly they need something done, so why not just beckon them to have to make the effort to drive to the building in the off chance it might not be done anyways? It has the same odds of the matter not being resolved than if it was over phone or e-mail, so why require people to physically show up?

Just to waste your time and effort.

If you mean a gym, 100%. If you mean a bank, there are some things they need to see you for.

Some new neighbors moved in a few weeks ago. Every time they let their dogs out, the dogs bark nonstop at everything within a mile of them. That would be bad enough, but the neighbors just sit there on the front porch watching their dogs bark, saying nothing, making no effort to stop or discipline or train the dogs. The noise would be bad enough on its own, but the sight of these boomers just sitting there serenely, contentedly watching their dogs constantly bark for a half-hour at a time is infuriating. Why is it so hard for anyone to show an ounce of consideration for others anymore?
Have you tried asking them to keep the dogs from barking? Or do you have a local ordinance for it? Mine is very restrictive - like 5 barks in 5 minutes. And I've never called the cops for it (solved my problem with a polite email, after going insane from hours of it every single day for years...OK, it took a couple of emails over a couple of months), but I do know that if you call it in, they will pay a visit to the owners.
 
Getting scolded about shit that does not pertain to you in a work meeting.
I hate this shit so much. It's just admin not doing their job. I bet you all know who the call-in abuser is. I bet this person is either completely unaware that it's them that is being talked about OR they know it but aren't ever going to stop as long as they can pretend the boss is talking about someone else.
I get this shit too, but at least it's just with e-mails.
I get the e-mails too; 99% of the time, it's due to one person (with everyone else knowing who it is) doing something and nobody wanting to confront them in person about it because they see such a dialogue as a personal attack. I'm also convinced a recent email might have been about me doing something I had no idea I even did because the sender didn't have the fortitude to talk to me about it first if it was in fact me. If we're truly supposed to be reasonable adults, why can't we settle this stuff like adults and not use vague emails implying future consequences as the first knee jerk response? And people wonder why I take the time to privately document some of what I do just to cover my ass. *sigh*

I have a sorta-similar problem where, despite me following procedure, something I was not informed of or trained on goes wrong, and I catch shit for it.
I once had a boss who didn't tell me I was supposed to be wearing collared shirts until I had been there eight months and then acted as if I somehow knew that small detail without being told and after I had bought some nice shirts without a dress collar and wore them in the ensuing months.

At another workplace, the boss gave me a job description stating I had to complete a certain weekly task by a certain day/time - which was totally reasonable. What wasn't, however, was her taking my unfinished work away from me 2-3 hours before the agreed-upon deadline while I was at lunch and writing me up for failing to meet the deadline and not doing my job correctly. I submitted my resignation the next day. This is also the same boss who complained to me about body odor and poor hygiene when the BO came from a Jeet staffer who didn't know what soap was and stunk up my workspace when he had to send an outgoing fax.

Wanting to look up obscure subject X online only to find that a popular, shitty band has named itself X so the first five google pages are filled with references to this band and contain nothing about the original subject that you wanted to study.
Recently, an acquaintance and I were talking about a mutual interest. He's been curious about a historical item, but he cant do any internet research on it because the term in question was referenced by a modern-day TV show or series and all the internet results return pages relating to the show and not the historical item.

The fucking retard civil planners decided to start construction, in fucking September, on both the only road out of the town I commute through but also the road that leads from the highway to the road I live on.
At present, a signed detour for a route under major reconstruction for the next year now has construction on it and the same detour is closed for a few blocks in one direction for unknown reasons.

I've experienced so many construction delays and detours in the past year, I half expect to wake up one morning and find the road commission attempting to lay asphalt in my bedroom.

Fucking undocumented janitors at hospitals lazily cleaning the floor with some shitty rags and then immediately using the same filthy rag to wipe the walls and everything else. It's a miracle I didn't catch some nasty infection when I had to get surgery last year, even in my room they tried to pull the same nasty shit.
Growing up, parent pie made the decision to never go to a local restaurant ever again after witnessing a bus boy wipe his brow with a rag and then proceed to use it to wipe down a table the last time we ever ate there.

I love my parents but they nagged me because I didn't know basic home skills because they never thought it. It is this weird problem where older generations don't teach their kids and then expect the kids to become self thought when it comes to basic life skills.
I wonder if this really is a generational thing because my parents never taught me basic home skills even when they had plenty of opportunities over time to do so. It ground my gears when they'd tell others about my lack of home skills with the implication I was lazy around the house when they never took the time to teach me and instead left me to figure them out on my own and through trial and error.

Thread tax: When the weather is non cooperative the one day you have available during the week to do outdoor yard work.
 
"If you don't like it just don't look at it!!:
No, it will expand and consume things I do like if not opposed. I will always strike insufferable trends at the source.
 
I hate the co-opting of 'gay' by troons.

We're not talking about troons that feel attracted to the same sex they identify with, we're talking about troons calling themselves 'gay' because they think they're fun and, more disgustingly, because at some level they realise they are capitalising (and burning) on good will towards the LGBs.

It sickens me to my stomach.
 
Leftists calling anyone "snowflakes" for daring to disagree with them even once, while ignoring the millions of times they've bitched, moaned and demonized others over the most inane bullshit.
 
People with poor dental hygiene. How dare you smile at me and subject my senses to the rotten, yellow mess inside your mouth? How do you even look at yourself in the mirror and not be disgusted? Unless you're from like, some uncontacted tribe in Papua fucking New Guinea who have no concept of a tootbrush there really is no excuse.
 
People with small dogs. I've never known a single person that had it well-trained, and when they inevitably misbehave either they laugh like retards in a balloon factory about it or shrug their shoulders like it's an unreasonable expectation to keep control over a creature that comes up to your ankle and relies on you for food. Not being able to keep control of your animal should be met with deep shame, not "aw gosh gee shucks isn't it hilarious little Snickerdoodle pissed in my shoes again".
 
How fucking unusable reddit is. Yeah its my fault for using reddit first of all. But at first glance it seems like a decent place to go if you have a question about a super specific topic, right? I hardly ever go on there, but once every couple of months I go if I have a question that's a bit too complex to search up because it's the only place I can really think of. Forums are mostly dead (RIP) and I'm not joining someone's discord server to talk to a bunch of they/them retards.

But it's becoming impossible unless you're a faggot who regularly uses reddit. Most of the time if you post on there for the first time on an account your post will be filtered out. Why? Because you don't have enough reddit karma. If you don't waste your time cultivating an account on there it's basically unusable even if you have a basic question about cat litter or whatever. So I gave in, and actually bothered to remember the password to an account and continued to use it every once in a while in order to build up some karma until I finally had enough to pass the threshhold for most places. All for a site I only post on like once every few months. Even then, sometimes the filter will delete it automatically claiming that it was a banned category of post even if it literally wasn't, all because of some random keywords it managed to string together.

Today, I went on there to ask about mods on a game subreddit that I'd never posted in before with my established, innocuous, non controversial reddit account. And my post was immediately removed. Why? Because I didn't have enough comment karma on their specific fucking subreddit. Yes, they expect you to not just participate in their gay subreddit's comments section, but feed the echo chamber to get enough updoots, just for the privilege of being able to make a post asking a question. It's so obnoxious and cumbersome to use all because jannies need to power trip and are too lazy to actually moderate the subreddit themselves. We need forums back, you used to be able to just make an account and post what you want no issue. No wonder reddit fucking sucks so much
 
Have you tried asking them to keep the dogs from barking? Or do you have a local ordinance for it? Mine is very restrictive - like 5 barks in 5 minutes. And I've never called the cops for it (solved my problem with a polite email, after going insane from hours of it every single day for years...OK, it took a couple of emails over a couple of months), but I do know that if you call it in, they will pay a visit to the owners.
At some point I'm going to lose patience and talk to them, but I'm not optimistic it's going to accomplish anything. It's not like me talking to them is going to make them have a major epiphany like, "You know what? You're right! I AM sitting here watching my dogs bark at nothing for hours every day! I didn't realize that!" Which means I'm probably going to have to escalate it to someone who can compel these people to act like civilized humans, which means I'm going to have to waste time looking up noise ordinances and calling the landlord or the cops to deal with this shit. And all of this could be prevented by these idiots having the barest minimum level of self-awareness and consideration for others. As with most of life's minor inconveniences, what's more annoying than the thing itself is that some selfish asshole has compelled the people around him to either waste time and energy dealing with his bullshit or take it like a bitch.
 
At some point I'm going to lose patience and talk to them, but I'm not optimistic it's going to accomplish anything. It's not like me talking to them is going to make them have a major epiphany like, "You know what? You're right! I AM sitting here watching my dogs bark at nothing for hours every day! I didn't realize that!" Which means I'm probably going to have to escalate it to someone who can compel these people to act like civilized humans, which means I'm going to have to waste time looking up noise ordinances and calling the landlord or the cops to deal with this shit. And all of this could be prevented by these idiots having the barest minimum level of self-awareness and consideration for others. As with most of life's minor inconveniences, what's more annoying than the thing itself is that some selfish asshole has compelled the people around him to either waste time and energy dealing with his bullshit or take it like a bitch.
Yeah, it's futile. You're also risking perturbing their ego and then you'll have a mess of resentment on your hands. It's just how the culture is these days.
Then again, my neighbor finally told me she'd been listening to my car door squeak every morning at 7:00 for years and I had gotten so used to it. Within 10 minutes I greased it up, problem solved. I'm pretty embarrassed but happy I'm not bugging my neighbors anymore.
Anyway my father used to be a vet tech and he'd toss "loaded weenies" over the fence to stop neurotic dog behavior. Who knows what drugs he'd pilfered so it's not advice I'd give to anyone, especially because I'm sure it's illegal and potentially harmful. The dogs in the neighborhood always liked my dad though ha ha. He had them good treats.
 
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