To answer the question: no to the first, and yes to the second.
Disregarding the topic of Charlie Kirk, as I don't really know much about his beliefs, I do believe that, no matter what kind of vitriol is being said from some political influencers like Hasan Piker or Destiny, I do not believe either should be killed. Do they need some sort of wake up call? Sure, but being shot isn't what I want to happen to them.
On the topic of the second question, yes. As much as I find trannies insufferable faggots, I only wish nothing but the absolute best for them. They need to be better, not worse. Gravedancing and wishing violence for a group is the reason why the Civil Rights Movement was effective. Difference is, black people do deserve rights, while Trannies need to better themselves. Trannies do NOT need a victory, and I will kill myself 41% style in a future where trannies become a heckin' valid minority.
HOWEVER... I do believe people should be able to gravedance (NOT threaten, that is different). It's disgusting and immoral, yes, but if we tried to crack down on it, whats to say the other side, or even our side, decides to crack down on other types of speech like, lets say, criticizing Trump or the president after him? Trying to enforce rules saying "nuh uh you can't celebrate or joke about this someone's death" feels like an attack on the 1st amendment. Hell, we got ways to tell people who do gravedance that they are an asshole (emojis, replies, ETC.), So I don't know why we would have to ban gravedancing on different platforms (Bluesky, I believe, has done that, hence why I am saying this). But hey, maybe that is just me autistically thinking things too deep.
Essentially, no matter what, I feel people shouldn't kill others, even if one side nudges a "particular motive". I also don't believe people should gravedance, but instead of banning gravedancing, we just point and laugh and call them a bumbling retard.