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- Apr 16, 2025
My theory is that Ian used to have more control over her before, she was actually silent and even submissive at the start of their relation and from what she says Ian used to put his foot down a lot.Respectfully, before Anisa he never used to have this blatant intelligence drop.
Now if you say he was just covering it up and wasn't revealing it, then even so that means he was at least aware enough not to do it. Now he is completely demoralized and I don't know if I can blame Anisa for everything, but if we track when his content really fell off and he started to become depressed to the point of not making good content, all of that comes from this relationship. If i'm wrong i'd love to know when the content started to fail, because as I recall the internet collectively turned their head when he did the Onlyfans defense because that made no sense. And that was before he was married. So he has never been married to Anisa and made any of the content people liked. I am not convinced that just because he was "of that time period" he was totally a talentless hack who is no good at anything. If you go back and watch DSP from 10 years ago its the same phrases, the same level of competence, etc. But if you go back to Ian 10 years ago its not even the same league of aloof. He's at least there and doing the content competently in comparison to his contemporaries. He's regressed while with Anisa.
What i hypothesize caused the switch was two things: the Sam Hyde doc and the sex workers video, these two videos i believe were the things that broke him, Sam showed Ian he wasnt as smart, funny or manipulative as he thought and the sex worker video showed that his fanbase had no respect for someone that not only allowed his wife to whore herself out but was proud of it, his image and more importantly his ego was bruised beyond repair and he outsourced his life to Anusa because he couldnt cope with his failures, i guess the spiral is less painful for him if the one doing the shitty decisions is someone else instead of himself.