Science A Guide to Grooming (Or Not Grooming) Your Pubic Hair - What to know from maintenance, to ingrowns, to “full bush summer.”

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A Guide to Grooming (Or Not Grooming) Your Pubic Hair​

Pubic Hair, explained: If you have a bush — or your pubic hair is fully grown out — maintaining it can be an important part of your health and self-care. Here's how to prune your luscious bush.

Vogue said it’s back. Women’s Health called it the summer’s biggest beauty trend. Betchesnamed an entire season after it: “Bushkini summer.”

It’s official. Full Bush Summer is in full effect — especially now that lesbian reality television darling Gabby Windey proclaimed she wants hers wild, free, and lush.

While having a big bush has been a popular pubic hair style since time immemorial, “bush representation" has waxed and waned over the years, literally. In the early 1900s, after the advent of the razor, the campaign against body hair framed full bush, particularly for women, as unhygienic and manly. The pendulum swung back in favor of the bush in the 1970s, becoming the golden standard for the porn industry, with full-bushed nude models gracing the pages of popular adult magazines. After the golden era of the bush, the ‘80s through the 2010s beckoned in a long-standing trend of body hair removal. The low rise jeans of the early aughts were dawned by virtually body-hairless celebrities. It wasn’t until the mid-2010s that the rise of popular feminism beyond academic spaces encouraged people to grow out their body hair, including a short-lived trend of dying your armpit hair.

But now, we are so back.

Though let’s face it, for queer people, full thick body hair has always been in vogue, for the most part. There isn’t a stereotype about hairy lesbians for nothing. In part, that's because many queer people reject heteronormative beauty standards attached to gender like the idea that women need to be hairless. It’s fitting that a sapphic icon would officially usher us into the new golden age of the full bush.

Now that we’ve established the bush is back, we need to go over how exactly to maintain your bush to make it as lush as possible this summer. From shaving to trimming to ingrown hairs, we’ve got you covered. Read on for everything you need to know on how to style and nourish your bush.

How to shave down there

You might be wondering: why would a guide on bushes tell me about how to shave? For some people who have just begun their bush journey, or just feel unable to deal with so much hair, shaving or trimming a bit around the edges can make a bush more comfortable. If you’re going to do it, here are some tips on how to shave down there gently and safely:
  • Consider your tools. Whether you’re using an electric razor or a classic disposable razor, you’ll want to make sure that your tool is sharp and clean. Using a rusty old razor might feel convenient at the moment but can irritate your skin, is more likely to leave behind bumps, and overall make for a less comfortable shave.
  • Use shaving cream. You might think lathering up with soap will suffice but shaving cream is designed to create a smooth area for your razor to glide over. It can help you avoid cuts along the way.
  • Shave in the same direction as the hair. Following the grain of your hair can help you avoid ingrown hairs and razor bumps. Make sure to pull the skin tight and go with the flow of your bush.
  • If it’s feeling bumpy, consider waxing instead. While shaving can be an affordable option for folks, if you’re experiencing a lot of irritation, waxing instead can reduce razor bumps and the chance of ingrown hairs.
Again, it might be full bush summer, but sometimes, you might want to shape your bush a little bit, and that’s ok. Whatever style you choose is the right one as long as you are comfortable and, in the words of Alice Pieszeckii of the L Word, “bush confidence.”

How to get rid of ingrown hairs

Sometimes with great hair comes great responsibility. Ingrown pubic hairs can happen to anyone, whether or not you’re trimming or shaving. This irritation occurs when your hair gets trapped under the skin, blocking sebum, oil, and dirt along with it, which can sometimes lead to a skin infection. They often look like raised, discolored bumps around your genitals. If you want to address ingrown hairs, there are a few tips that can help:
  • Apply a warm compress. Sometimes, putting a war wet washcloth over the bump for 10 to 15 minutes can help clear it and make the hair come out.
  • Tweeze it. Similar to a splinter, sometimes ingrown hairs just need some help coming out. Tweezing it with a clean set of tweezers can help drain the area.
  • Scrub it gently. Exfoliating away the top layer of skin can help make the process of getting rid of an ingrown hair faster. Consider using a washcloth and warm water.
 
that “men prefer women without makeup” thing is definitely a meme
When most guys say that they like women without makeup, what they really mean is minimal makeup or makeup that subtly complements someone's features, not caked on or noticeable. Generally the guys who say this don't have sisters or women that are too close cause they would immediately be able to spot the difference between no makeup vs. minimal makeup.

I personally prefer women who never wear makeup, but I've only ever known one and I may have been influenced significantly into that opinion by how amazing she was.
 
It's hilarious some of you think birthrates would drop if women stopped shaving pubes. Guess what the rest of recorded history looked like before maybe the 1990s? Not a whole lotta pube free women.
 
This is facepalm worthy but if you need it explained consider what standing on tiptoes does to posture.

I don’t know, I am but a humble wammin. The menfolk got too comfortable around me during Covid when they could not see my judgmental face and now I am damned to hear “high heels are hot… but I’m not a foot guy!!” in the same tone as “no homo” :(
 
I am sick of hearing about the merits of artificial vs natural boobs and whether their latest dates were too skanky to be wife material or not :(
Never reply to me as if I'm one of these "friends" you have these conversations with. Fucking disgusting. Points for a total non sequiter response that still somehow talked about your vagina though. Woman moment for sure.
 
Never reply to me as if I'm one of these "friends" you have these conversations with. Fucking disgusting. Points for a total non sequiter response that still somehow talked about your vagina though. Woman moment for sure.
I’m confused about what you’re mad about. The fact that I hear men talk about boobies or the fact that I have a vagina?
 
Never reply to me as if I'm one of these "friends" you have these conversations with. Fucking disgusting. Points for a total non sequiter response that still somehow talked about your vagina though. Woman moment for sure.
this is literally a vagina thread my guy
 
So do most women have the same pube layout, and just shave it to keep a few parts?
When I hear full bush I think of the whole "over, under, and around the back" fur diaper situation. Is that the default?

Alternatively, is this like men and chest hair, where some have none, some have it in a few places, and some have a full carpet?
 
So do most women have the same pube layout, and just shave it to keep a few parts?
When I hear full bush I think of the whole "over, under, and around the back" fur diaper situation. Is that the default?

Alternatively, is this like men and chest hair, where some have none, some have it in a few places, and some have a full carpet?
GENERALLY the hair is an upside-down U-shape, with hair at the top (mons pubis) and down either side of the vulva. No hair on or near near the ass (generally). On particularly hairy girls, it will spread out on their upper thighs (bikini line). Most girls will have a few bikini line pubes that they shave, but some have a regular forest there.

The hairiest girl I ever saw, I fortunately never saw fully naked, but she had hair on her ass and thighs just like a very hairy man, and I found out later that she shaved her face and tits. She was a heartbeat away from sideshow freak though.
 
GENERALLY the hair is an upside-down U-shape, with hair at the top (mons pubis) and down either side of the vulva. No hair on or near near the ass (generally). On particularly hairy girls, it will spread out on their upper thighs (bikini line). Most girls will have a few bikini line pubes that they shave, but some have a regular forest there.

The hairiest girl I ever saw, I fortunately never saw fully naked, but she had hair on her ass and thighs just like a very hairy man, and I found out later that she shaved her face and tits. She was a heartbeat away from sideshow freak though.
Thanks for the clear answer. Vague talk and euphemisms get tiring. Especially when people are acting proud and confident.

The common pattern sounds alright, and I am relieved that it doesn't often go over the ass.
I suspect that women who complain that their partners "can't find the clit" keep their pubes full and it hides the view.

I want to say that hairy woman might have PCOS, but there could be other causes and I'm not a doctor. Going off Wikipedia, both hirsuitism and PCOS are decently common among women worldwide.

Also I know two Filipina women who went on separate social media rants about how men were bad because they didn't expect or accept breast (or nipple? I forget) hair.

hirsuitism
"Hirsutism affects between 5 and 15% of women across all ethnic backgrounds. Depending on the definition and the underlying data, approximately 40% of women have some degree of facial hair. About 10 to 15% of cases of hirsutism are idiopathic with no known cause."

PCOS
Affects "5 to 18% of women of childbearing age"
 
As men are hairier than woman, the less hair the more feminine, not to mention men being visual creatures.
On the other hand, if you are a short flat neotenous women you should really question why your partner is pressuring you to remove what little visual evidence of sexual maturity you have.
 
They like high heels more than I would have thought (why?!)
The theory is at least partially because they're supposed to raise the butt up because of the change in posture.

But also foot fetishes are a real thing and seem to have some sort of univeralistic, biological origin.

Foot fetishes are found in some form in basically all human societies, including pre-literate ones. (ie you can't blame it solely on social transmission)

The universal fetishes among men (gay and straight) in all cultures are penises, feet, chests and butts. Some cultures have culture specific ones (like India likes bellies for some reason), but those four appear in some form basically everywhere.
 
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