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- Jun 2, 2024
It's remarkably easy work and for the most part, troons 'n' poons are quite forthright about their suffering; I can often find 2-5 Ls per sub within about a 24-hour period, so there's much milk to be had. For those who also wish to hunt for their own Ls, these are the Reddits that I check on during my rounds for collection. (I don't check places like Twitter or Bluesky very often if just because they tend to be more image and short-form post-based, but you can find some serious Ls on there from time to time. Tumblr is also another option.)PS How deep do you have to dig for these posts. Do you need to dig through circlejerks about how amazing trooning out is, or is the misery right on top?
FOR TiFS/FTMs:
r/ftmr/ftmmen
r/ftmen
r/ftmover30
r/ftmover50
r/ftmventing
r/transmasc
r/gaytransguys
r/TMPOC
r/seahorse_dads
FOR TiMS/MTFs:
r/MTFr/straighttransgirls
FOR BOTH:
r/transr/asktransgender
r/trans4every1
r/nonbinary
r/truscum
r/transmedical
r/honesttransgender
r/transgendercirclejerk
r/gendercynical
r/translater
r/transDIY
r/transgenderUK
r/mypartneristrans
You can also always check subredditstats, which showcases user overlap between different subs. Here's the one for MTF, and the one for FTM, respectively.
(You may wonder, why are there more FTM subs than MTF? This is because MTFs have downright fucking infested just about every single sub out there and are therefore much more likely to be encountered in the wild, while the FTM subs remain some of the last bastions of borderline exclusivity for women. Ironic, no?)
Thread tax.
A tranny is bowled over learning that trooning out, as it turns out, is not considered information so top-secret that it requires a fingerprint, a retina scan and federal clearance for others to know about.
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Holden Coomfield: a teenage troon writes a post so fucking whiny and aggressive towards his parents, it would fit neatly into the works of JD Salinger, thus proving that regardless of age, transgender relatives make for some of the most insufferable kind. I'd take a hundred gossiping grannies over just one tranny kid!Today I learned that after I came out to my mum, she went on to tell the whole extended family that I was Trans.
I don’t care if I am told that the rest of my family are supportive of me. I don’t care if I am treated no differently from when I was when I was still closeted, I feel like I have a right to be pissed off.
I apologise to my mum if I wanted to be the one to tell everyone else, if I wanted to be the one to face any potential backlash, I’m sorry if I Wanted to wait until I was fucking ready to break the news to everyone else because I feel as though I hadn’t even fully come out to her yet.
So what if I, “Wouldn’t be able to cope with any backlash.” That’s not for you to decide, if I face backlash and can’t handle it, cool there’s something I need to work on. This was supposed to be my choice, my decision, to tell others when I was ready.
In fact ironically I feel worse knowing everyone knows and is treating me no differently, no one is asking questions, no one is wonder what I went through to get to this point, no one is respecting my preferred pronouns or my preferred name because now there is this unspoken rule where they’re just silently supportive.
And of course my mum doesn’t understand in the slightest why I would be the slightest bit pissed that she revealed my private business to people I was not ready to know.
And again I must reiterate, I learned this today, I learned this a few minutes ago, I am so fucking pissed. I made a post a few days ago saying that I want to come out to my mum again because I feel like I didn’t do it properly last time, WELL FUCK THAT GOT A LOT HARDER! I just… can’t believe that she decided to do this behind my back and not tell me until today because we got into an argument over LGBTQ+ topics.
I don’t know what else to think, I’m still processing what I just learned. I just can’t believe it.
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What would you like for your birthday, son?
I would like to be accepted by my own fucking family.
You claimed you would love me no matter what, but I guess it doesn't count if I'm actually me. You only love (deadname). You don't love me. You're scared of me. Threatened by me, even.
Or maybe you just don't like me because I'll, to quote you, never be a real girl, because boys are boys, and you can't change that. It's just nature.
You hate MAGA. Every part of it except for the anti-trans legislation. Did you know every piece of transphobic media you've been consuming is propaganda to paint us as either a trend that'll eventually die or as menaces to nature and to the God of Christianity? And did you know there have been scientific studies and datasets and bible experts that prove it all to be exaggerated at best and- more often than not- completely false?
For whatever reason, you don't like me. You just don't. You prefer (deadname). You can hate me all you fucking want. But I'm not going away. I'm never going away. I will only grow stronger. The embers of rage within me will burn brighter and hotter than ever. And before you know it, (deadname) will be gone.
And it will only be ME. Evelyn.
"Maybe that new Wooting keyboard? The 60HE v2? Thanks, Mom. Thanks, Dad."
P.S. I'm not a very good writer, nor am I very good at verbalizing my thoughts, so lmk if anything comes across weird, but I needed to vent. My parents claimed that they would "love me no matter what" and then force me back in the closet because they think I'm too immature and too late at the same time. They think I shouldn't be thinking about it, and that I'm confused and delusional. And it fucking sucks.
3 more years.
Edit: I made a post about this already. Thought I did it in r/trans, but nope, I did it here. Sorry(same topic, but different style)











