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Diana Moon Glampers said:
Hopefully the Sesame Place thing is something Sam's sister is taking Hannah to so the rest of Sam's friends and family can host an intervention.
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Jim Henson would be proud.
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The Judean People's Front said:
So then yeah they're at the Air B&B. She had said Sam's sister would be there to help with Hah-nuh. Because she also has kids, so why not also care for Becky's?

Imagine Daniel calling another woman a step-Mom. The REEEEE would be audible across the globe.
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She should get used to it, because if Daniel is actually cuffing a latina single mum, it's almost certain his new woman will be an infinitely better parent and stabilising presence in Hannuhh's life than Becky.
RisingPhoenix said:
I think this is more Bex at least being able to acknowledge this is good advice...that she's willingly going to ignore because she knows deep down this is a discussion she won't like the outcome of, and would likely lead to her having just Jackson again.
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The crazy thing is Becky has engineered pretty much the ONLY relationship situation where she's in the wrong to assume her partner is Ok with raising her kid with her.

If you're monogamous and you're dating someone raising kids, you have to accept that those kids are a part of your partner's life and plan accordingly. Becky is too enlightened for monogamy though, and it's not at all unusual for some poly slampig to have a stay at home punching bag and keep someone else around exclusively for fun dates and sex. For fucks sake, they met on fetlife and bonded over their shared love of his mommy issues. What part of their relationship ever gave Becky the impression he wanted to be a parent?
 
why is she so obsessed with Judaism? like she acts more like a stereotype rather than someone whose religious, whats next? Is she gonna talk like mort goldman?

and the few actual jews I know dont act like this, if anything (even though hes fucking neurotic as hell) the jewish guy I know acts relatively normal, and the other jew just says "Eh yeah, I just have it in my blood."
 
msd said:
why is she so obsessed with Judaism?
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It’s an identity costume she can put on without being called racist.

Do you guys think everything she wrote about Hannah’s birth is true or very exaggerated? I’m leaning towards the latter. Obviously all of those things can happen, but this is Becky.
 
Free the Pedos said:
Do you guys think everything she wrote about Hannah’s birth is true or very exaggerated? I’m leaning towards the latter. Obviously all of those things can happen, but this is Becky.
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Frankly, most of it sounded very ordinary. Told there would be nursery services and then the nurses tell you actually no deal with it yourself? I've literally been there, done that.

I would normally (obviously) want the baby in the room with me, but after my longest labor (over three days), I was truly exhausted, and terrified I would fall asleep and drop the baby. I just wanted the baby in a safe setting while my husband went back to the house to give the babysitter relief and keep things afloat at home. Once I explained that situation to the nurses, the nursery services magically reappeared and I got four blissful hours of uninterrupted sleep that felt absolutely heavenly.

Many of the other things she talks about are also very ordinary and she just didn't prepare for birth in any way so she didn't know. Hannah not crying when she was born by c-section is literally 100% normal. They need to suction the baby because usually what pushes the fluid out of the lungs is being pushed out vaginally. For a c-section baby, this doesn't happen, so they have to suction the fluid out of the airway. It's not dangerous (the baby is still getting oxygen from the placenta via the umbilical cord). It's normal! But if you have only ever seen TV/movies about birth where the baby always cries right away unless there's a big dramatic problem, it's probably terrifying and you probably think the baby was in real danger. They also often take a couple minutes to pink up. Every woman who has had a c-section has had this experience.

She overheard a nurse saying she was a moderate hemorrhage risk and panicked about that, because again, she has gotten all her birth education from films and TV, so she thinks that's some kind of death sentence. Learning about the many ways bleeding is managed immediately postpartum would have required actually being interested.

Husband getting up to see the baby while you're still under the drape is also normal, the idea is that the baby gets early contact with a parent while they do a few initial checks. Again, every woman who has had a c-section has experienced that. She wasn't "tied to six pieces of equipment" but probably was on an IV and a pulse ox and maybe a catheter, which can genuinely be a bit scary if you've never done it before but again...this is just what it is to have a surgical birth, or honestly any kind of open abdominal surgery.

She went in totally unprepared but also terrified of anything unknown. If you're going to go into birth unprepared and knowing nothing, you should just commit to the bit and accept what happens. It's worst of both worlds stuff to never crack a book or talk to other women about their birth experiences, then show up at the hospital convinced that every SOP is actually you or the baby being close to death.
 
Seconding @Diana Moon Glampers. Everything Becky describes is completely normal. Actual traumatic birth involves things like the epidural not working and feeling getting cut into during a c-section (I know at least two moms who had this experience) or the baby being whisked off to the NICU without telling the mom what’s happening. Stuff like that. Birth in general is extremely difficult and Becky apparently did zero prep for the experience. I am kind of curious about what she expected to happen.

Also, it’s currently best practices to leave the baby in the room with the mother. Nurseries technically still exist, but most people don’t want to let their baby out of their sight and it’s also just better for the baby to be close to mom, especially that first night.
 
salt said:
Seconding @Diana Moon Glampers. Everything Becky describes is completely normal. Actual traumatic birth involves things like the epidural not working and feeling getting cut into during a c-section (I know at least two moms who had this experience) or the baby being whisked off to the NICU without telling the mom what’s happening. Stuff like that. Birth in general is extremely difficult and Becky apparently did zero prep for the experience. I am kind of curious about what she expected to happen.
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Woman that hates other women and refuses to engage with them outside of accepting their generic complements has no idea what it's like being a woman beyond anecdotes she reads online. Hmmm.
 
msd said:
why is she so obsessed with Judaism? like she acts more like a stereotype rather than someone whose religious, whats next? Is she gonna talk like mort goldman?

and the few actual jews I know dont act like this, if anything (even though hes fucking neurotic as hell) the jewish guy I know acts relatively normal, and the other jew just says "Eh yeah, I just have it in my blood."
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I’m religious and her ridiculous LARP is what got me posting here in the first place. She had her extramarital boyfriend bring her a Taco Bell breakfast with bacon on Yom Kippur, which is an extremely important, holy day of fasting and atonement. The most MATI I think I’ve ever been about her. For her, Judaism is about complaining and being oppressed and not in any of the actual practice or culture.
 
salt said:
I’m religious and her ridiculous LARP is what got me posting here in the first place. She had her extramarital boyfriend bring her a Taco Bell breakfast with bacon on Yom Kippur, which is an extremely important, holy day of fasting and atonement. The most MATI I think I’ve ever been about her. For her, Judaism is about complaining and being oppressed and not in any of the actual practice or culture.
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I'm not even Jewish and I would have been offended on how blatantly she desecrates Judaism.
 
msd said:
why is she so obsessed with Judaism? like she acts more like a stereotype rather than someone whose religious, whats next? Is she gonna talk like mort goldman?

and the few actual jews I know dont act like this, if anything (even though hes fucking neurotic as hell) the jewish guy I know acts relatively normal, and the other jew just says "Eh yeah, I just have it in my blood."
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Because growing up in the US we’re taught that the holocaust is THE premium tragedy, I’m pretty sure Becky mentioned her father being Armenian (also genocided) but for some reason none of the other genocides make the list in our current education or in Becky’s mind. Jews, in her view, carry the most victim points and are the one religion of white people that doesn’t get mocked (til recently anyway) the way Catholics and Christians etc are mocked. Tons of special holidays to accommodate when she was in the work force. I also wonder if it has anything to do with Mama Gerber’s inheritance. Plus it allows Becky to constantly fight with zionists and she gets to act like the victim when she does decidedly un-Jewish things like eat pork and lobster on the holy days. It’s the same maximum grift as a “trans man” who only wears skirts and dresses and constantly talks about getting fucked in her lady bits. She does it to make everyone mad lol.
 
For me it's when she says "Gods" - pretty sure everyone who knows anything about Judaism knows its a monotheistic religion. Furthermore one of God's primary tenets in the Old Testament is to acknowledge Him as the one true God, above all others. Worship of other gods is considered a grave insult to Jehovah.

Remember this is the God who kills people for touching a holy place, you don't want to be on His bad-side. The fact that beck does not understand or practice this shows how little she actually knows about her religion.
 
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Hungry Wes Borland said:
Agreed you guys zeroed in on exactly what motivates Becky re: her Judaism but I wonder if she consciously calculated it or just implicitly recognized it's the most "victimized" (and difficult to enter as an outsider, its own form of victimization) identity she could glom onto. So curious how her mind operates sometimes.
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Besides being the most impacted person of all time, Becky is nearly as bored. She doesn't raise her baby. She doesn't play her games. She doesn't take care of her house.

Becky
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Her entire existence is based around performing for social media. The more spaces she can insert herself into, the more interactions she can farm. It becomes exceedingly easy to understand her when you realize she's basically leftwing MAGA. "Is someone paying attention to me? Is someone mad? GOOD." There is no part of her life she isn't willing to make worse if it means a few equally happiness adverse troons on Bluesky click the heart icon.
 
Hungry Wes Borland said:
Agreed you guys zeroed in on exactly what motivates Becky re: her Judaism but I wonder if she consciously calculated it or just implicitly recognized it's the most "victimized" (and difficult to enter as an outsider, its own form of victimization) identity she could glom onto. So curious how her mind operates sometimes.
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I dont think she is capable of the self awareness and introspection to make a calculated decision like that tbh.


It's the "Gods" that gets me the most MATI about her religion larp too. Monotheism is kind of the core foundational tenant of all the Abrahamic religions and if you dont follow it you literally can't call yourself a Jew/Muslim/Christian
 
Nothing new this AM - at least she's not suicide-bait tweeting while at Sesame Place with her daughter (like she's done on multiple occasions at Disneyland).

rusty shackleford 1 said:
her father being Armenian (also genocided)
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Her Dad is Albanian, not Armenian. Which it too bad for her; she'd love to claim that Genocide too.

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On Reddit, Becky is posting in r/raisedbynarcissists because why not now claim her Mom Munchausen-by-proxy'd her?
 
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The Judean People's Front said:
On Reddit, Becky is posting in r/raisedbynarcissists because why not now claim her Mom Munchausen-by-proxy'd her?
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I was going to say that Becky posting on r/raisedbynarcissists is ironic but honestly i think most women posting in shithole subreddits like that are probably just as mentally ill as the Beckster

Most of the posts are just attention seeking and creating narratives about what a poor vicitm you are the same way she does
 
VargReallyDidNothingWrong said:
I was going to say that Becky posting on r/raisedbynarcissists is ironic but honestly i think most women posting in shithole subreddits like that are probably just as mentally ill as the Beckster

Most of the posts are just attention seeking and creating narratives about what a poor vicitm you are the same way she does
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Fellow lolcow Dave Muscato also regularly comments on /r/raisedbynarcissists. I'm sure subreddits like that start with good intentions but mostly devolve into a hugbox for mentally ill people to convince themselves they aren't the problem.
 
A. G. Peak said:
Fellow lolcow Dave Muscato also regularly comments on /r/raisedbynarcissists. I'm sure subreddits like that start with good intentions, but mostly devolve into a hugbox for mentally ill people to convince themselves they aren't the problem.
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Yeah all of those "other people ruined my life" subreddits/threads/resources attract narcs and BPD nutjobs like a dumpster attracts blowflies, they allow them to weave flights of fancy and get the dopamine hit of engagement and support and never experience any pushback (that's toxic).
 
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