Theres something truly disturbing about the "toxic therapy language" Ian uses in his video, and in general.
"I feel like" "That makes me feel" "I hope you get help" "You should try".
Its just so extremely fake, manipulative, condescending and misguided. He might as well have made the whole video using giraffe language.
Its an extremely feminine way to argue, and the male equivalence of the way some women uses a baby voice.
I have no problem with therapy in general, but it baffles me how some people completely lack the mental fortitude and personality to engage in therapy, without letting it dominate their personality and world view. He can only copy and mimic what he sees and hears in his sessions, not reflect and grow.
Also the way he flew out to some YouTube psychologist, only to sit and cry during their first encounter disturbed me greatly.
He has been deteriorating for years. How weak is he, or is it Anisa who buck broke him, and is weighing him down over the years?