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Oh, come on—we know this "objectively progressive" workplace is definitely the place for that, but only if you subscribe to a specific set of progressive beliefs. The people who keep quiet are keeping their heads down because they want to keep the peace, and their jobs.I work for an objectively progressive company, and most of the people I work with are either very supportive or just very quiet about their personal beliefs, which I appreciate because work is not the place for that.
And how, pray tell, did the tranny coworker find out that she's a "vehement transphobe," and voted for Trump? Because apparently that is not something she talks about, or acts upon, at work. I mean, she's still there, working at that "objectively progressive" workplace, and getting along well with co-workers.When I first started there, I made friends with a few people who work in different departments from me and I really enjoyed their company. One girl in particular was always really nice and she has a sense of humor. I liked joking around with her. However, recently I learned from a trans coworker of mine that she's a vehement transphobe, who believes we're mentally ill, and that she voted for tRump for that reason. I was devastated by the news and didn't want to believe it, but I confirmed with a few other queer people I work with and it's true.
So there's a good chance the tattletale troon is outright lying, and other queer people at work only know she's a TERF and a Trump voter because the troon told them so, as a means of sabotaging her.
Or maybe he social media-stalked her, found something that didn't accord perfectly with genderwoo, and has blown it up into her being a TERF and a Trump voter.
Or, shit, maybe everything the troon said is true—but he didn't find out about it directly from her, at work, because in a hyperprogressive company like that, she'd either be out of a job, or she wouldn't be friendly and joking with anybody.
Your coworker is, apparently, a functional, emotionally mature adult, who understands how to get along with others. Unlike you.For a while I just avoided her because I felt hurt. Not necessarily betrayed - I know better than to believe that being friendly with coworkers is equal to being friends - But I felt really angry that she'd bothered to talk to me at all. I'd rather she have just remained polite and curt and not tried to have playful conversations with me.
And if she hadn't talked to you, and you hadn't had a chance to like her, you'd be snivelling about how she gave you the cold shoulder for being trans.
"Personally, I prefer to try to be nice to everyone—"Personally, I prefer to try to be nice to everyone (although I'm human and obviously have my moments). And I've been trying really hard to remain friendly with her, even though I still feel hurt.
AND SO DOES SHE. And apparently, she does a really good job of it, because she's said and done nothing whatsoever to set you off. You only see her as the enemy because somebody else told you to.
You know who you should be mad at? The shit-disturbing tranny who gossiped to you about a female co-worker (likely out of envy), and thus disrupted a perfectly pleasant and workable relationship between co-workers. Why would he do that? That is toxic behavior. And you have no idea what she actually thinks, only this troon's word for it.After all is said and done though, I just get angry again. I'm glad I know this, but sometimes I wish I didn't because before, I was able to fully enjoy being her acquaintance at work. On top of that, I know other people feel the same. Some of my queer coworkers are just as friendly with her while knowing the full extent of her beliefs, and they seem to be just as sad about it as I am.
You don't know a goddamned thing, because you haven't asked her what she thinks, and heard it from her directly. Somebody in your cult has told you what to believe about her, and you assume it's true. For all you know, it's a lie, but you won't even try to find out.I know I shouldn't give this girl the time of day. I know she doesn't respect me or really want my friendship.
I wouldn't want your friendship either, if you're this weak-minded, and such a crybaby.
I'm an old cat lady who lives in an extremely blue area, and one thing about liberals/progressives in a place like this is that they assume you are one of them unless you inform them, by whatever means, that you're not. If they like you, and see you acting in a kind and benevolent fashion toward approved targets (such as animals), you automatically must be one of them. They never stop to consider that you might not be.People who really are transphobic hide it really well to avoid getting fired,
So they're always shocked to the core when a person they like, who they see as good and moral and thus one of them, turns out to be a TERF, or a Trump voter, or anti-masking/lockdown/jab. This pooner's reaction to hearing that her friendly co-worker, who she liked, is a "transphobe" and Trump voter, and her roiling mess of mixed emotions about it? This is what afflicts every lefty when confronted with the fact that someone they really like, and who has been nothing but decent, holds the "wrong" beliefs.
So as long as I don't slip up and tell them what I really think, lefties will continue to assume I'm one of them. They'll even mentally skim over a minor faux pas now and again, with no problem—until they know the truth, and then they'll be like this girl and say, "Oh wow, there were so many red flags!"
They don't know what to do with good people who turn out not to be part of their tribe, except decide that they're really just bad people, despite all prior evidence to the contrary. And they'll perform all kinds of insane mental gymnastics, and engage in crazy denial of their previous feelings in order to do it.
Anyway, as for the troon who claims to have been assaulted by some crazy rando at a bus stop, there was an assault in the area he was in on April 14, according to the Halifax crime map,. Also, in the Halifax subreddit he got a lot of sympathetic responses, including somebody who drove past the scene after it had happened and saw the cops and an ambulance. So he's not lying (at least not about anything but being a woman).
