Women and teenage girl fetishizing gay men all the time, "cis" gay men. Ever read a fanfic with m/m ship? They don't behave like gay men at all. Ever read a sex scene between two men in fanfiction? Do you think the girls/women who wrote it had done research on gay sex? Is that why the men do anal so much in fanfiction and enjoy it like pros when in real life... It's not exactly like that? (I once saw an actual gay man asking why fanfic writers are so into anal sex between teo men when in real life, talking from experience - it is not all that great?). The trans man said he wanted to be the man's "women" and to be impregnated? Ever heard of mpreg, uke and seme, the omegavese? Seriously, take it as affirmation.