A lifelong Republican transitions to a new party, years after gender reassignment surgery
Associated Press (archive.ph)
By Brynn Anderson
2024-10-22 23:11:25GMT
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., stands with an AR-15–style rifle at her home in Omaha, Neb., on Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2024. "If you say that guns are only meant for killing people, then all of mine are defective because they have never done that. And I pray to God they never do," says McGrath. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Joe Pick, left, Jessie McGrath, center, and Karin Waggoner, right, cheer when Democratic vice presidential candidate, Tim Waltz, speaks during a debate watch party in Omaha, Neb., on Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath holds a pistol after shooting at a gun range with her friend in Omaha, Neb., on Thursday, Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath, right, and Michael Marcheck, walk out of a gun range in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath, shows Michael Marcheck, the proper way to hold, load and shoot a gun while standing in her kitchen before going to a shooting range, Oct. 3, 2024, in Omaha, Neb. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
“The Trump campaign and his history show he is no friend of trans people,” she told The Associated Press.
McGrath grew up on a family farm in Max, Nebraska, a rural town in the state’s southwestern corner that was home to just 149 people in 2022, according to Census data.
Jessie McGrath stands in a soy bean farm in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
She struggled with her gender identity as a child. Growing up in a conservative, religious household, she turned to prayer to calm her inner turmoil. But it only served as a temporary fix.
Her mother died in 2011, and when her step-father died three years later, she returned to Nebraska to clean out their home. She was 53 and experienced an intense bout of gender dysphoria as she sorted through her mother’s makeup and clothes, remembering how she used to dress up in them as a child.
Jessie McGrath sits with one of her children at her home, talking about lunch plans for the day in Omaha, Neb., Sept. 29, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., applies makeup and prepares for the day by plucking her eyebrows in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
That inspired her to go online to find information about people who had gone through with gender reassignment surgery at her age. She joined an online forum that helped her work through her thoughts and feelings. By the end of the year, she knew that she was transgender and wanted to transition physically.
Jessie McGrath drives near trees in a corn field in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Several months later, in April 2015, while at her parents’ farmhouse in Max for an estate sale, she sat with family members to watch the interview in which former Olympian Caitlyn Jenner told journalist Diane Sawyer, “I’m a woman.” McGrath believes that helped her family get a better understanding of what she had been through and where she was going.
Jessie McGrath walks out of the women’s bathroom at the Nebraska State Capitol in Lincoln, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Over the last 10 years, she’s had countless therapy sessions, doctor’s appointments, two major surgeries and hours of electrolysis to get rid of facial hair.
“One thing that hasn’t happened is any form of regret over my decision to transition,” she said. “I have never looked back and asked, was this the right thing to do?”
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., takes an injection of estrogen in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Even as she transitioned, she still identified strongly with Republican policies.
“My youngest son asked if I was going to become a Democrat,” she said. “My kids all got a big laugh when I told him that while I was willing to make some changes in my life, I wasn’t going to do anything as dramatic as that.”
But when she moved back to her native Nebraska from California last year, she registered to vote as a Democrat. This year, she was a delegate to the Democratic National Convention.
She plans to vote for Democratic Vice President Kamala Harris.
Jessie McGrath, center with hat, cheers as she attends the Democratic National Convention as a delegate in Chicago, Aug. 19, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath adjusts her LGBTQ+ pride flag hanging from her homes front door in Omaha, Neb., on Sunday, Sept. 29, 2024. “I’m getting involved in the political process and trying to raise awareness of the issues facing the trans community. ... I’m meeting with members of the community to discuss how we can make things better.” (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath talks to a transgender teenager along with her mother, who is a member of the Rainbow Parents of Nebraska in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Veteran deputy district attorney in Los Angeles Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., works from her home in Omaha in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
A collection of political buttons fill a board at the home of Jessie McGrath in Omaha, Neb., Sept. 29, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Fabric and leather belts, top, and ammunition, bottom, sit on shelves of Jessie McGrath's closet in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Ashley Swartz, left, gives Jessie McGrath, right, a tour of Swartz'a farm in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. Swartz has been a transgender farmer in rural Nebraska for most of her life. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath looks out to a field of corn during sunset in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Associated Press (archive.ph)
By Brynn Anderson
2024-10-22 23:11:25GMT
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., stands with an AR-15–style rifle at her home in Omaha, Neb., on Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2024. "If you say that guns are only meant for killing people, then all of mine are defective because they have never done that. And I pray to God they never do," says McGrath. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Joe Pick, left, Jessie McGrath, center, and Karin Waggoner, right, cheer when Democratic vice presidential candidate, Tim Waltz, speaks during a debate watch party in Omaha, Neb., on Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath holds a pistol after shooting at a gun range with her friend in Omaha, Neb., on Thursday, Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
- Jessie McGrathI grew up around firearms and have had guns my entire life. In the army I was a unit supply clerk/armorer.”
Jessie McGrath, right, and Michael Marcheck, walk out of a gun range in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath, shows Michael Marcheck, the proper way to hold, load and shoot a gun while standing in her kitchen before going to a shooting range, Oct. 3, 2024, in Omaha, Neb. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
“The Trump campaign and his history show he is no friend of trans people,” she told The Associated Press.
McGrath grew up on a family farm in Max, Nebraska, a rural town in the state’s southwestern corner that was home to just 149 people in 2022, according to Census data.
Jessie McGrath stands in a soy bean farm in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
- Jessie McGrathYou can take the girl out of the farm but can’t take the farm out of the girl.”
She struggled with her gender identity as a child. Growing up in a conservative, religious household, she turned to prayer to calm her inner turmoil. But it only served as a temporary fix.
Her mother died in 2011, and when her step-father died three years later, she returned to Nebraska to clean out their home. She was 53 and experienced an intense bout of gender dysphoria as she sorted through her mother’s makeup and clothes, remembering how she used to dress up in them as a child.
Jessie McGrath sits with one of her children at her home, talking about lunch plans for the day in Omaha, Neb., Sept. 29, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., applies makeup and prepares for the day by plucking her eyebrows in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
That inspired her to go online to find information about people who had gone through with gender reassignment surgery at her age. She joined an online forum that helped her work through her thoughts and feelings. By the end of the year, she knew that she was transgender and wanted to transition physically.
Jessie McGrath drives near trees in a corn field in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Several months later, in April 2015, while at her parents’ farmhouse in Max for an estate sale, she sat with family members to watch the interview in which former Olympian Caitlyn Jenner told journalist Diane Sawyer, “I’m a woman.” McGrath believes that helped her family get a better understanding of what she had been through and where she was going.
Jessie McGrath walks out of the women’s bathroom at the Nebraska State Capitol in Lincoln, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Over the last 10 years, she’s had countless therapy sessions, doctor’s appointments, two major surgeries and hours of electrolysis to get rid of facial hair.
“One thing that hasn’t happened is any form of regret over my decision to transition,” she said. “I have never looked back and asked, was this the right thing to do?”
Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., takes an injection of estrogen in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
- Jessie McGrathFor me, transitioning was the most difficult thing I have ever done but it has also been one of the most rewarding things I have experienced in life. I have absolutely no regrets and I have no desire to go back to being the sad and miserable person I had become prior to my transition.”
Even as she transitioned, she still identified strongly with Republican policies.
“My youngest son asked if I was going to become a Democrat,” she said. “My kids all got a big laugh when I told him that while I was willing to make some changes in my life, I wasn’t going to do anything as dramatic as that.”
But when she moved back to her native Nebraska from California last year, she registered to vote as a Democrat. This year, she was a delegate to the Democratic National Convention.
She plans to vote for Democratic Vice President Kamala Harris.
Jessie McGrath, center with hat, cheers as she attends the Democratic National Convention as a delegate in Chicago, Aug. 19, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath adjusts her LGBTQ+ pride flag hanging from her homes front door in Omaha, Neb., on Sunday, Sept. 29, 2024. “I’m getting involved in the political process and trying to raise awareness of the issues facing the trans community. ... I’m meeting with members of the community to discuss how we can make things better.” (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath talks to a transgender teenager along with her mother, who is a member of the Rainbow Parents of Nebraska in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Veteran deputy district attorney in Los Angeles Jessie McGrath, 63, of Omaha, Neb., works from her home in Omaha in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
A collection of political buttons fill a board at the home of Jessie McGrath in Omaha, Neb., Sept. 29, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Fabric and leather belts, top, and ammunition, bottom, sit on shelves of Jessie McGrath's closet in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 1, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Ashley Swartz, left, gives Jessie McGrath, right, a tour of Swartz'a farm in Malmo, Neb., Oct. 2, 2024. Swartz has been a transgender farmer in rural Nebraska for most of her life. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
Jessie McGrath looks out to a field of corn during sunset in Omaha, Neb., Oct. 3, 2024. (AP Photo/Brynn Anderson)
- Jessie McGrathI knew from a young age that I was different. But in the 60s and 70s, we really didn’t have a name for it. ... I was able to block it out for long periods of time, or so I thought.”

