One of my coworkers is a “swinger”. He would tell us (when it was just the guys working together) about all the degen shit he’d get up to, both on his own and with his girlfriend.
She ended up coming back to work with us a few months ago and I had to put the stuff he told me out of my mind when I’d have face to face conversation with her. She even told me about some things they were going through due to his sexual degenerate nature (edit: not good things; relationship-trouble-causing-things related to unchecked sexual behaviors) which doesn’t surprise me but it’s all just an over sharing problem. I work with you people. Unless it’s just banter and guys chattin shit, I don’t need to know anything about what you’re doing at night, especially when now I can put a face to the stories.
Thread tax: I don’t understand why people can’t just keep their bedroom habits in the bedroom. It’s a big part of Balldo’s problem too; he couldn’t compartmentalize his personal life away from his “online career”; he really wanted to cultivate and go after that “parasocial” fan base experience and now it’s biting him in the ass because all the stuff we laugh at him about…is stuff he’s voluntarily shared about his personal life. We haven’t had to go trawling through old social media profiles/posts to find the milk. He just serves it up, whenever he deigns to be just not-drunk enough to stream.
