This was mentioned a few pages back, but I can't remember if the article was posted or just tweets about it, so imma not give you clocks.
Even if we play along with the gender nonsense, sex toys are still largely designed for one set of genitals or the other. A fleshlight does me, a woman with a vagina, absolutely no good, unless I want to play Chinese finger trap. Even a ftm with a faux penis isn't going to be using one.
Likewise there are toys meant for women that are useless for penis
or amhole havers. It's just the way our bodies are made.
Biology 100% rules this roost, middle school, university, grad school, or otherwise.
If you want to argue about
marketing - color schemes, boxes that say "for women/men" - that's a different battle. But a man will never be able to use a bunny vibrator properly. Cry, seethe, dilate mad about it.
