>cisnormativity
>these "problems"
HONK MOFO. Well adjusted people who are perfectly fine with the fact that they were born that way will never be not normal. That's somehow a problem.
It's even linguistic, in terms of the meaning of the prefixes cis- and trans-.
Obviously these terms are ancient, and predate the transgender ideology by thousands of years. Trans- is used all the time in English, but one of the most notable ways cis- is used in English is in geography.
For example, with Cisalpine Gaul, in what one would now call Northern Italy, it refers to the part of Gaul that's on the same side of the Alps as Rome. Or Cisplatina Province in Brazil, which is named for being on the same side of the Río de la Plata as the rest of Brazil.
Transnistria is the land "beyond the Dniester River," or "on the other side of the Dniester River." The Transvaal Republic in Boer history of South Africa was the land on the other side of the Vaal River.
If cis means "same" and trans means "other," with respect to your gender headcanon either being the same as your real sex, or different from reality, then you could just as easily say that cis means "normal" and trans means "abnormal," or "mentally ill." So-called cisnormativity is embedded in the language.