Sean Andalou
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I use that feature, but I never post about troons over there even though I snag troon stuff for posting here.In convinced Reddits new “hide post history” feature was created by trannies for trannies so that other people can’t see the delulu stuff the regularly post.
I do it to keep my tech support separate from my politics.
Back on track now.
Radical re-definition of the concept of "fetish".
Again .
Reddit -- Archive
TLDR: Boy mom.
From the day she found out my sex, while I was in the womb, she had already mapped out my entire life. To be a handsome strong man, to be popular with the ladies, to be sexual, to be a father figure.
Growing up she would use extremely inappropriate language manifest her fantasy onto me. Talking about my genitals like they're a status symbol, about being a womanizer, about awakening my sexuality. It's actually pretty confusing, because she would sometimes uphold healthy boundaries between us, but the next day sexualize me to hell and back. Like making a "joke" about my dad taking me to a brothel and glory holes. I don't know what her goal is.
She has also, unfortunately, done some things that I can only describe as incestuous. Like groping me repeatedly, calling me her man, making a joke (which sounded an invitation to me) about kissing her on the lips, looking at my groin, and honestly much worse things. Why did I have to be the one pulling back and assessing my boundaries? I was just a kid.
When I came out as trans, she wanted none of that. It would shatter her fantasy immediately. She was never ever going to listen to what I (or my psychiatrist) had to say. She continues to tell me to this day that I will destroy my life, make a fool out of myself, and to stop before it's too late. She has been making me feel guilty, but most of all, just incredibly anxious and depressed. As I grow older, she tries to compromise. "You can be gay without being trans" (even though she thinks being gay is an abomination). She's actively losing it.
I'm saying all this in text to ground and remind myself why she isn't a credible person. I know she sounds terrible in this post but in real life she looks and acts pretty normal. That's her way to manipulate my feelings and my opinion of her. I'm trying to stop it. But it's hard.
From the day she found out my sex, while I was in the womb, she had already mapped out my entire life. To be a handsome strong man, to be popular with the ladies, to be sexual, to be a father figure.
Growing up she would use extremely inappropriate language manifest her fantasy onto me. Talking about my genitals like they're a status symbol, about being a womanizer, about awakening my sexuality. It's actually pretty confusing, because she would sometimes uphold healthy boundaries between us, but the next day sexualize me to hell and back. Like making a "joke" about my dad taking me to a brothel and glory holes. I don't know what her goal is.
She has also, unfortunately, done some things that I can only describe as incestuous. Like groping me repeatedly, calling me her man, making a joke (which sounded an invitation to me) about kissing her on the lips, looking at my groin, and honestly much worse things. Why did I have to be the one pulling back and assessing my boundaries? I was just a kid.
When I came out as trans, she wanted none of that. It would shatter her fantasy immediately. She was never ever going to listen to what I (or my psychiatrist) had to say. She continues to tell me to this day that I will destroy my life, make a fool out of myself, and to stop before it's too late. She has been making me feel guilty, but most of all, just incredibly anxious and depressed. As I grow older, she tries to compromise. "You can be gay without being trans" (even though she thinks being gay is an abomination). She's actively losing it.
I'm saying all this in text to ground and remind myself why she isn't a credible person. I know she sounds terrible in this post but in real life she looks and acts pretty normal. That's her way to manipulate my feelings and my opinion of her. I'm trying to stop it. But it's hard.
The mother doesn't want her boy to be a eunuch so he gets a psychiatrist to help gaslight.When I came out as trans, she wanted none of that. It would shatter her fantasy immediately. She was never ever going to listen to what I (or my psychiatrist) had to say. She continues to tell me to this day that I will destroy my life, make a fool out of myself, and to stop before it's too late. She has been making me feel guilty, but most of all, just incredibly anxious and depressed. As I grow older, she tries to compromise. "You can be gay without being trans" (even though she thinks being gay is an abomination). She's actively losing it.
Top comment (792 upvotes)
My mom was the exact same way. Gave me a lot of weird feelings years later realizing how emotionally incestuous it was and how it made me internalized alot of my own self worth based off of her sexual preferences. It's gross and obviously not okay.
I cut my mom off years ago, it sucks but it had to be done.
Excerpt further down in comments:
More radical re-definition.Cishet parents do infinitely more sexual grooming of children than any other category. ...
Raising a boy to be a man == "grooming".
Another:
When people use boy mom online as a term they’re generally referring to mothers who make it their entire obsession and personality that they’re the mother of a boy(s). Mothers who genuinely care for their children regardless of their gender aren’t what’s being talked about here, so you don’t need to feel bad.
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