More excuses
Can I play online with someone in the USA? Sure, but their early evening is going to be my midnight.
So? Find someone in the US working a graveyard shift. Again, you've got timezones all across the globe between Australia, Europe, and the US with people working all sorts of schedules.
Do I want to be running a game at three in the morning? No.
I never said run a game at 3 in the morning. Run it when it makes sense for you to be running it, and find people who fit that schedule.
So we can take out five days of the week, and now I'm looking for people to play with on a Sunday or Saturday afternoon
Well no shit? Friday evenings, Saturdays, and Sundays are when most people can find some time to play. You aren't special being busy during the week.
What you're doing is dismissing every factor that makes it difficult and saying I'm "making excuses". No, I'm saying that all these factors compound to the point that there are a lot of people who struggle to get a group together and to keep that group consistently gaming.
Because is IS a bunch of excuses. With something like 40k or another miniatures game, all you've really got as an alternative to playing in person is tabletop sim, and frankly it fucking sucks in addition to pretty much eliminating the hobby aspect. TTRPGs don't have this problem and there's been multiple VTTs around for years now that people have been using.
Even when you have got a group together as adults, it's routine that you miss that weekend slot because now two people can't make it. But sure, that's "making excuses".
No, it's called being an adult, realizing shit comes up, and then re-scheduling or just skipping a week. My group just skips the end of November and the entirety of December due to people being busy during the holidays and traveling. It's not an issue.
I'm not discouraging anybody from trying. I'm not saying I wouldn't try.
Seems to me like you want to just keep coming up with excuses not to try, like having to play at 3am to play with people in other timezones as if the entire planet only works bankers hours. I never said the shit was easy, I even said it can take years. But if you never even start, or even try then you'll never have a group.
I mean, you say yourself it's taken you years to get to this point. And you seem to have the geographic advantage on your side to boot. So what's so implausible that during these years of getting there, people might watch others play? That's how we started off. I said they might, you said people wouldn't want to because they'd game instead.
Geographic advantange? You've got an entire fucking planet to filter out trannies, people who can't speak the same language you do, and find people willing to play at the time you want to play. Where you're located means fucking nothing so long as you have an internet connection and a computer that can run a VTT.
First you said it was the same as a video game on Twitch. I pointed out the very significant reasons it ain't. Now all these factors are "not impossible". Never said they're "impossible". But they're significant and they pile up. If my argument is really so troublesome to you (for reasons I do not understand but seem to be you reading what I say as "excuses" for me not being able run a consistent group with people I enjoy gaming with), then we could do it empirically. We could see if any other people in this thread struggle to keep a group together and gaming consistently. If somehow I am not alone in this, then maybe reality beats your assertions.
I know there's people in this thread who can't keep a group together worth a shit. I never said there weren't. Congratulations, you've bested me over a point I never made. All while apparently ignoring what I said about a play group formed literally IN THIS THREAD and that they were recruiting another player just the other day implying that most of the table managed to stick together and the guy doing that recruitment for that group isn't posting here making excuses about why he can't find a game... he's doing the work to recruit people so he can have a regular table just as I'm saying you can do.
edit: And since you seem to have missed this right at the top of the page, here's what I'm talking about.
Gentlemen, I am once again putting out the call. I snagged a player from this thread many moons ago, and it worked out great. I am going to be running another PF1e game starting in the new year. It will be set in the same semi-homebrew setting as the other campaigns I have mentioned in this thread. It will primarily be about fighting demon cults and delving the setting's equivalent of the Underdark. We're shooting for Tuesdays at 7pm CST. If you're interested and/or have any questions, you can DM me or just ask them here and I'll do my best to answer them.
Update: We have found our fifth player. Thank you, gentlemen.
This is a guy literally doing what I said is possible to do, here of all places, and not making excuses of why it can't happen.