You're an actual moron. I watched the same video and just from her speech patterns alone you can tell she's short a full deck of cards. If you would fuck someone this noticeably handicapped, you should feel ashamed of yourself and anyone irl would tell you the same or outright call you a fucking creep if they knew about it.
If the woman you're sleeping with is someone you'd be ashamed to admit to in public or to friends, you're doing something wrong. If you tried to tell me you would sleep with this girl and be totally cool with being seen with her or even brag about it, I wouldn't fucking believe you.
I'm thinking that guy might be joking, but there is a large minority of men who are extremely opportunistic.
The type of guys like Styx who need an impressionable girl with fresh eyes, naivety, no frame of reference, or mature boundaries.
If you've ever worked with people with profound cognitive disabilities, you know that a good support structure (Family, a therapist, a case manager, etc), financial support, and a safe home environment are extremely important in keeping them healthy and out of jail day-to-day.
The fact that Tarl is still squatting in Mel's home informs my belief that a few things are happening:
- Mel's parents don't care or are desperate for her to elope with a man so they can fully disengage.
- Without new sources of income, Tarl is coercing Mel to pay for his lifestyle.
- Tarl's consistent history of becoming hyper-aggressive after consuming enough alcohol to black out means Mel has likely already experienced violence.
Abusive men like Tarl don't change when they meet a new woman; he's met his new woman, and I bet Mel is hopelessly stuck with him until the police can surgically extract Tarl from her life.
That's why, whether Nikki has good intentions or not in communicating with Mel, Nikki is more likely to create a 'Tarl and Mel vs the World' mentality between the two of them.
Tarl gets to frame Nikki as an abusive ex or as part of a larger group who beat him, extorted him, ruined his career, and that they are coming after them both now; he's probably got Mel to swear an oath of secrecy already.