- Joined
- Mar 11, 2017
I skipped the Stunning and Brave ep, didn't seem interesting from what I read. Just a transsexual who got fat and no ridiculousness. Did I miss out on anything?
A lot of folks have been boring this season. Maybe I'm spoiled; I'm only entertained when they're fat AND crazy.
I'm about to watch Hy-Jean. It sounds like a crossover with the grosser people of Hoarders and reminds me of Shay.
I saw the Destinee episode. I didn't think it would be tumblr personified and it wasn't. But when I was binging deathfats on Youtube I came across that one and at the time it was the latest episode. I didn't know at first that Destinee was a he. I thought the face was off at first. Then when he started talking my troondar was immediately pinged. Also he is pre-op. His inability to work isn't just weight related. He complained that he had issues at work like being forced to use his birth name even though he was allowed to use the women's bathroom. Imagine that waddling into the bathroom and whipping it out in a tiny stall, ass banging against the door, huffing and puffing because standing up is an ordeal when you weight over 600 lbs.
He wasn't as bad as some of the other people who lack the motivation at first. But like most of them he cannot control the cravings. I guess because I am normal I don't understand why you just can't occupy yoursef with something else when you know you shouldn't be pigging out. These people don't have hobbies other than watch TV, go online and eat. And all those things allow you to sit on your ass. Destinee was still mobile enough to get some exercise in. But he just sat around all day harassing his sister for food.
His life story was sad. And his brother who he was very close to died from complications to surgery. Destinee blamed himself for not being mobile enough to get up and check on him. So I was surprised that Destinee was eager to go under the knife himself. But it was life or death here.
What Destinee was afraid of was losing his identity as a big woman and losing his boobs.
If you saw the troobs in question they were not very much like real breasts. They were more like typical flapjack moobs that were pushed up into cleavage. Whatever he grew from hormones was obviously not much and the bulk of them, in my assessment, were really just deathfat moobs. The deathfats on that show who have big tits don't look like that. But then again they are real women.
Destinee's troobs are constantly falling out of his slutty tops. It was too the point where they were hiked up so high to get cleavage that I thought we would end up seeing a blurred out "female presenting nipple" (fresh grown breasts are blurred out in a pre surgery scene). When they are going to Houston they are seen at a horrifying angle jiggling like flans ready to tumble out of their cups. They are hiked up really really high and destinee has to drive kinda leaning sideways because he doesn't really fit into the van.
If you are curious about the bra, it ain't no miracle bra. Destinee wears a dirty, damaged old sports bra throughout most of the show. At one point you see it from the back and it is stained and has pulls in it. It is likely from being too small as well as being ancient. He doesn't care when it is showing at all.
He wears slutty whore clothes to the doctor with fat jiggling everywhere. He's walking around dressed like a obeast stripper. Which isn't surprising considering his reason for becoming a tranny in the first place. First Destinee came out as gay. Then he decided that since he looked like a girl he should try on wigs. He thought he looked cute so he tried on dresses. Then he decided to start his transition. Sounds like an autogynephile to me. You like how you look in the clothes? You dress inappropriately to see the doctor? Dirty old sportsbra showing all the damn time.
Destinee's dream is to lose enough weight to fully transition. He also wants to start a family. I suppose he is still into men because he said he came out as gay before deciding to become the stunning and brave woman that he is now. There's no detail given as to how he wants to accomplish motherhood. But I am going to assume it will be something like adoption and he is not dumb enough to think that he can have babies once he gets the 'ol chop.
Destinee is biracial with a white mother and black father. He talks about how when he was a teen he tried to reconnect with his father who rejected him and said he wasn't his son because he didn't like masculine things like sports and didn't look like him. Shortly after that his father died. The mother's family disowned her for having biracial kids. If you want the episode the mother sounds really black herself and if you didn't see her face you'd never know she was white. Only two siblings wanted anything to do with Destinee after he started to transtion. The younger sister and the brother who died. So along with his mom he doesn't have much support.
He's got this weird looking sectional couch that I initally thought was made of repurposed car back seats. Man is it ugly.