- Joined
- Nov 11, 2019
Nate stated when he and J* started talking apparently that he has a fetish for effeminate men who wear women's clothing. In every relationship there are rough patches and attraction can temporarily wane, especially after you've been together for years.A lot of relationship stressors are directly due to money. If someone is flying you everywhere, paying for food and luxuries, etc, your relationship will go far better, as there is less to worry about.
I don't claim to know anything at all about Nate and J*'s relationship, but it's not hard to see why Nate would stick around even if he didn't feel attraction towards him.
Having money also doesn't make for less stress in a relationship. It just allows for other types of stress to creep in, like one partner working too much, etc. Of all the things to criticize about J*, his relationship with Nate seems the least viable thing to go for. Besides the banging other people, which they do together it sounds like, there's not really been much outward indication that either is unhappy with the other.