🗑️ Trashfire StyxHexenhammer666 / Tarl Warwick - Oddball Occultist Neckbeard (who can make some interesting content) + his many scorned exes

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It reminds me of young people trying to decide where they're going to go to college and allowing the price of weed in a given area to influence their lifelong decision. You don't want to plan your life around weed.
She does, though, because it seems like she's deep into the weedbro lifestyle and wouldn't be comfortable anywhere where she was disconnected with that lifestyle. She'd have to say goodbye to her few remaining friends and learn how to make new friends in order to let it go now. In a tiny place like Rutland, even if you try to dump all your friends, you're still going to see them from time to time, just in the course of daily life, and most of them will still sell you weed.

Especially with her job at the convenience store, she probably interacts with a dozen people a day who she's smoked weed with before, who would sell her weed or just smoke her up out of misguided weedbro friendship.

It's not going to be as easy for her as "Have you ever considered not smoking so much pot?" I mean, she COULD do it, it's not impossible, but she'd have to really want it, and it's clear she doesn't. If she'd like to stay in a failure to thrive holding pattern, she's entitled to do so, and lots of people do. It's not like we're talking about the next Microsoft CEO here or something. It's Nikki. Being gainfully employed and adequately housed and partnered is at the top of her skillset. We really shouldn't expect more than that from her imho. Just understand, if you send her money, some of it's going to support her weedbro lifestyle.

Edit:
I have decided not to press charges against Nikki. I do not know if the state intends to do so. I am moving on in life.

That's a really good idea. First rational thought you've had in a while. Nothing good would have come to you from pursuing it.
 
Holy fuck guys, this woman is in her forties and is putting weed ahead of everything. Her life goals? To grow weed.
I could see all this wonderfully helpful advice helping someone in their late teens/early twenties but she's middle aged. She's not going to change her vices now without something significant, like a health scare.
How much are you spending on weed right now Nikki?
 
Could you, like, go get a job and earn a living like everyone else has to?
She has a job, minimum wage, but 40 hours non the less. She was forcefully evicted from her residence (Tarl's house) because she popped him in the kisser. She's just asking for a little help because Tarl currently has possession of her property. $5k isn't much, and I'll throw something in there at some point over the next couple days.
 
I'm gonna throw out a defense of weed. I'm a pothead, but as long as you aren't socially smoking like kids in HS, or funding someone else's habit, a dub or an eight will last a week. That's $10-30 dollars for a little reprieve. I'm a pothead, but I know when I can smoke, and not fuck with business I have to do. I see it like asking someone to stop drinking coffee, it's a habit, part of a routine, and while it can be detrimental, trying to change that routine would be equally stress inducing. Provided she's just smoking a bowl in the evening after work she should be fine (and as long as she doesn't have broke friends coming over to smoke her stash, like Tarl).
I think at this point being as straight laced as possible is the way to go but I understand the little reprieve thing. These particular circumstances are pretty rough and I think some anxiety along with a clear head is going to be more helpful though. I'm a little biased because like @mickrussom I really can't stand weed either.

I think the harder thing to quit is going to be nicotine, it's all well and good to say, "Just stop smoking" but doing it is another thing. For some people just going cold turkey is a thing they can do but for others it's not really an option. Best alternative to that would be to get a a small salt nic vape with the fillable pods. They cost about 40 bucks, bottle of juice another 20 and it'll last a month or two if you don't suck on it all day. I don't know how expensive cigs are in rutland but if you're doing a pack a day than 60 bucks for the entire month is an easy workaround. You also won't stink, which goes a long way to being as straight laced as possible. That being said since I'm a degenerate I bought a disposable "Mr. Fog" for 30 bucks like a month ago and that fucker has lasted me a month, I can't speak to other disposables though.
 
I have decided not to press charges against Nikki. I do not know if the state intends to do so. I am moving on in life.
That sounds like a man who is no longer dying.

Stay off the sauce.
Get on some testosterone TRT, daily shots, 10mg, cypionate in MCT.
You might make a man of yourself yet.

The reality is is that pressing charges is costing you money you dont have, and that is the purpose of the jewdicial system, to take every last fiat unit from poors.
 
Right? Contrary to popular belief, people do get addicted to the devil's lettuce. And those that do seem to have really shitty, chaotic, unproductive lives. They also seem to all be very defensive and protective of their addiction - refusing to believe it could possibly have anything to do with their continued "bad luck." 🤔

It's an addiction like gambling. It's not a physical addiction. You can get behaviorally or emotionally addicted to anything really.
 
She has a job, minimum wage, but 40 hours non the less. She was forcefully evicted from her residence (Tarl's house) because she popped him in the kisser. She's just asking for a little help because Tarl currently has possession of her property. $5k isn't much, and I'll throw something in there at some point over the next couple days.
Good point of view.
If she take the charity, and moves forward, and bootstraps, all is good. If the wheels fall off, she isnt going to try and double dip. She will survive. She is a survivor. I think giving a few alms for those who were abused by Tard deserve a little help to scrape themselves off the doormat of the Newstory/Women's shelter where Tard has dumped at least 10 other women, he is known to Newstory as a serial dumper.
 
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