i completely reject the notion that this telegram group isn't tuned into the idea of how unfriendly a place the internet these days seems to be. if we didn't have that front and center in our minds, we'd all be sticking to our respective circles of friends, and we wouldn't organize open-invite "come one, come all, we're all furs, welcome, everything's okay" munches.
20:20
that's why i love all you guys here so much.
T
20:36
That_One_Wofie
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20:37
Long talk!
20:37
Ahhhh
T
20:39
Tamino
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20:39
i think poly is sort of a natural state for a lot of furs. i know it feels natural to me cuz it's like a wolf pack.
20:41
it's also really easy in a poly relationship for things to be going well and then suddenly going not so well. and i guess i'd say, don't wait until you actually hit a tough part, arm yourself with knowledge and skills *beforehand* so that you'll be able to better recognize when the hard parts are going to come, and you'll have some strategies for dealing with them.
BT
20:43
Birthday This Sunday!
To be honest i dont like any sort of poly relationship including those with master/pet stuff
T
20:43
Tamino
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1587613379 used to be the book about polyamory that everyone recommended. i know there's other books out there now, but i still honestly like that one because it's kind of lighthearted and doesn't make it seem like you need a ph.d to be able to do it.
BT
20:43
Birthday This Sunday!
Makes me feel like im not enough for the person and i already feel like im not enough for anything so just having it in a relationship is the last thing i want
T
20:43
Tamino
it's not for everyone. if it's not for you, that's okay.
BT
20:44
Birthday This Sunday!
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Trader Lenny, the forgetful scholar. Leader of the biscuit Brigade in service of the Church of Dadbod
Like piles of paper on fire as the sprinkler is soaking everything and he is nonchalantly walking away with a flamethrower from BORE company and the alarms are screaming and the lights are flashing and as he walks by his bosses office he is is like "Fuck you, I quit!.
there's a couple of furs in texas that are having a rough time financially right now. i figured i'd share https://www.gofundme.com/5op5pp4 if anyone felt like chipping in.
i know it's not bay area related, but these are people i care about a lot and i know a few other people on this group know and care about them too.
It’s still slow, I do have a few friends in this community but kind of still feel alone When I went to a couple of fur meets my introverted side kicked in and wasn’t able to convey who I was and make more friends
Yea mostly been alone, in my room, playing games or reading
HT
11:02
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
Hm
11:02
I've mostly been at home lol
T
11:02
That_One_Wofie
Same here. I learn to enjoy things outside as if it only,happens once.
KW
11:02
Kaiser (Calm) Wolf
You see when it comes to being introverted and I am with large crowds, I cannot process and everything becomes a blur so I have to leave and be by myself to calm down and recharge
HT
11:04
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
Like it overloads you?
TL
11:05
Trader Lenny, the forgetful scholar. Leader of the biscuit Brigade in service of the Church of Dadbod
Well it’s my own function that doesn’t allow me to process things as well. And when I try to explain something I have a hard time conveying what I’m saying
S
11:09
Shopoke Bropoke (Kypoke)
I thought it was kinda fun but not my usual kind of game
Stick around until you feel this isn't your place or keep trying new fandoms.
11:32
You can also be here and in other fandoms.
T
11:33
Tamino
kaiser also organizes furmeets, which is kind of like saying "maybe this community isn't perfect, but i can help make it better". which i respect a lot.
I, like some peeps, was on a treasure hunt for non-alcoholic drinks
HT
02:23
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
hm
T
02:24
Tamino
hm?
HT
02:34
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
Nothing
02:34
Anyway
02:34
I just cleaned up my desktop
02:35
Kinda wish I had a macbook with Mojave so I can try that stacks feature
02:35
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Here's my desktop
02:35
and one of my wallpapers
T
02:37
Tamino
what is the wallpaper a picture of? i guess if i were more clued in to different asian character sets i'd be able to figure out what country it's in, but i'm not that clued in!
HT
02:37
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
IIRC Japan
02:37
I can give you his twitter account he does these sorts of stuff
T
02:39
Tamino
i don't need it! was just curious if you knew.
HT
02:40
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
Ah
02:40
Cause Currently the photographer is in Korea
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02:41
So im not purely sure if it was shot in Japan
T
02:45
Tamino
they're both pretty!
HT
02:49
H̵a̴r̷u̸d̵o̷ The Otteryeen
Yep
02:49
I love it tbh
02:49
Gives me that feeling of Nostalgia but modern
T
08:26
That_One_Wofie
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08:27
I honestly do not expect anyone to be up at this point. Just because I know how sleepy things can get. Lol
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Also I drew this late at night too. Pretty sad looking, but I like it.