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It's also worth noting that, sadly, women in general find more supporting and welcoming receptions because of a number of reasons - cultural norms, white knights, biological tendencies towards protective attitudes on the opposite gender, etc. Men, historically, "can't be abused" and should just "suck it up" - and even when we logically know all of that is bullshit, upbringing and custom is a powerful thing to try to change.