Although I think it's progressing in a healthy place because we're encouraging each other to work on ourselves rather than becoming dependent
S
15:54
StarForce/Kaiser🐯🐲
I'm kinda too dependent
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so, I'm pretty much a failure
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BW
15:54
Brownie Wotter
Like honestly I got back into game dev and music writing just because of his encouragement. And not in a dependent way. I just really needed someone to let me know that what I did was important
To put it simply, he was like a strict teacher that knows my social skills are poor and sets really high expectatinos for me to improve my social skills
Omg like I was Europe I use growlr no shame, I was talking with different guys, never had sex or anything but I got accused trying to hook up
BW
16:02
Brownie Wotter
I don't know how to feel about making friends anymore. I haven't been active socially because I've basically given up on it, even though my almost-bf really doesn't want me to. We're going to plan on going to a meetup together or something
S
16:02
StarForce/Kaiser🐯🐲
oh and the guy that drove me to and back told me to say "fuck you" in front of my parents saying that I am an adult and I can do whatever I want
So I’m 28, didn’t have much direction in my life nor initiative, I moved back from the Bay Area cause of losing a job, my mom came from LA to come back home and I agreed to live with her and pay all the bills
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If you must know I am a black guy lol in my family it is very hard to express opinions
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My mom shuts me down
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I refuse to ever speak on opinions to my sister because she’s a bitch
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For example the whole BLM shit
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When the news of it arose, we were listening to it on the radio, I was like ok yes while our lives matter , so does everyone else’s
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She got upset at me because I don’t believe that our race matters over others
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We all matter we all want to live
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And as a result of that I don’t speak my feelings because they won’t listen.
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And I’m glad I have my family of friends because they are a blessings I can talk and be myself without feeling judged
Well there's two types of love triangles, the poly kind and the "x loves y but y loves z" kind
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16:28
That_One_Wofie
Oh well
D?
16:29
Daze 🇿🇦
To be honest, I /really/ don’t understand polygamy. It’s like having one mate isn’t good enough for you and you’re just like “Ah well, at least Person B can give me attention”. :p
S
16:29
StarForce/Kaiser🐯🐲
by the way, in my friend's love triangle, one pair is married
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they are poly
D?
16:29
Daze 🇿🇦
Not to mention all the unnecessary responsibilities that come with it
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I mean
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I mean there are people where one mate isn't enough for them. And it's nothing to be ashamed of
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16:31
Caudamus
I think a strong version is “Loving one person doesn’t have to diminish your love for other people”
D?
16:31
Daze 🇿🇦
Yeah that’s what bugs me most
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Deleted Account
I can’t wait to get home and pass the fuck out.
C
16:33
Caudamus
I think the part that resonates with me most is "be honest with who you love and when" -- there's something deeply authentic about being able to just say what you feel on the inside.
Kinda related, I'm a little nervous about asking my prospective bf for an open relationship. I feel like that's important to me but he might value the commitment side of it
