<2022-09-06T03:09:20.000Z> stormyxdreamers attached file https://i.poastcdn.org/c8f788809b5a3c8ad72bc970ee9bd879c404f4fd575e294e9ff340fe17ad5c15.jpg
<2022-09-06T03:10:24.000Z> elftummy: Very cute, thank you :thumbsupkonata:
<2022-09-06T03:15:42.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Thanks ☺️
<2022-09-06T03:20:07.000Z> elftummy: people can be pretty rude on fedi; it's best just to play along and be rude right back lol. Don't take it to heart; you do look good as is. And if you need advice putting-on weight lemme know - I'm an experienced architect :smug10:
<2022-09-06T03:24:58.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Lol I am an expert at gaining weight 🎂 
<2022-09-06T03:25:20.000Z> elftummy: Glad to hear it :)
<2022-09-06T03:25:44.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I would rather not keep gaining though lol
<2022-09-06T03:26:31.000Z> elftummy: That's fair. Everyone finds their limits eventually. 
<2022-09-06T03:27:42.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Trolls gonna troll though and I am new to poast but not new to the internet so kinda laying low til I get my footing
<2022-09-06T03:28:39.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I am pretty healthy...no diabetes or heart disease or anything...just overweight by most standards 
<2022-09-06T03:32:24.000Z> elftummy: That's great to hear! I have yet to date an overweight woman who did have those issues, though the fears of such often come with the territory.I've been lurking poast since the beginning and this is my second acct. Took a while before I gave up caring what others thought and have since been open about my "proclivities"
<2022-09-06T03:42:05.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I like skinny dudes ...I feel like a hypocrite but I can't help what I find attractive 
<2022-09-06T03:43:08.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I love the Kermit and miss piggy meme I posted....so real 
<2022-09-06T03:44:02.000Z> elftummy: No it's not hypocritical. I'm fit but I'm sickened by super fit women. Does that make me a hypocrite? 
<2022-09-06T04:11:56.000Z> stormyxdreamers: No not really lol
<2022-09-06T04:12:55.000Z> elftummy: Everyone's got their preferences. I support everyone who isn't a pedo or a race mixer :)
<2022-09-06T04:15:25.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Same.
<2022-09-06T04:19:01.000Z> elftummy: Glad to hear it!
<2022-09-06T04:21:03.000Z> elftummy: if you ever change your mind about gaining let me know :)
<2022-09-06T04:29:57.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Would like to see your pic 
<2022-09-06T04:32:53.000Z> elftummy: Nice try fbi, but I'm way too paranoid for that hahaha. The last time I had any photos of myself online was 2015 and those are long deleted 
<2022-09-06T04:36:59.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Lol no worries....actually what would you suggest for a woman to gain more weight? Anything other than food?
<2022-09-06T04:40:56.000Z> elftummy: Perhaps if we get to know each other better I'll be more open.As for the question: obviously eating more is the easiest way, but there are other factors to consider, like exactly what you're eating as well as when or how often you eat. To maximize weight gain, I've found that it's best to eat two big meals - one at the start of the day right when you wake up and one just before bed, with no food in between except maybe a snack around lunchtime, and plenty of high-cal drinks.Does that make sense? 
<2022-09-06T05:06:29.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I almost do that lol I don't eat in the morning or all day at work but I binge eat at night. I prefer to drink water though...I live in the desert lol well milk also...my two favorite drinks, water and milk ...I don't like the way sugary drinks feel on my teeth haha
<2022-09-06T05:16:35.000Z> elftummy: Binging at night is great. I can't stand soda either. Do you like those fancy coffee drinks?The reason why it's Important to only skip lunch and not both breakfast and lunch is because if you skip both then the fasting usually works against you, if you only skip breakfast, binge for lunch, then you can't binge as much for dinnerBut binging for breakfast and then waiting to binge for dinner gives you plenty of time to digest it all and actually be hungry for dinner 
<2022-09-06T05:18:58.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I can only drink one coffee  drink in the morning or I get jittery and feel anxious and it's an awful feeling really...one is just enough to make me alert
<2022-09-06T05:19:16.000Z> elftummy: Plus, I'm not sure if you're the same way, but I can't eat at work. When I'm working I just wanna do all my work and get it done. 
<2022-09-06T05:19:57.000Z> elftummy: Ah I see. The only drug I do is caffeine. I'm addicted to the bean juice lol so I'm more acclimated to it 
<2022-09-06T05:20:08.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yep I hate eating at work....unless it's a potluck or pizza party 
<2022-09-06T05:21:07.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I used to smoke lots of weed but had to quit due to drug testing at work ...I actually don't miss it
<2022-09-06T05:22:09.000Z> elftummy: Once a month I will take my office out for a fun excursion and there's usually food there. Last outing we went to the range and afterwards to barbeque. 
<2022-09-06T05:22:16.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I also don't typically eat breakfast cuz I don't give myself enough time to eat in the morning....I'd rather  sleep as late as I can lol
<2022-09-06T05:25:35.000Z> elftummy: I do the same thing lol. My office is 5 minutes from home, I typically start work at 10 so I don't roll out of bed until 9:50 unless I have something important that morning.If you're actually interested in purposeful gaining and not just asking about it for my benefit then it may be worth it to start waking up earlier. This regime worked every single time I've tried e
<2022-09-06T05:29:50.000Z> stormyxdreamers: On weekends I eat a big breakfast cuz breakfast is so good when you have time to enjoy it...obviously I make breakfast for dinner sometimes
<2022-09-06T05:32:29.000Z> elftummy: Yes! life is hardly worth living without breakfast for dinner!!! 
<2022-09-06T05:35:23.000Z> stormyxdreamers: 🍳🥓
<2022-09-06T05:38:48.000Z> elftummy: I'll never turn down some cracker barrel. Do you have them out in the desert? 
<2022-09-06T05:39:36.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yep sure do. I love their cheesey potatoes yum
<2022-09-06T05:42:27.000Z> elftummy: They're pretty great. Have you heard of Cicis? 
<2022-09-06T05:44:31.000Z> stormyxdreamers: No
<2022-09-06T05:44:54.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Wait?! CiCi's pizza?
<2022-09-06T05:45:12.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I prefer Little Caesars pizza 
<2022-09-06T05:47:29.000Z> elftummy: Little Caesars is a much better value but few know this lmao. And the crust is better. 
<2022-09-06T05:50:27.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I love their sauce too
<2022-09-06T05:50:36.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I'm hungry now lol
<2022-09-06T05:52:07.000Z> elftummy: The worst part about covid crap is that so few things are open late anymore. If they're still open you should get some! 
<2022-09-06T06:22:22.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I just ate leftovers
<2022-09-06T06:24:20.000Z> elftummy: That's great! You should never go to bed hungry
<2022-09-08T04:02:35.000Z> elftummy: Greetings friend, how's your week going so far. It's hard to believe we're already half done but I guess the holiday threw everything off. 
<2022-09-08T19:05:36.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yes and I took Tuesday off so now it's Thursday....I am sorry I missed this msg. I did not get a notification. 
<2022-09-08T19:10:37.000Z> elftummy: It's all good. I rarely get notifications either unless I'm at my desk 
<2022-09-08T21:00:38.000Z> stormyxdreamers: How's your day? I am looking forward to Payday tomorrow lol
<2022-09-08T22:02:59.000Z> elftummy: It's going pretty well so far. Payday is always great. What sort of job do you work at? 
<2022-09-09T00:08:32.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I am a counselor for the seriously mentally ill 
<2022-09-09T00:11:52.000Z> elftummy: Oh that's very interesting. Are you practicing on poast? Hahaha 
<2022-09-09T03:25:15.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Been practicing on Twitter for a decade
<2022-09-09T03:26:31.000Z> elftummy: I think there's probably way more here with serious mental illness, but I still prefer the folks here to the ones on twitter
<2022-09-09T03:32:00.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I do like it here....reminds me of old Twitter tbf
<2022-09-09T03:32:44.000Z> elftummy: Yeah those were the days.
<2022-09-10T02:12:21.000Z> elftummy: It's finally the weekend!!
<2022-09-10T02:21:02.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yes!!! And I already spent my entire check lol
<2022-09-10T02:22:03.000Z> elftummy: oof I'm sorry
<2022-09-10T02:32:10.000Z> stormyxdreamers: No it's fine...I got bills paid and groceries and then fun stuff for me and my kiddos
<2022-09-10T02:34:11.000Z> elftummy: It still sucks to spend it all as soon as you get it.
<2022-09-10T02:43:07.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yeah true 
<2022-09-10T02:44:09.000Z> elftummy: I've been there, I know how it is.
<2022-09-10T02:50:55.000Z> stormyxdreamers: How was your day? Big plans for the weekend?
<2022-09-10T02:53:05.000Z> elftummy: Fridays and Mondays are always super busy. I've got a concert I'm seeing on saturday but otherwise I'm going to try to relax
<2022-09-10T22:04:00.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I love the fight happening lololol you all aren't wrong about kinochet 
<2022-09-10T22:04:52.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Not that I hate him or anything but they are all too invested in Ralph 
<2022-09-10T22:07:27.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Personally I enjoy random content...variety 
<2022-09-10T22:15:53.000Z> elftummy: They haven't been relevant in 6 years they should have taken the chance to disappear.If we don't gatekeep then poast will be ruined like so many websites and forums in the past 
<2022-09-10T22:22:31.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I think there can be some coexistence....which will likely mean ppl need to block and ignore on both sides
<2022-09-10T22:25:41.000Z> elftummy: Yeah coexistence is fine, that's what the fediverse is about, but they need their own instance.
<2022-09-10T22:49:04.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Yeah makes sense lol
<2022-09-13T02:51:31.000Z> stormyxdreamers attached file https://i.poastcdn.org/ef82374ed89472e94f7a7c190555ec51aaab9e09e0aef7ec391de0cf28830741.jpg
<2022-09-13T02:52:36.000Z> elftummy: :love: Looking good!
<2022-09-13T02:53:49.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Thank you 😊 
<2022-09-13T02:54:55.000Z> elftummy: I love those lil stretch marks. You should show them off more often. :devilheart:
<2022-09-13T03:00:33.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Awwww lol 
<2022-09-27T04:54:00.000Z> elftummy: How's it going? :)
<2022-09-27T05:09:18.000Z> elftummy: you're really good lookin don't let anyone tell you different :devilheart:
<2022-09-27T05:25:03.000Z> stormyxdreamers: Hi thank you
<2022-09-27T05:26:28.000Z> elftummy: 👌🏻 how've you been doing? 
<2022-09-27T05:26:43.000Z> stormyxdreamers: FYI I ate a whole box of chocolate covered oreos the other night but I felt bad about it...guilty
<2022-09-27T05:27:07.000Z> stormyxdreamers: I'm good...I am going to msg you from my other acct though