<2021-04-28T18:38:16.000Z> rainbowbridge: Hey, man. Don't let the blackpill mentality win. It really starts with your energy-- it sounds silly, but it's true.
<2021-04-28T23:04:11.000Z> PunishedLenny3@varishangout.net: i have energy, horny energy, even when i come back from a long day at work, physical labor, im still horny af, but not chad enough to get any thots' attention, but oh well, at least you try to encourage others and thats better than nothing 
<2021-04-28T23:36:09.000Z> rainbowbridge: That's not the energy I meant.
<2021-04-28T23:38:05.000Z> rainbowbridge: Horny energy is actually repellant to thots that you have to suppress to score. The energy I mean is that of passion for your career/financial/artistic pursuits. Women are often suckers for potential and tending to a man working on something. Motherly trait, you know. 
<2021-04-28T23:42:35.000Z> rainbowbridge: As someone who used to live as a woman and am now a guy who dates women (oddly with success), it's hard to give guidance and tell someone how to get a girl. There's no guarantee, as everyone is unique and has their own charms that they need to recognize. Keeping her, though? I have all the advice in the world.
<2021-04-29T02:14:47.000Z> PunishedLenny3@varishangout.net: i know youre gonna hate me for being pessimistic, but theres guys in prison who get female guards pregnant>passion for your career/financial/artistic pursuitsthen autistic guys should have women all over them >Horny energy is actually repellant to thotsyeah ive heard that before: only when you dont want a relationship will women start to notice you, what a goddam catch-22man im just tired, its all so tiresome  https://varishangout.net/media/f4f9d687-e3e9-48e7-b5f0-d110d7cd4bee/1497160948257.jpg
<2021-04-29T02:18:12.000Z> rainbowbridge: It is, but don't lose hope. Being pessimistic is fine as long as you don't lie down and rot. 
<2021-04-29T02:22:29.000Z> rainbowbridge: I know three autistic guys in wonderful relationships. I used to date an autistic guy. Again, that passion for your future doubles as the illusion of "working on yourself without interest in a relationship", but it works for only a certain type of girl. Believing in the worst can sometimes keep you there. False hope isn't the answer either, but there is value to taking it easy and just working on something, complimenting a girl while she isn't just being nice for her job.