<2021-04-13T00:47:15.000Z> lewdthewides: hey, if anyone start mercilessly bullying you for going against the grain, just let me know. You're alright with me
<2021-04-13T01:12:18.000Z> acacia227: thanks mate, i appreciate that
<2021-05-03T10:18:17.000Z> acacia227: do you know what happened to @sinistrality?
<2021-05-03T10:19:20.000Z> acacia227: his account appears to not be loading for me :(
<2021-05-03T11:23:35.000Z> lewdthewides: I'm not sure who he is. It's showing as deactivated, so any number of reasons. Could have also deleted it himself
<2021-05-03T11:43:50.000Z> acacia227: i really hope not. that makes no sense
<2021-05-03T11:44:18.000Z> acacia227: i talked to him 4 days ago, then he disappeared and didn't say anythingh for 4 days 
<2021-05-03T11:44:36.000Z> acacia227: now his account is gone? why would someone do that?
<2021-05-03T12:25:22.000Z> lewdthewides: Don't really have any answers for you, unfortunately. He joined during wyatt's shit, so maybe because be was a suspected troon starting shit or we found out they were underage
<2021-05-03T12:27:01.000Z> acacia227: he told me he was 18
<2021-05-03T12:37:27.000Z> lewdthewides: Then I'm not sure. We don't really keep track of what happens to new accounts during these influxes we have. They must have attracted attention somehow if he didn't delete the account himself
<2021-05-03T12:48:58.000Z> acacia227: this really sucks, because i really need to talk to him urgently. and i can't check wyatt's thread on twitter because he got banned. i suspect some other admin may have deleyted his account to spite me
<2021-05-03T12:53:35.000Z> lewdthewides: I wouldn't assume we did it just to spite you. How urgent was it?
<2021-05-03T13:03:44.000Z> acacia227: more urgent than anything else in my entire life
<2021-05-03T13:08:46.000Z> lewdthewides: I don't have an email anymore, so I dunno what to tell you :/ I also saw they were exchanging nudes with other ppl, so that's a huge liability concern for us. That's probably why
<2021-05-03T13:09:21.000Z> acacia227: he sent me nudes too lol
<2021-05-03T13:09:37.000Z> acacia227: i didn't know that was againt site rules
<2021-05-03T13:10:10.000Z> acacia227: you sure you don't have an email?
<2021-05-03T13:14:15.000Z> lewdthewides: No, I didn't see anything. I'm sorry. I don't think it is against the rules, but I hope you can understand how hosting images of nudes that can't be reverse image searched is a huge concern. 
<2021-05-03T13:15:07.000Z> acacia227: yeah, i understand
<2021-05-03T13:15:16.000Z> acacia227: this is fucking horrible :(
<2021-05-03T13:15:40.000Z> lewdthewides: Especially since you said they were 18. Romeo and juliet laws don't apply to sexting in the US, I don't think
<2021-05-03T13:15:45.000Z> acacia227: i have to find him, he's the only guy i have ever talked to in my entire life who is perfect for me
<2021-05-03T13:16:01.000Z> acacia227: i have beenb searching for over 10 years online for a guy like him
<2021-05-03T13:16:35.000Z> acacia227: i will never find another guy like him. nobody else has ever met my minimum dating criteria
<2021-05-03T13:16:58.000Z> acacia227: if i don't find him, i will never he happy for the rest of my life
<2021-05-03T13:19:04.000Z> lewdthewides: It's easy to create accounts. If they felt thee same way, they will find you from another instance
<2021-05-03T13:19:12.000Z> lewdthewides: Sorry :(
<2021-05-03T13:19:40.000Z> acacia227: he said he would go on a date with me too
<2021-05-03T13:19:59.000Z> acacia227: i am fucking heartbroken :(
<2021-05-03T13:20:31.000Z> acacia227: i will never be happy knowing someone as perfect as him is out there somewhere but i have to settle for someone less than perfect
<2021-05-03T13:21:11.000Z> acacia227: i really hope they come back :( i've looking for hours through responses to wyatt's thread trying to find him for hous
<2021-05-03T13:21:27.000Z> acacia227: why does this shit happen to me :(
<2021-05-03T13:26:14.000Z> lewdthewides: eh, don't fall into that trap too much. A couple of texts aren't enough to tell who a person really is
<2021-05-03T13:26:42.000Z> acacia227: my minimum dating criteria are:
<2021-05-03T13:26:44.000Z> acacia227: -not a sub
<2021-05-03T13:26:47.000Z> acacia227: -is racist and right wing
<2021-05-03T13:26:51.000Z> acacia227: -has the same fetishes as me
<2021-05-03T13:27:09.000Z> acacia227: he is literally the only person after 10+ years of searching all over the internet who meets all 3 of those criteria
<2021-05-03T13:28:33.000Z> acacia227: i will never find anyone else as perfect as him ever again :(
<2021-05-03T13:35:06.000Z> lewdthewides: There's plenty of fish in the sea, mate. You just need to know where to look. I have to do some work right now, but I can talk more later if you want to
<2021-05-03T13:35:54.000Z> acacia227: i have looked on discord, art sites, gaming forums, porn sites, even boorus. i've never found anyone else who fits all 3
<2021-05-03T13:36:05.000Z> acacia227: i know one guy who is right wing and has the same kinks as me, but he's a sub
<2021-05-03T13:36:21.000Z> acacia227: and i now another guy who is a dom and has the same kinks as me, but he's a fucking leftist communist
<2021-05-03T13:36:55.000Z> acacia227: where else am i supposed to go? anyway i understand if you've got work to do mate
<2021-07-08T17:56:21.000Z> acacia227: i'm deleting my account. i just want to know that it was your users relentlessly bullying me which caused me to leave the site. and i will be telling other people not to use this instance and boycott it because of its toxic userbase
<2021-07-08T17:57:38.000Z> lewdthewides: You could just block them, but it's your choice
<2021-07-08T17:59:15.000Z> acacia227: you're right, it's my choice. i've chosen to end interaction with this toxic site. your users are lowlife scum
<2021-07-08T18:01:18.000Z> lewdthewides: If they're breaking site rules, I'll deal with them. But I didn't see anything unusual so you're gonna have to spoonfeed me some examples
<2021-07-08T18:05:38.000Z> acacia227: i don't like being bullied. simple as
<2021-07-08T18:08:53.000Z> lewdthewides: I mean, you're in the thunderdome being on this side of the fediverse. If you don't just go with the flow and play it off, you're gonna have a rough time even on other instances