<2022-06-22T23:15:18.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: @Shebang is a good personhttps://freespeech.group/users/shebang
<2022-06-22T23:17:31.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: I learned about transitioning sometime before I was 10 just reading through an encyclopedia. Most poa.st users are only familiar with what's been forced on them, and they're very retaliatory.
<2022-06-22T23:18:37.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: I can refer a few others but I'll have to dig through my follows, too many nicks to rememberStay safe and sane
<2022-06-23T04:38:43.000Z> Twisty: Thank you. I felt engaging with them was a waste of time, so I dipped. Plus... it was draining my mental health.
<2022-06-23T06:48:07.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: I first learned about trans ~20+ years ago as a kid going through encyclopedias, being female seemed like a better fit but I had a religious family and went with "God made you that way". My feelings/opinions are more sympathetic than most poa.st ers
<2022-06-23T06:50:06.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: Unfortunate that your Twitter got banned... If you stay on fedi, I'd recommend making a different account so you're not harrassed later. Accounts can also be migrated from one server to another, so you can settle wherever the local timeline is friendliest
<2022-06-23T06:51:39.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: I'd recommend privately talking with @Moon , he's one of the longest running admins back when it was just GNU Social
<2022-06-23T07:02:43.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: A lot of poa.st ers and kiwifarms.cc users in particular have some personal baggage behind their violently anti-trans stances. I don't think most of them knew anything pre-2015.Anyway @shebang is really nice, and has alts on several servers, she could give advice on security/separation and how to avoid the shitshow :0450: Everybody on fedi is a radical one way or another, even if it's just radical gardening. @gear runs a cosplay server he just started some months ago. @graf  has some info on running servers, so if you ever want that extra control the option's there.
<2022-06-23T07:11:13.000Z> xenmen@shitposter.club: Also @icedquinn , they're good
<2022-06-24T20:59:18.000Z> Twisty: These are really good. I appreciate the sympathy, really.